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climax2 -> Predator Alert-OK DOM (9/12/2012 10:16:34 AM)

Hi,

I am not sure how to go about posting this but I wanted others to be aware to be careful that this is younger DOM in the OK area that appears to be a predator. He has charm, he has swag, and he is a powerful seducer. He will string you along, refuse to voice confirm or cam online. Just want to make sure that anyone pursuing a relationship makes sure that they are extremely careful.

I have had three back to back bad experiences, and I thought the last time was bad because a DOM tried to move in with me, and I was not aware he was in a relationship with a crazy woman. She started threatening me via text and email. Then this charming DOM seemingly falls into my lap....seems nice enough, professional, etc. But he tries skyping from work (what was he thinking) and gets caught. In any event, this is not about sour grapes, but about making sure you listen to that inner or little voice that says, something doesn't seem right.

Take care and blessings to all.



mnottertail -> RE: Predator Alert-OK DOM (9/12/2012 10:18:29 AM)

Well, you apparently had 2 climaxes out of it, so let's not count it as a total loss.



GreedyTop -> RE: Predator Alert-OK DOM (9/12/2012 10:21:56 AM)

yay for attempting blacklisting. [8|]



myotherself -> RE: Predator Alert-OK DOM (9/12/2012 10:23:17 AM)

So you encountered an old guy or a kid masquerading as a dom, a guy who lied about his relationship status and a guy who is as dumb as a brick.

Welcome to the internet....[8|]



Lockit -> RE: Predator Alert-OK DOM (9/12/2012 10:25:31 AM)

Your profile is hidden and you hide while trying to expose a younger un-named dom in OK because guys online like to play DomJuan? Take your online lessons just like the rest of us, move on, get over it and seriously, warning adults that there are bad guys (and chicks online) is about as helpful as a fart in the wrong crowd.



itsapixie -> RE: Predator Alert-OK DOM (9/12/2012 10:39:59 AM)

Your intention is appreciated, but it seems like you might be the one in need of a warning?? I'd say don't invest yourself so easily/quickly in someone, whether it's online or not. There's only about a gazzilion people on this site alone pretending to be something they're not. If it seems too good to be true, it probably is. Lesson learned, now you know.



OsideGirl -> RE: Predator Alert-OK DOM (9/12/2012 11:06:56 AM)


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ORIGINAL: climax2


I have had three back to back bad experiences


Which means that you need to sit down and do some serious self evaluation. You need to figure out why you're making poor choices and stop it from happening again.



mnottertail -> RE: Predator Alert-OK DOM (9/12/2012 11:16:32 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: climax2


I have had three back to back bad experiences


Which means that you need to sit down and do some serious self evaluation. You need to figure out why you're making poor choices and stop it from happening again.



Talk about your mattress backed sluts, hah?




lazarus1983 -> RE: Predator Alert-OK DOM (9/12/2012 11:38:42 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: climax2

Hi,

I am not sure how to go about posting this but I wanted others to be aware to be careful that this is younger DOM in the OK area that appears to be a predator. He has charm, he has swag, and he is a powerful seducer.


So he's the Old Spice guy?



TNDommeK -> RE: Predator Alert-OK DOM (9/12/2012 11:56:31 AM)

When the word "swag" was used, I stopped reading.



tj444 -> RE: Predator Alert-OK DOM (9/12/2012 12:13:31 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: climax2
I thought the last time was bad because a DOM tried to move in with me, and I was not aware he was in a relationship with a crazy woman. She started threatening me via text and email.

just curious as to how the previous Dom's crazy woman got your number to text and your email addy???.. since she had access to this info, I am guessing that they lived together??? and, I take it that instead of moving in with you, he just stayed with her??? Instead of saying she was crazy, I would look at it as her doing you a favor and you finding out just in time what kinda guy he really was (meaning not worth having).. and actually,... I would feel sorry for her if she is still stuck with the sleazy dude.. cuz ya know he will be at it again..

I always want to visit any new guy's home (before anything between us happens) to make sure he isnt living with someone.. just suggesting a visit at least gets rid of the lying cheatin' married dudes.. [:D]



stellauk -> RE: Predator Alert-OK DOM (9/12/2012 12:45:47 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: climax2

I have had three back to back bad experiences



I'm sorry to hear that, but I think developing a sense of responsibility for your own decisions and actions might help.



culareD -> RE: Predator Alert-OK DOM (9/12/2012 12:56:43 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: itsapixie

Your intention is appreciated, but it seems like you might be the one in need of a warning?? I'd say don't invest yourself so easily/quickly in someone, whether it's online or not. There's only about a gazzilion people on this site alone pretending to be something they're not. If it seems too good to be true, it probably is. Lesson learned, now you know.


YEP! Learning sucks, but learn anyway, and you will go far. :)



lizi -> RE: Predator Alert-OK DOM (9/12/2012 1:05:52 PM)

Just a general question....why do so very many adults seem to think that BDSM offers up some kind of protection against bad people/experiences? It's like people think they're dealing with an instant magic spell, BDSM somehow is supposed to protect the individual against the usual pitfalls in life when it comes to meeting others and interacting with them. I honestly don't get the multitude of people who come here to the boards to say they can't get a partner, they found a bad partner, the partner they are with doesn't do the magical things that everyone knows Dominants/submissives are supposed to do and therefore aren't following the 'rules', etc.

Is WIITWD such a perfect world that only the right things ever happen? Why is it that people don't think they have to work or watch out for themselves when it comes to BDSM? I honestly don't get it.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Predator Alert-OK DOM (9/12/2012 1:11:53 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

When the word "swag" was used, I stopped reading.


OOH! Does that mean he was a pirate?



TNDommeK -> RE: Predator Alert-OK DOM (9/12/2012 1:18:49 PM)

Possibly but in that instance I would have kept reading, as it wold have been more enjoyable. I can bet that the OP uses terms like "yolo" and "cray cray". If I could hammer and nail people's mouths shut every time they used those terms, this world would be a better place.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Predator Alert-OK DOM (9/12/2012 1:30:06 PM)

What is "yolo"? SO not up with the young people's lingo... [&o]



CRYPTICLXVI -> RE: Predator Alert-OK DOM (9/12/2012 1:46:54 PM)

[image]http://www.fugly.com/media/IMAGES/Random/yolo-word-you-only-live-once.jpg[/image]



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Predator Alert-OK DOM (9/12/2012 2:00:04 PM)

~I'm so confused~

ETA: Urban Dictionary makes me sad. [&o]



LookieNoNookie -> RE: Predator Alert-OK DOM (9/12/2012 5:33:04 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Well, you apparently had 2 climaxes out of it, so let's not count it as a total loss.


ROFLMFFAO



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