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New here, need tobe taught - 9/13/2012 12:18:41 AM

Johnnyboy25

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I'm just gettin into this, I'd like to be taught exactly what to do and told what to do ;) I have photos to send and I'm down to chat. I like to get freaky and I want to be tol what to do.

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RE: New here, need tobe taught - 9/13/2012 6:05:22 AM

DarkSteven

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Okay. Your first assignment is to rewrite your profile. Saying "I'm down for all sorts of stuff. Write me and ask" won't do it. Instead, write a full profile that describes your non-kink interests and shows a sense of style. Add pictures of you doing activities - riding, sports, looking studious and thoughtful, playing a musical instrument, whatever activities define you.

Welcome to collarme.

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RE: New here, need tobe taught - 9/13/2012 6:18:07 AM

AthenaSurrenders

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Welcome!

And yes, what DarkSteven said. There are lots more men than women on this site, dominant women are especially rare. They aren't likely to start writing to you on the off chance that you have something in common, since there's a good chance you won't and it will waste their time. Put something about yourself on your profile, then at least when they look they might say 'hey, he's into waterskiing/alternative history novels/synchronised swimming and he's looking for a long term relationship/one night stand/friends with benefits - sounds like we might hit it off!'

You've got lots of competition so sell yourself. I know not many people like having to describe themselves on a profile, it feels awkward, but dommes are spoilt for choice and if you don't sell yourself, you can bet they will move onto the next guy.

Also, come join in some discussion threads! Lots to learn there.

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RE: New here, need tobe taught - 9/13/2012 6:51:27 AM

DarkSteven

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ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders

You've got lots of competition so sell yourself.

Which brings up the second point, which I omitted - Dominant women generally don't take initiative to meet others online because they're already swamped dealing with the messages they get. So you'll have to initiate contacts, Johnny.

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: New here, need tobe taught - 9/13/2012 7:14:50 AM

ChatteParfaitt

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Welcome to the discussion side of CM, johnboy.

Here's your first lesson: Turn the porn off. Stop masturbating. Start treating women, even dominant women, like actual human beings as opposed to fetish delivery devices.

While you are attempting to accomplish the above, do everything you can to learn and discover more about this lifestyle, from attending munches to reading books to finding a local mentor.

< Message edited by ChatteParfaitt -- 9/13/2012 7:16:30 AM >

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