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Question to chastity wearers, or key holders - 9/15/2012 4:23:06 AM   
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I have been wearing my chastity for a little over a day..is it normal for the ring that goes underneath your sack to really irritate your balls and make it red and painful?...i am sure that it is normal but just wondering and making sure i got it on right lol..also wondering if it gets less painful as you get used to the device?...
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RE: Question to chastity wearers, or key holders - 9/16/2012 11:08:34 AM   
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without knowing what brand device you are using it is difficult to give advice. i found from the cb6000 and birdlock's that the first approach is to try a larger ring if you can. if the balls pop back out than stay with what you have.

use lots of coco butter or moisturizing lotion. as long as you do not let the irritation get too far along, try to stay with it and it does become easier and less irritating. i think the body does adjust over time.

i wore mine for extensive periods successfully and loved it. good luck.

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RE: Question to chastity wearers, or key holders - 9/16/2012 11:28:42 AM   
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Everything experiment said and more. It is traditional that there be fitting issues, most especially if it is metal.

I have good friends whose wife keeps her sub husband in chastity much of the time. He sas a CB 6200 (I think) with a PA piercing to keep it in place. The device was custom made. It had to be sent back for adjustments for the piercing. Then he *still* had to get re-pierced.

Male subbies, I tell ya! He (obviously) loves being in chastity and is a maso as well.

So yeah, expect some hassles with it.

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RE: Question to chastity wearers, or key holders - 9/16/2012 6:57:18 PM   
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I had that problem with a CB 2000 that ultimately lead to me not being able to wear it. It never really got better, and though I could mitigate the irritation by coating the contact spots with baby power before I put it on and trying to rub it on every day around it with the cage on, it continued to be pretty bad eventually.

However, I believe they've discontinued the CB 2000, so not sure if that's what you have. But I did suffer severe irritation in that exact spot, as well as occasionally irritation on the upper pubic area as well.

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RE: Question to chastity wearers, or key holders - 9/16/2012 8:36:14 PM   
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I'll suggest you to apply some lotion or baby oil for the skin under the ring at lease three time per day or change to a bigger ring.

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RE: Question to chastity wearers, or key holders - 9/16/2012 8:52:01 PM   
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Try some SportsShield. It's a silicone based lubricant made for athletes to stop skin and clothing rubs (it's not like silicone based sex lubes). I suggest getting it in roll-on and not the powder... The powder gets all over and you DO NOT want to get it on the floor, somebody might die.

Make sure your hair is neatly trimmed, roll the SportShield on really well, then try the device... But give it a few days off to let the skin heal up before you do so. If you don't, it's liable to just keep irritating worse even with the lubricant.

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RE: Question to chastity wearers, or key holders - 9/18/2012 11:40:40 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: hairlover123

I have been wearing my chastity for a little over a day..is it normal for the ring that goes underneath your sack to really irritate your balls and make it red and painful?


Sorry I'm late reading this thread. But I think others have already given you the answer that I'm about to give.

Firstly, there is no universal answer to these questions. Everybody's body is different. Some people will feel uncomfortable wearing a certain chastity device, while others will find that the exact same model feels great. So I always suggest that people try several different models to see which one works best for you.

My personal experience is that the ring underneath my sack can cause a lot of irritation. So there are two things that I always do. Firstly, start off using the LARGEST ring that you can wear without slipping out. Most newbies want the device to be as tight as possible, but this isn't the time to be a masochist. Instead, let your body adjust to the looser ring. Once you're used to it, then you may want to gradually go down to a smaller size.

Secondly, always lubricate your skin. If you don't use plenty of lotion, or baby oil, or some other lubricant, the friction from the device rubbing against your skin is going to cause chafing and skin irritation. I've even had a device cut me and cause bleeding. So make sure you use a good lubricant to reduce friction.

Good luck with your device.
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RE: Question to chastity wearers, or key holders - 9/18/2012 6:15:57 PM   
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Thanks for the advise guys!

I am using the cb6000 the only problem i am having with it is i can pretty much slip out of it if i wanted to. Is this normal? I did start out with the larger ring but gradually moved down to the smallest one i could wear with still being able to wear the device. It still feels loose, not really where the ring is but in between the ring and the actual device for your penis. I can slip my penis out of it, i feel like something is wrong? but when i looked it up on the internet (because the device really does not come with any instructions) it seems that i am properly putting it on.


Thanks!

-Alex

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RE: Question to chastity wearers, or key holders - 9/18/2012 6:19:56 PM   
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Fitting chastity devices is very difficult, Alex, and unfortunately there's no really good guide. Maybe there's a fetlife group where the guys discuss what works?

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RE: Question to chastity wearers, or key holders - 9/18/2012 6:32:06 PM   
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What I have found with all the cb's is that if a guy tries enough he will always be able to slip out of it.
For example, if the ring is not tight enough he can maneuver one of his balls out, and then the other balls and dick also escape.
And if the ring is as tight as can be (without damaging circulation), he can just lubricate that ring with a q-tip until his ball escapes, etc.

The male scrotum is never 'static' and is quite flexible, very, very difficult to lock in such a way as to be escape proof.
BUT what always seems to work is if the head of the penis is pierced, and then the piercing is tightly connected to the cock-cage;
this works because even if a guy gets his balls free, the penis cannot be pulled out as it is connected to the tip of the cock cage.
Of course, you have to accept having a pierced cock for this to be tried.

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RE: Question to chastity wearers, or key holders - 9/18/2012 6:35:05 PM   
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The piercing is not safe for long term, IMO. Having that piercing ripped out by accident would NOT be a happy moment, and I am betting insurance wouldn't cover the surgical repair.



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RE: Question to chastity wearers, or key holders - 9/18/2012 7:10:19 PM   
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Yea i am going to pass on the piercing idea but thanks for the suggestion!
It is not like i am trying to get out of it but i just do not like the idea that i could if i wanted to. Is there any other chastity devices you guys have worked with besides a CB that may work better?

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RE: Question to chastity wearers, or key holders - 9/19/2012 9:10:47 AM   
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you have to use the right spacer as well as the smallest ring size you can handle. i have found that the smaller spacer will prevent you from taking your dick out.

another possibility is to use the CB6000S version. the small version squeezes the penis into the tube and does not allow much play room. it uses the same rings and spacers.

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RE: Question to chastity wearers, or key holders - 9/19/2012 1:43:13 PM   
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I think i may have misplaced some of the spacers :(.. I am going to do some research on the S..I want to make sure i get one that works good and i can still tolerate.

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RE: Question to chastity wearers, or key holders - 9/23/2012 9:45:48 AM   
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birdlocked is the most comfortable. with a PA, the PA-5000 is lightweight and secure, but will probably break on you in the long run. a Lori tube with PA or frenum piercing is probably the most comfortable and secure, although if you're a masochist and don't want the piercing, there are a couple variants of the Kali Teeth bracelet that are effective, if sized properly.

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