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Dirty talk: What's the hottest thing your sub can say?D... - 9/15/2012 7:10:00 PM

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Do you love it when she begs you to fuck her harder? Tells you how good you taste? Calls you Daddy? A lot of subs have a hard time with dirty talk--we'd love your inside advice on how to drive you crazy with our words. TIA
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RE: Dirty talk: What's the hottest thing your sub can s... - 9/15/2012 7:19:18 PM

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That's true! It's very exciting the first time a good man kneels, or has his ass Taken, and yes, when a good man blushes and begs to be fucked.
But his quietest catch of breath or moan of 'Please, can I taste you?' is very, very exciting, too.
So are the abbreviations and codes he's allowed to use in public.

It's like a beautiful diamond with so many facets that catch the light and shine even brighter . . .
But of course the best words are the ones I say to him in celebration: "I'm COMING!!"

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RE: Dirty talk: What's the hottest thing your sub can s... - 9/15/2012 7:30:17 PM

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Seriously?

There are so many correct yet analogous answers to this. As an amateur writer, I would say raunchiness is the sledgehammer of descriptors.

"I want you to fuck me til I scream." (yawn)
"I want to squirm and squeal as you fill me." (ok, starting to get there)
"Throw me down on the fucking floor and make me take it all." (better)

But if I really wanted to draw attention:

"Let me slip beneath you to the place where I belong. Hold my arms out wide, my wrists yours for the taking. Watch me tremble under the hunger of your gaze; hear the stifled moan of anticipation and the shudder of my aching breath. My legs slip open for you, willingly vulnerable. Have me as you will and in your pleasure, find my own."

(Fifty Shades, my ass.)

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RE: Dirty talk: What's the hottest thing your sub can s... - 9/15/2012 7:45:17 PM

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RE: Dirty talk: What's the hottest thing your sub can s... - 9/15/2012 7:47:29 PM

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But if I really wanted to draw attention:

"Let me slip beneath you to the place where I belong. Hold my arms out wide, my wrists yours for the taking. Watch me tremble under the hunger of your gaze; hear the stifled moan of anticipation and the shudder of my aching breath. My legs slip open for you, willingly vulnerable. Have me as you will and in your pleasure, find my own."

I hope you are kidding. If someone could say all that to you during intense fun, then you are doing something wrong.

I can hardly remain coherent during special times. From what I have been told, my screams or moans are the ultimate hotness.

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RE: Dirty talk: What's the hottest thing your sub can s... - 9/15/2012 8:07:04 PM

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it's not words....it's screams of agony that he gets off on.

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RE: Dirty talk: What's the hottest thing your sub can s... - 9/15/2012 8:53:03 PM

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RE: Dirty talk: What's the hottest thing your sub can s... - 9/15/2012 11:22:05 PM

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I thought the same thing. Who the heck has the time to say all of that crap? Next there will be trembling at the sight of his throbbing manhood....bleck! It's sex not a Harlequin Romance ...Fifty Shades sucks in a major way.

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RE: Dirty talk: What's the hottest thing your sub can s... - 9/16/2012 12:15:56 AM

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quote:

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But if I really wanted to draw attention:

"Let me slip beneath you to the place where I belong. Hold my arms out wide, my wrists yours for the taking. Watch me tremble under the hunger of your gaze; hear the stifled moan of anticipation and the shudder of my aching breath. My legs slip open for you, willingly vulnerable. Have me as you will and in your pleasure, find my own."

I hope you are kidding. If someone could say all that to you during intense fun, then you are doing something wrong.

I can hardly remain coherent during special times. From what I have been told, my screams or moans are the ultimate hotness.

I'm glad that works for you. I'm offering the alternative of seductive, sensual, erotic talk, which can also be dirty. Anyone can come up with "Fuck me, uh uh, right there, yes, yes, oh baby..." (as many cheap porn flicks will attest).

I also enjoy phrases like, "Use me like a dirty little whore!", but it's all in context, and maybe a little in timing. After all, there is stages like foreplay, where most people are still coherent, and in those stages more complex speech is possible, if desired. Note the wording. If someone chooses to induce complex speech, they are hardly "doing something wrong", quite the opposite.

If we want to restrict dirty talk only to those moments where the body's chemical production is running into overtime, the results, translated into text, might be eerily similar to zombie sounds.

Maybe none of that works for you. C'est la vie; when you have sex you ought to enjoy it by doing what works for you. This is just one opinion. What often saddens me in these forums is the repeated, seemingly inexorable choice to judge instead of trying to understand. I think it's the primary killer of any significant discussion.

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RE: Dirty talk: What's the hottest thing your sub can s... - 9/16/2012 1:27:54 AM

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If I'm talking during sex, chances are I'm bored.
That's not a good thing for anyone.

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RE: Dirty talk: What's the hottest thing your sub can s... - 9/16/2012 3:39:44 AM

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"Yes"

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RE: Dirty talk: What's the hottest thing your sub can s... - 9/16/2012 5:02:39 AM

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I'd have to say that generally for me
brevity is the soul of passion.

My observation is the favorite words
are yes and please accompanied by
groans, whimpering and screams.
No and please also can bring a smile.

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RE: Dirty talk: What's the hottest thing your sub can s... - 9/16/2012 5:07:27 AM

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quote:

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But if I really wanted to draw attention:

"Let me slip beneath you to the place where I belong. Hold my arms out wide, my wrists yours for the taking. Watch me tremble under the hunger of your gaze; hear the stifled moan of anticipation and the shudder of my aching breath. My legs slip open for you, willingly vulnerable. Have me as you will and in your pleasure, find my own."

I hope you are kidding. If someone could say all that to you during intense fun, then you are doing something wrong.

I can hardly remain coherent during special times. From what I have been told, my screams or moans are the ultimate hotness.

I couldn't say that during sex (or foreplay.) But I am totally plagiarizing it to send in an email for fore-foreplay.

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RE: Dirty talk: What's the hottest thing your sub can s... - 9/16/2012 5:09:01 AM

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stef FTW!

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RE: Dirty talk: What's the hottest thing your sub can s... - 9/16/2012 11:35:39 AM

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Do you love it when she begs you to fuck her harder? Tells you how good you taste? Calls you Daddy? A lot of subs have a hard time with dirty talk--we'd love your inside advice on how to drive you crazy with our words. TIA
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Obviously, you are seeking an answer to a question that you must determine for yourself. As you may know, what works for Myself or the next person will not necessarily work for you. There are variances related to personal choices of eroticism.

Personally speaking, I do not have a rote answer for what I find verbally erotic. I am inclined to be in the moment and delight in exploring those edges where a language of a different type is understood.

I wish you well
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RE: Dirty talk: What's the hottest thing your sub can s... - 9/16/2012 12:55:53 PM

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quote:

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ORIGINAL: RemoteUser

But if I really wanted to draw attention:

"Let me slip beneath you to the place where I belong. Hold my arms out wide, my wrists yours for the taking. Watch me tremble under the hunger of your gaze; hear the stifled moan of anticipation and the shudder of my aching breath. My legs slip open for you, willingly vulnerable. Have me as you will and in your pleasure, find my own."

I hope you are kidding. If someone could say all that to you during intense fun, then you are doing something wrong.

I can hardly remain coherent during special times. From what I have been told, my screams or moans are the ultimate hotness.

I'm glad that works for you. I'm offering the alternative of seductive, sensual, erotic talk, which can also be dirty. Anyone can come up with "Fuck me, uh uh, right there, yes, yes, oh baby..." (as many cheap porn flicks will attest).

I also enjoy phrases like, "Use me like a dirty little whore!", but it's all in context, and maybe a little in timing. After all, there is stages like foreplay, where most people are still coherent, and in those stages more complex speech is possible, if desired. Note the wording. If someone chooses to induce complex speech, they are hardly "doing something wrong", quite the opposite.

If we want to restrict dirty talk only to those moments where the body's chemical production is running into overtime, the results, translated into text, might be eerily similar to zombie sounds.

Maybe none of that works for you. C'est la vie; when you have sex you ought to enjoy it by doing what works for you. This is just one opinion. What often saddens me in these forums is the repeated, seemingly inexorable choice to judge instead of trying to understand. I think it's the primary killer of any significant discussion.

I apologize. I am really not judging you or anyone. I should not have asked if you were kidding, as you clearly are not. I should have only stated my own thoughts to the OP.

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RE: Dirty talk: What's the hottest thing your sub can s... - 9/16/2012 1:04:52 PM

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RE: Dirty talk: What's the hottest thing your sub can s... - 9/16/2012 2:25:08 PM

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...just a second, let me slip out my dentures.

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RE: Dirty talk: What's the hottest thing your sub can s... - 9/16/2012 2:38:01 PM

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"Daddy! Come quick! Those college girls that rent nextdoor are sunbathing in the nude, again!

LOL this would certainly work over here.

Although "Daddy" is not a "dirty word" over here, as the OP implied.

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RE: Dirty talk: What's the hottest thing your sub can s... - 9/16/2012 2:39:58 PM

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Yes Sir usually works well. Whatever I say, she says "yes, Sir".

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