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Suhail -> Fellow masters (9/16/2012 4:10:28 AM)
I am looking for a slave, how do i go about it? I found a lot of profiles to be fake. Any tips or advice? Thank you

LadyPact -> RE: Fellow masters (9/16/2012 4:12:07 AM)
Yeah. Go earn your leather. What?

MsLadySue -> RE: Fellow masters (9/16/2012 4:34:53 AM)
Use the Search feature at the top right of your screen. This question has been answered many times.

GreedyTop -> RE: Fellow masters (9/16/2012 6:09:43 AM)
once again, LAdyP.. I so adore you. I wish you'd come visit GA soon!

crazyml -> RE: Fellow masters (9/16/2012 6:49:48 AM)
Ello! This might sound as if I'm being snarky, I promise I'm not. Firstly... You might encounter a little flak over the "fellow masters" title. If you're at the beginning of your d/s journey - and the fact that you're asking this question suggests that you are - then some might think you're being a little previous in claiming to be a "master". I'd avoid the term, because some people will (doubtless wrongly) assume you're a buffoon. To your question...Again, this will be frustrating for some, as it's one that comes up all the time. Don't get the impression that the regulars don't like people that are new to this... It's the people who don't seem willing to have a go at figuring stuff out for themselves that annoy. We were all "new" once... But remember, while you can't help being new, you are responsible if you come over as a jackass. So... Let's workshop your question... This site has lots of people on it. A high proportion of the "cute female subs" are fake. Which is frustrating for Dom guys... But there's good news.. Most of the Dom guys are fucking idiots or only looking for wank fodder. So... All you need to do to catch loads of tail is find a genuine sub, not be a fucking idiot, and not be only looking for wank fodder. It is complicated by the fact that most of the genuine subs here are looking for a relationship... So if you're just looking for tail you might be disappointed. Now... Put yourself in the shoes of a sub fem.... What would a guy have to do to impress you? (hint... Think "profile" and first email for starters) [Ed to fix typos caused by writing this on a phone]

GreedyTop -> RE: Fellow masters (9/16/2012 7:03:27 AM)
ML.. you really must come visit Savannah...

DarkSteven -> RE: Fellow masters (9/16/2012 7:13:15 AM)
First, start with what crazyml said above. Then, as politely as possible - use your brain. Saying that you live in the UK without specifying the city doesn't accomplish much. It's nice that you were born in London, but where are you living now? Also, look at your pic as a thumbnail. The shadow behind you makes it look like you have weird upswept hair. These little things MATTER. Forget about finding a slave. You're nowhere near ready for that, and I suspect you are using the term interchangeably with "sub". Get thee to some local groups (If you still live in London, there are groups there). Find people to learn from, and hopefully some to learn with. Good luck.

crazyml -> RE: Fellow masters (9/16/2012 7:33:39 AM)
Oh, I plan to.

OsideGirl -> RE: Fellow masters (9/16/2012 8:45:18 AM)
ML was much nicer than most would have been and he has good advice....

GreedyTop -> RE: Fellow masters (9/16/2012 9:27:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crazyml Oh, I plan to. gets all warmfuzzy happy YAY!! we will have so much fun!!! Haunted tours, great pubs, even river tours!! HOURS of fun stuff, not defined!!

Arturas -> RE: Fellow masters (9/18/2012 3:53:18 PM)
quote: But there's good news.. Most of the Dom guys are fucking idiots or only looking for wank fodder. Well said. That is the good news. But,to the OP here's the bad news. The subs have gotten hardened from all these idiots so you have to make yourself stand out and while that seems easy it isn't because some of those idiots did a great job on their profile too, so the effort you make in contacting them will make all the difference in the world. The best approach is to be level headed and honest and never try impressing girls with your masterhood while writing cmail. Look close to home so you can meet and impress them that you are a real man using cmail and a master in person only. But, here is some more bad news. Some or most of these women have no clue what a master looks like except in their fantasy and lord knows you will never be exactly like their fantasy so you need to lead them into a new understanding of what a master really looks like, you of course, and that you are better than their fantasy and only with you, of course. Whew! That's a lot of work. But you can do it so get out there and snag one. Oh, and skip the leathers.

searching4mysir -> RE: Fellow masters (9/18/2012 4:54:35 PM)
OP, From a sub/slave's perspective (and remember, we are your target audience), fill out your profile more. Tell us who you are, where (approximately..closest city or county will do) you live, what makes you different from anyone else, what you have to offer, and what you expect out of the relationship. Keep your fetishes to the list on the left and tell us who you are outside of the kink/bedroom. As to the fetish list, throw in some non-kinky activities as well, and don't exaggerate your experience. We can see through that from a mile away. Remember, subs and slaves are people first, and kinky second. The fact that we are here says that we are kinky, so keep your initial email pretty vanilla (unless all you are looking for is a hookup). Remember that men outnumber the women, so you can't just sit back and wait for the women to flock to you (it doesn't work that way here). Most of the women here, even if they are only looking for casual sex, need to at least like the person they are hooking up with.

DarkSteven -> RE: Fellow masters (9/18/2012 5:29:24 PM)
He hasn't been on the site since 9/16 - the thread may well outlive him on collarme.

Kana -> RE: Fellow masters (9/18/2012 9:02:05 PM)
"There are no men like me. Only me." Jaime Lannister

KnightofMists -> RE: Fellow masters (9/18/2012 9:44:56 PM)
Check out Walmart. You can buy them cheap n the discount bin

Zevar -> RE: Fellow masters (9/22/2012 10:23:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Suhail I am looking for a slave, how do i go about it? I found a lot of profiles to be fake. Any tips or advice? Thank you Master thyself first, and soon enough, you will know!

GreedyTop -> RE: Fellow masters (9/22/2012 10:31:34 AM)
quote: "One of God's own prototypes. A high-powered mutant of some kind never even considered for mass production. Too weird to live, and too rare to die. " ok, Kana... enough said ;)

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