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ThundersCry -> RE: Keeping fantasies in place (10/3/2012 1:44:34 PM)
Welcome to the boards dude... This alternative lifestyle, having no other words to use, does NOT have an upperhand on fantisies! I would have to believe the majority of people have some to a certain degree.... This venue allowed me to open up and share them after holding them in for yearsssssss with someone I trusted careful who you share them with...I had one wench who went to my paster and told him I was into the bdsm lifestlyle LOL...and just being allowed to finally share them, even in shame, knowing I was not going to be judged etc, set me....free in many ways. Notice I did not say it was easy! Far from it. Some of mine need to remain just that, they even scare me...a li`l -L-... Some are on my bucket list and there is no reason they can`t be lived out with the right partner and people...its ok. Why not turn some into reality as long as all involved consent to it and are not being violated in ANY way, just for my selfish pleasures. Most like turning some into reality....lots of communication. Good luck!

AAkasha -> RE: Keeping fantasies in place (10/3/2012 2:25:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dreamcatcher88 Sometimes a fantasy is just that, a fantasy. Maybe one is not meant to bask in the shameless pleasures of the alternative lifestyle. Nevertheless, is there any fault in attempting to create a reality out from dream land? I have some pretty dangerous/extreme/impossible fantasies related to masturbating on top of an airtight plexiglass "coffin" shaped container my submissive/victim is in while he has to "seduce" me from below before the air runs out. It is sort of a combo of my breath control/escape artist fantasies all wrapped up into one. It led to a later "penalty box" fantasy/fetish with hockey (any time a man is inside of a clear box, ha!). In real life, I do a pretty good job getting the whole fetish/fantasy out of my system now and then with the clever use of showers that have clear glass doors and a good partner who knows what to do. Also the benefit of water and steam and lots of masturbation works wonders. No danger of anyone dying of asphyxiation is a side bonus! Akasha

fucktoyprincess -> RE: Keeping fantasies in place (10/3/2012 2:37:39 PM)
Some fantasies are extremely enjoyable when they turn into realities; others, less so. Depends on the fantasy, depends on you. Not much more to say on this with the limited info you've shared. A general answer to a very general question.

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