tsatske
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Joined: 3/9/2007 From: Louisville, KY Status: offline
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One of my oldest hard limits, among the first I identified: No marks that are going to be around longer than the Dom who is suggesting them. So, I entirely agree with you, Rick. My last Master and I discussed adding a few more tats (I have one), and I'm so glad we didn't since it turned out not to be forever, and tats are. OTOH, it does to some degree depend on how one feels about the ex. My master before my last one, I tried to get to mark me with cuttings that represented a fantasy of his, he would not because he doubted that we were for the remained of his life, but even if we were, that was the longest possible we could be for, and he was considerably older than I. he didn't want to leave me with marks when he wasn't around and I was trying to get on with life. I have to say, i would not mind having those marks, even thoguh we eventually broke up, I understood the reasons and we still talk and I have the greatest respect and affection for him, though I have been able to move on. His marks I would appreciate, but he decided against it.
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