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Dscplnky -> Male Slave Collar??? (11/3/2004 7:21:31 PM)
Hello everyone...I have a question about how to collar my male sub. I want to collar him but I am having a hard time finding a collar/necklace that is not so obvious because he does work with the public. I am looking for more of a necklace that has a symbol of submissiveness or slavery that only people in the lifestyle would recognize. Can anyone here help me find something that will work? Thank you, Ms. Jenny

proudsub -> RE: Male Slave Collar??? (11/3/2004 8:04:27 PM)
Here is a thread with a site that has BDSM jewelry: BDSM jewelry

sub4hire -> RE: Male Slave Collar??? (11/3/2004 8:47:49 PM)
What about a gold chain with the BDSM emblem on it? Hanging from it? The emblem is the photo that is near your name. Under vanilla.

BeachMystress -> RE: Male Slave Collar??? (11/3/2004 9:06:10 PM)
You may want to consider a bracelet or something that easily passes for daily wear depending upon his profession. If he has a high profile or sensitive job it can be damaging for someone to recognize a symbol and out him. You say who would recognize the BDSM emblem or symbols that isn't in the community? My sister and her boyfriend, several of my good but vanilla friends and at least one local reporter who did a piece on BDSM a few years back. You are better off to choose a piece that means something to the two of you. Maybe a ring engraved with property of Ms. Jenny. The real collar is invisible, around the both of your hearts. When you're at a BDSM event, he'll be wearing his formal collar, so you need not worry people will not realize he is yours. *Congrats and a long and happy collaring to you both.*

compes -> RE: Male Slave Collar??? (11/3/2004 11:32:44 PM)
Perhaps you can use a bolo tie? Basically a heavy cord with an ornament on it. You could possibly make / modify one of these to be more collar-like. Compes

Sylverdawn -> RE: Male Slave Collar??? (11/3/2004 11:37:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dscplnky Hello everyone...I have a question about how to collar my male sub. I want to collar him but I am having a hard time finding a collar/necklace that is not so obvious because he does work with the public. I am looking for more of a necklace that has a symbol of submissiveness or slavery that only people in the lifestyle would recognize. Can anyone here help me find something that will work? Thank you, Ms. Jenny How about a set of dog tags the date of Collaring on it.. and or the kanja symbol for slave .. and or his slave name.. and or your name etc..etc..etc.. silver tags are easy to find and lots of people wear them

velvetvixen -> RE: Male Slave Collar??? (11/4/2004 5:50:28 AM)
My collar is made of a flexible metal mesh that is covered with metal slides that have an oval cut out of them so that the mesh shows through, like a little picture frame. What I wear everyday is a gold chain with an oval pendant that matches the slide from the collar. Perhaps you could have a ring made that would match some piece of the collar.

MiladyElaine -> RE: Male Slave Collar??? (11/4/2004 9:27:34 AM)
I bought one from Dreamstrike.com. It's a plain round, steel collar that fastens with a key. (Those that look like L's?) Can't think of the name. Anyway, I thought it would be nice and discreet. Looks like a new age necklace.

stef -> RE: Male Slave Collar??? (11/4/2004 1:50:43 PM)
It's an Allen or hex key. ~stef

stormiKnightBEAR -> RE: Male Slave Collar??? (11/4/2004 3:30:20 PM)
Greetings Ms. Jenny, This girl's Master picked out a Tiger's Eye beaded necklace with a heart locket that opened to reveal a small red rose. This girl gets comments all the time at the lovely Tiger's Eye and the heart catching and drawing your eyes to it. Find something You like and that he enjoys.....Your collar only has to be what means something to the two of Y/you. The rest of the world be dayumed!!!! This girl wishes for you both to be very happy in the path you have chosen!! Best Wishes, stormi property of Master Bear

MiladyElaine -> RE: Male Slave Collar??? (11/4/2004 6:22:23 PM)
That's it! Allen key... thank ya, sfgrrl!

MsPurrmeow -> RE: Male Slave Collar??? (11/5/2004 12:03:16 AM)
My previous slave wore a "halter ring" collar that actually laid rather low on his neck and could easily but under a shirt without being obvious. Outside of his shirt, it was rather obviously a collar, but when it wasn't necessary, no one could see it. I have embedded a picture. Brenda from LeatherCellar created the one he wore. I got his a bit larger than the one shown and it slid readily under a workshirt or dress shirt when necessary. A locking buckle on the back also went well under the shirt. The only issue that might be a giveaway is that he had two experiences where he was running at the office and his lock "jingled" a bit. No one else notice, but he did. This piece also looks fantastic as a dress "tie" when in lifestyle company, with a silk dress shirt. I find that of value as well. Purr [image]local://upfiles/60039/03F7CC52C62C41EBA42388935E1870E6.jpg[/image]

n -> RE: Male Slave Collar??? (11/5/2004 7:17:18 PM)
my owner could never figure out a way to collar me in a permanent way, either. as much as we liked having me wear a collar or chain, it just never worked with open necked shirts. i guess if i wore a tie everyday it would be different. alas. anyway, the compromise solution was a waist chain that rode just above my hips. it was fixed permanently and all clothes fit over it. it also could be used to attach my wrists to without being so obvious. n

stormiKnightBEAR -> RE: Male Slave Collar??? (11/5/2004 7:25:38 PM)
you could also do a tatoo..... stormi has two.... stormi property of Master Bear

Suleiman -> RE: Male Slave Collar??? (11/6/2004 1:40:39 AM)
Hey - branding's fun, too. My 24/7 may have gone south long ago, but thanks to this scar on my butt, I still have a memento of all the good times...

MrThorns -> RE: Male Slave Collar??? (11/6/2004 8:26:11 AM)
Ever consider a cockring? A male chastity belt? Cocksheath? Gates of Hell? Even a simple chain. Point is that whatever you find pleasing and appropriate will be fine. The collar that I am concerned with is the collar a slave wears around her heart. Any other collar (to me) is simply window dressing. ~Thorns

Laura -> RE: Male Slave Collar??? (11/12/2004 2:42:01 PM)
I missed this thread when it was fresh. Why not have a "day collar"? A ring works nicely. An ordinary gold band wouldn't be noticed or add some decoration if you want to make sure it's not taken for a wedding band. I enjoyed getting creative with day collars when I had an online male sub. Sometimes he wore ribbons or elastics around his cock and other times he drew symbols on various parts of his body. Dragons were my favourite.

MistressFire70 -> RE: Male Slave Collar??? (11/12/2004 4:17:29 PM)
How about a Guiche piercing? It is a ring in the scrotal area. You can add small tags to it to create an effect much like the tags in the Story of O. And it’s removable if necessary. Here’s a link to pictures of an actual piercing. http://www.hektik.org/gallery/albup60 Fire

garylee -> RE: Male Slave Collar??? (1/19/2005 9:08:27 AM)
You could have a bracelet.....or a tag on his key chain.....frenum piercing with a tag on it. Your imagination is Your only limitation. garylee

MrGrimm -> RE: Male Slave Collar??? (1/19/2005 12:32:41 PM)
I make quite an assortment of classy collars in Silver, Gold, and Platinum. I have found that for males, a chain type collar with a special locking mechanism works best and is most descrite. My screw-down chain collars fit this bill nicely. You can get more info on www.bondagecollars.com. Cordially, Grimm- Here is the basic Idea. While the clasp will remain the same, many different chain styles are available. Or, there is even the option of having the clasp added to your favorite current chain. YOu would just have to send me the chain so I can install the clasp. These clasps are all hand-made by myself. [image]local://upfiles/43823/5D11AB4A92B941D69DD976EB9284554A.jpg[/image]

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