tj444
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ORIGINAL: tj444 I seriously doubt the mother was watching her kids like she claimed.. so both are lying.. Neither of these women are going to like the outcome much.. I would expect their neighbors are treating them both like they are the plague and trying to avoid being dragged into their battle.. I am sure the cops dont appreciate being dragged into it either.. but kids are a touchy issue, i think the cops err on the side of safety of the kids, given bad press about cases where abused kids have fallen thru the cracks.. cops dont want to not act when they should have.. I actually agree that both are likely lying. But I am still struggling to understand how arresting a mother of two and keeping her in jail overnight serves the purpose of keeping the kids safe. The neighbor was not claiming the children were abused. Again, I ask, under whose care were the children after the police arrested their mother? Certainly not the neighbor. I am also trying to imagine how traumatizing this was for the children (to have their mother arrested and held overnight?) If I were a young child I would be frightened by that. Again, when I view the clip of the mother speaking from her home - it appears to be a nice, normal neighborhood. I'm trying to understand how we go from children playing outside in a safe neighborhood (even if unsupervised) to a mother of two spending the night in jail....for nothing.... I expect the kids would have been with child services (or whatever that dept is called). From what the article said, the kids needed to be checked out medically to see if any were actually hit by the car & hurt or if the mother wasnt taking care of them the way she should be.. If the neighbor is saying the kids were left unsupervised, it sounds like it might be considered to be a similar situation as a mother leaving her kids alone while she went out to the store or bar or on a date or whatever, which the govt/cops would not think is a safe situation (depending on the ages of the kids).. Also, its possible the neighbor might have made other serious claims that warranted the mother being questioned/kept in custody that might not have been reported in the article. Who knows what the real story is, perhaps the neighbor said she saw the mom hitting the kids too in which case, how would you expect the cops to treat the situation? Its not like all news stories are unbiased, sometimes they are given a certain slant simply by leaving out certain info.. I remember a neighbor a long time ago being interviewed on tv and the news story said that the mom was fighting to keep her kids from unfairly being taken away by her parents.. blah, blah, blah.. her and her hubby would scream at each other for hours at a time (inside, outside) and the whole neighborhood could hear them (was that a good enviroment for the kids?).. they were a horrible family but the sympathetic news story didnt show that part of it or that the mom would sometimes slap the kids, etc.. The hubby would do weird things all the time, like throw their dog poop into our yard and stuff.. and after work everyday he would sweep the concrete sidewalk literally for hours.. lol If you are basing a family situation on the nice, normal neighborhood then that may not be accurate for every family, that would be judging every book by its cover.. violence, alcoholisim, sex abuse, child abuse, etc can and has happened before in all economic levels (not just in families in poor, slum neighborhoods).. just cuz it looks like a nice, normal neighborhood doesnt mean all the families living there are nice normal families, some may be disfunctional and just hide it well and look like they are normal like everyone else...
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