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The true story... - 9/21/2012 12:31:13 PM

littlepozboy

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I just like to know is there anyway I can look up to find if a Master is telling me his true story and background. He paid for a plane ticket to go see him, but just here and there are little things that are different (not huge, just small) from his website to him speaking to me. I just don't want to be meeting a Master that will truly hurt me, like damaging hurt. Anyone got any ideas or were I could look to find more info. Thanks a bunch.

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RE: The true story... - 9/21/2012 12:38:48 PM

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Well what kind of things are setting off alarm bells. You could always point it out to the Master in question and see what he says, and see if his answer is satisfactory to you.

And if you do want to go see him you could always get a hotel and take a shuttle from the airport to the hotel an stuff. If you can't afford to go on your own dime, I don't recomend traveling. You need to be able to get away easily and stuff if things don't go well and you wish to leave on your own.

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RE: The true story... - 9/21/2012 12:49:54 PM

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Well meeting true Masters here is hard. just stuff like his current slave, then it is his part time slave. the size of his house differs, just small stuff. i am not looking for a sugar daddy and i can not afford to buy the airfare myself, but did not ask for it to be bought either.

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RE: The true story... - 9/21/2012 1:04:48 PM

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Personally, if I had doubts, I wouldn't be going.

Save up and get yourself a motel, meet in public and then decide whether you want to stay with him.

I'd always rather pay my own way to start with, so that no one is under the misapprehension that paying for my trip means I owe them something.

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RE: The true story... - 9/21/2012 1:27:27 PM

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When I meet someone local, I would not dream of playing with them on the first several meets. But in the past I have met with men where one of us traveled a great distance, truly, we usually end up playing. Partially this is because while I prefer to meet local guys sooner rather than later, when one of us is traveling alot, I want to talk a lot before we do that traveling, so the priorities are kind of reversed. I'd still expect to meet on nuetral ground, like going to get something to eat first thing, to make sure I'm comfortable. I second the suggestion to get a hotel for the first night. That way you can make sure you are comfortable staying in hhis place, or can leave if you want (taking a shuttle back to the airport, as someone said), or just slow things down by continuing to meet but staying in your hotel. It puts you back in some control. Make sure you set up scheduled safe calls with someone. Make one shortly after meeting him, like just a bit after your plane is supposed to touch down. His reaction to your saying you need to stop and make your safe call will tell you a lot, and is of more value than the call itself. (although, when I lived with a former Master in Cleavland, we had one girl show up to visit us for the weekend from another state who forgot to make her scheduled safe call. The police showed up at our door. Great fun :) )

I would NOT be shy about politely asking him about the descrepencies. He may not think there is an important differance in the words he uses to describe his sub, she might be part time but he doesn't always describe her/him that way. just ask. Tell him you don't care about the size of his home, but you're confused because he refers to it differantly in differant places. He should understand you want to clear up anything that is confusing. If he gets annoyed at you for asking questions, I would cancel. But that's just me.

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RE: The true story... - 9/21/2012 1:37:56 PM

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Why are you traveling to stay with someone that you don't trust?

This isn't a coffee date where if you find out he's not being honest, you can just walk out.

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