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Question... - 9/22/2012 3:36:22 AM

lilmissdefiant

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What gets you into subspace?
Wish I could elaborate but I am suffering from serious writers block here lol

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RE: Question... - 9/22/2012 4:55:06 AM

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A whole bunch of stuff, and to differant degrees. And then some stuff that works so well for so many women that it's ubiquitous, doesn't work for me. We are all differant.

Posture collars and thumbcuffs make me drop hard and fast into subspace. I don't mean subdrop - I say drop because in those cases I can physically feel my insides drop like a fast elevator as I go into subspace.

Kneeling used to work wonders, but I am physically unable to kneel anymore. drats.

as far as beating, it takes long hard beatings that start hard, and change up implements every few minutes. warm up will just leave me frustrated and unable to achieve subspace.

Ritual, or sitting at a master's feet, things like that, but to a lesser degree.

Watching others play and waiting my turn to play at a party, or lining up toys waiting for master to come home, or any other mental foreplay like that really gets me. That's the kind of warm up that does work for me.

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RE: Question... - 9/22/2012 5:20:56 AM

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Thanking you tsatske

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RE: Question... - 9/22/2012 11:08:48 AM

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I am a natural sub so I am always submissive but I guess its all mental foreplay.

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RE: Question... - 9/22/2012 11:18:03 AM

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I wish I could help but I'm not sure I've ever experienced subspace the way people describe it.

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RE: Question... - 9/22/2012 4:10:02 PM

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Yeah, I'm in the same boat as Athena. I know that begging gets me into a bit of a different headspace, as does objectification, and I can kind of lose myself in arousal.... but that tranced-out spacey endorphin high that people talk about is not something I've really experienced.

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RE: Question... - 9/22/2012 4:12:34 PM

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It's not an exact thing for me.

I've gotten it from strictly protocol play.

I've gotten it from sex.

I've gotten it from a scene.

Honestly, I think it has to do more with the connection I feel towards him, than anything physical. I've play with some that I didn't feel that connection with, and never went into sub space.

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RE: Question... - 9/22/2012 4:34:28 PM

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Sensory play both soft (silk scarves and His fingernails dragged across my skin) and harder (spanks intermingled with caresses and pinches) can both make me floaty.

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RE: Question... - 9/22/2012 5:16:32 PM

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bondage
Master's power and control, whether it be playing or just kneeling at his feet.

Each one is just a different shade and level of subspace.

Or even just strongly meditating to the point where I zone out and block out the world.

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RE: Question... - 9/25/2012 10:42:25 PM

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A long, exhausting session of spanking, fucking, more spanking, lots of bondage, and dirty talk always does it for me.

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RE: Question... - 9/25/2012 11:47:31 PM

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Mild to moderate pain, prefaced by a long warm up.

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RE: Question... - 9/26/2012 8:56:12 AM

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Hi Lil, It all depends on the sub. I had it a few times, and it was pure HEAVEN ! I was wrapped in Plastic Wrap, and ice cubes put in holes in the plastic wrap, over my Little Boy and Cookies.

You will know it, when you get there !

GOOD LUCK !

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RE: Question... - 9/27/2012 4:02:09 AM

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Now that I have driven through that writers block I know why i asked the question, its because it seems like there isn't a unanimous trigger for sub-space and I like what gets others into that divine state. For me its intense mental play, sensory deprivation and my all time fave, mindfucks

not just one or two but multiple ones.

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RE: Question... - 9/27/2012 5:14:53 AM

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Kneeling..........hypnosis.,.........interrogation......,.....depends on the situation and those involved.

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RE: Question... - 9/27/2012 10:12:42 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: lilmissdefiant

What gets you into subspace?
Wish I could elaborate but I am suffering from serious writers block here lol

Well....as much as i understand subspace and dont know if i had it or not..... but hair pulling and forced kissing (forced everything...) certainly gets me in the mood....and into some sort of space of course :)

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RE: Question... - 9/27/2012 3:09:16 PM

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Pain usually does. A rough fucking does. Something new sometimes does, if I decide I like it.

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RE: Question... - 9/27/2012 5:43:36 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: lilmissdefiant

What gets you into subspace?
Wish I could elaborate but I am suffering from serious writers block here lol

Moderate to severe pain which has been built and layered over a session.

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RE: Question... - 9/27/2012 5:56:50 PM

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Some people never have it, no matter what.

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RE: Question... - 9/27/2012 6:06:33 PM

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I know folks who immediately zoom from needles. They are great fun!

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RE: Question... - 9/27/2012 6:09:46 PM

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I think that folks who are prone to that kind of reaction "preset" their brains to accept that it will happen.

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