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Help - 9/23/2012 10:06:39 AM

mjkitty

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I've been married for two years. My husband wants me to dominate him. And I don't know how. I do have a naturaly bossy/controling personality but I'm having difficulty wraping my head around this. I'm not uncomforetable I just have no idea how to kick this thing off. I realize this is something that he's really into. Any advice would help thanks.

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RE: Help - 9/23/2012 10:09:04 AM

smartsub10

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Welcome!!

Stick around here and read. There's lots to learn.

In the meantime google munches for your area and go as a couple. You'll meet great folks who can mentor you.

Best of luck to you both. Enjoy the ride!

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RE: Help - 9/23/2012 12:31:04 PM

Alecta

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First you need to understand what he wants you to do. Does he want you to dress up and do kinky things to him in the bedroom, or does he want you to treat him at times like a slave/maid/pony/puppy/etc ?

Talk lots with him to gain that understanding. Ask him to show you things that would help you get what he's into. Then come back and ask questions about everything and anything you don't understand.

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RE: Help - 9/23/2012 1:00:14 PM

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Yep. I like to say there are two places that D/s can occur - in the bedroom and out of it. Does he want a kitten with a whip in the bedroom, or does he want you to direct his nonkink life? Or both?

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