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Titaniya -> RE: no luck for kitty (9/25/2012 5:22:34 PM)
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1. It's your first day. If you're looking for something that requires any substance, expect it to take awhile.
2. You're an attractive submissive female. I'm convinced this group gets more bullshit shown at them than anyone else on here. You're likely going to get bombarded with people out of your age range, area, and other criteria demanding submission with poor grammar and/or a copy/paste message telling you what a "twue submissive" does. Develop a discerning eye and don't hesitate to hit that block button. Your life will be better for it.
3. I'm not sure how other dominants feel about it, but if I had a submissive who wasn't deriving pleasure from their position, I'd take that as a sign something was wrong. Pleasure can be tied into the denial of pleasure (in the case of, say, chastity), but IMO relationships should be two way with or without a power dynamic. The power dynamic just changes the way that's achieved.
People on this site HAVE had some good luck. Search for people who meet your criteria in your area and message the ones whose profiles look interesting. It'll be easier to find casual encounters than good relationships, but if you're patient, you can find either.
I strongly recommend logging onto Fetlife, finding local groups (especially those geared at the younger crowd), and going to some munches and sloshes. The community's (often) a great place, subby ladies are almost always in high demand, and I think it's a lot easier to meet people you mesh with in those settings than online.
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