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Curious about anal - 9/28/2012 2:19:47 PM   
thetrueme


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I am curious as to why almost all males that contact me want anal.Is there a really deep seeded reason why men love it?
I havent went thru all the other threads but will search. If this has been done to death I apologize.
Thank you

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RE: Curious about anal - 9/28/2012 4:05:47 PM   
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Pain. Humiliation. Forced submission. Tightness. You name it.

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RE: Curious about anal - 9/28/2012 4:10:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		When are they bringing up anal? How are they bringing it up - is it on their profile or do they request you go on Yahoo IM and then start chatting about it?

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RE: Curious about anal - 9/28/2012 4:11:55 PM   
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When are they bringing up anal? How are they bringing it up - is it on their profile or do they request you go on Yahoo IM and then start chatting about it?


This is a pertinent question.

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RE: Curious about anal - 9/28/2012 4:16:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think the fact that I have never given out my YIM is why I have never had a conversation about anal with anyone from this site until I knew him well enough to get naked with him.

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RE: Curious about anal - 9/28/2012 4:35:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		Anal isn't a dominant act. A lot of men like anal. They like it because it is tight, sometimes because it is taboo, they like it cause it is a whole different sensation. If you don't like it just find someone that is cool with not having it.

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RE: Curious about anal - 9/29/2012 10:06:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		My observation on anal is that guys want it when it's a new thing, like when they're younger or new to Domination "Ooh, I can make her do anal!". Then anal is the new toy. When they've had anal on tap whenever they want it then it seems to lose it's luster and become rather meh. This is just my experience mind you. I can honestly say I've not had it a particularly sought after thing in my bedroom with the men I've known, no deep seated love for it.

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RE: Curious about anal - 9/29/2012 10:25:33 AM   
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Status: offline 		Lots of men like anal, it's a different sensation, and hotter, temperature-wise I am told. Whatever. If they think it's somehow domiant, well bless their hearts.

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RE: Curious about anal - 9/29/2012 10:51:13 AM   
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Status: offline 		You should really not ask people other than the men interested in anal why they love it.

If you want a list of reasons, I can give you my ex'es phone number; he will enumerate on it's virtues.

Lots of women like it as well, OP, so it is not that crazy of an act.

Whether you like it or not, that is the question.

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RE: Curious about anal - 10/8/2012 6:26:34 PM   
Aswad


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Lots of men like anal, it's a different sensation, and hotter, temperature-wise I am told.


I can vouch for higher temperature and a different sensation.

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RE: Curious about anal - 10/8/2012 7:07:28 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Aswad

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Lots of men like anal, it's a different sensation, and hotter, temperature-wise I am told.


I can vouch for higher temperature and a different sensation.

IWYW,
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Interesting. I reckon I can vouch for the same!


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RE: Curious about anal - 10/8/2012 7:49:21 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Interesting. I reckon I can vouch for the same!


Well, I figured it might be obscene to wax lyrical about the merits of the "bring own lube, or don't" garden of earthly delights.

Some people do indeed find it less interesting once the novelty passes. Others find themselves almost neglecting the more traditional routes of entry by that time, and discover a lasting passion for whatever flavors of that highly customizeable experience their various objects and body parts have been spoiled with. And then there's the... hmm... I'll be right back. She can run, but she can't hiiide.

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RE: Curious about anal - 10/8/2012 8:27:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		I feel like if I can't have anal, she's holding something back of herself from me. I want to know that I have more of her.

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RE: Curious about anal - 10/8/2012 8:34:58 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Whatever. I was disappointed in anal, I thought I would love it. Practice, eh?

(Lube, you say? Intriguing...)

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RE: Curious about anal - 10/8/2012 8:57:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		'Anal isn't a dominant act'; it is on this side of the kneel! but of course, it's also about pleasure, mine at least, and hopefully his.

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RE: Curious about anal - 10/8/2012 9:41:00 PM   
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Lots of women like it as well, OP, so it is not that crazy of an act.


I am a female sub and after i split with my ex, anal was the number one thing for me.. until i ran into a guy that was a bit bit too big and too aggressive.. I still do love it but he has to be the right guy and not have a "Pulverizor" mentality.. and lube each time too, of course.. So yeah, its not that crazy of an act.. unless you try it on the trapeze or something..

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RE: Curious about anal - 10/8/2012 9:43:24 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Tantriqu

'Anal isn't a dominant act'; it is on this side of the kneel! but of course, it's also about pleasure, mine at least, and hopefully his.


I'm directing the action, but fucking is just fucking for me.

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RE: Curious about anal - 10/8/2012 10:21:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I feel like if I can't have anal, she's holding something back of herself from me. I want to know that I have more of her.



I'm with Steven, it's more about the giving of herself than it is about the physical sensation. It doesn't feel that different, but psychologically it is very different for most women I've met. It's pointless to bring up in an early conversation, though, because you haven't built the trust for her to want to submit that fully. Unless she's already really into anal and sees it as no big deal, you're just going to frighten most people the same as if you started off talking about half the things they'll be begging for six months later.

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RE: Curious about anal - 10/9/2012 8:08:00 AM   
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Status: offline 		I love it if they hate anal...it makes it so hot when i do it anyway.

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RE: Curious about anal - 10/9/2012 8:16:39 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		I am not disputing your experience, but it sounds so goofy to me since SO many vanilla women do anal...

But whatevs, as long as we're all having fun!

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