xjennabellex -> Curious Boston Area Sub (9/29/2012 9:51:39 PM)
Hey all~
I'm new and curious about getting started in the scene. Where can I meet doms? How do I know I can trust one?
ARIES83 -> RE: Curious Boston Area Sub (9/29/2012 11:17:12 PM)
Welcome, I'm sure someone from your area will be along soon to give you some info.
There's a lot of helpful people here, Good luck.
-Aries
xjennabellex -> RE: Curious Boston Area Sub (9/29/2012 11:27:05 PM)
Thank you~
ResidentSadist -> RE: Curious Boston Area Sub (9/30/2012 8:58:42 AM)
"How do I know I can trust one?" Same as you would dating anywhere, it is no safer nor more dangerous in the BDSM community. Head this old Arab proverb, "better a thousand times careful than once dead".
Welcome aboard and have fun.
LookieNoNookie -> RE: Curious Boston Area Sub (9/30/2012 9:24:26 AM)
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ORIGINAL: xjennabellex
Hey all~
I'm new and curious about getting started in the scene. Where can I meet doms? How do I know I can trust one?
All over planet Earth, and you don't.
kalikshama -> RE: Curious Boston Area Sub (9/30/2012 3:37:03 PM)
Welcome from another Massachusettsian. (One of these days I'll break down and call myself a Masshole, which is easier to spell :)
Boston is chock full of kinksters. Fetlife is a great way to find events. Don't expect to be swept off your feet by your Dream Dom at the first munch you attend, but it's a great way to network.
As for trust, the short answer is trust your gut and watch to see that his actions match his words.