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ivone1 -> RE: Does 24/7 Slavery ACTUALLY Exist? (10/17/2012 11:24:57 AM)
24/7 does exist in some peoples dynamics... it all depends on the people involved.... i consider myself in a 24/7 Master/slave relationship BUT there are days where we look like just any other vanilla couple... it all depends on whats going on that day ...... but then we have our own dynamics ..... whats works for one might not work for another

CuriousFerret -> RE: Does 24/7 Slavery ACTUALLY Exist? (10/17/2012 5:21:44 PM)
As a rule, people have difficulty submitting to you fully if you don't dominate them. It's strange, but some people have trouble grasping this. There are a lot of people out there who are afraid to take the step. It's understandable. Giving up your freedom is a really big and horrendously scary step to take in your life. You have to be willing to start with such a person, and bring that person around to taking the plunge. We're not talking about some easy, overnight accomplishment, here. You are potentially dealing with a frightened, easily startled teenager. You are talking about bringing about a transformation in that person's whole way of life, rearranging that person's concept of self-worth to revolve around obedience. If you don't have some charisma, it's a fool's errand. It's as simple as that. Best of luck to you, though.

oldude45 -> RE: Does 24/7 Slavery ACTUALLY Exist? (10/30/2012 6:15:20 PM)
ok, I'm breaking a personal vow by speaking in a forum about this, While it maybe possible to have a 24/7 D/s relationship, I cannot see it being able to last long and that has absolutely nothing to do with personality or dynamics in any way shape or form. The "real world" the day to day living world, at this time and for the last several years no one can maintain a 24/7 relationship due to finances. Bills, household expenses and just surviving will impede on the 24/7 dynamic more than any personality conflict. So for the record, let me propose a more realistic situation of a 12/7 dynamic. B/both partners work and tend to each others needs as well as the abode in which they dwell. but when the stressfull part of the day is over and done. then the Master/slave part begins

JanahX -> RE: Does 24/7 Slavery ACTUALLY Exist? (10/30/2012 6:24:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CuriousFerret We're not talking about some easy, overnight accomplishment, here. You are potentially dealing with a frightened, easily startled teenager. You are talking about bringing about a transformation in that person's whole way of life, rearranging that person's concept of self-worth to revolve around obedience. If you don't have some charisma, it's a fool's errand. It's as simple as that. Best of luck to you, though. Uh ... WRONG. Not everyone needs to rearrange someones self-worth for another person to submit to them and to get them to obey. And I dont know what teenagers youve been hanging out with - but the ones I know are hardly frightened or easily startled, in fact they are more street wise and witty than most adults I know. In fact theyre so tattooed and pierced up they look like theyre ready for some kind of battle.

Aswad -> RE: Does 24/7 Slavery ACTUALLY Exist? (10/30/2012 7:01:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: oldude45 ok, I'm breaking a personal vow by speaking in a forum about this, Well, that certainly started well. What part of advertising a less than stellar attitude to your sworn word seemed like a good idea at the time? [:D] Anyway, the 24/7 dynamic is absolutely a possibility, as it comes down to having a mindset. I've been a dog owner before. It didn't jump into the couch when I was out. Nor did I have to take off the mantle of dog owner to go to work and then put it back on again when I was back at the house. It was always there, for both me and the dog. The same holds true in a 24/7 power dynamic between humans, where it comes down to an attitude you maintain at all times and eventually grow into and become accustomed to. For both parties, this often takes a bit of time, particularly if you started out as a regular couple first (it's harder to change how you relate to someone than to build a relationship a certain way to begin with, and some find it problematic when their friends notice how the "atmosphere" has changed between you), but it does happen. And it goes a lot faster if the parties have closely matching inclinations in this regard, or if one or both have a lot of experience with it already. Welcome to the boards, in any case. IWYW, — Aswad.

boygirlcreature -> RE: Does 24/7 Slavery ACTUALLY Exist? (10/30/2012 7:13:12 PM)
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theRose4U -> RE: Does 24/7 Slavery ACTUALLY Exist? (10/30/2012 9:15:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Does it exist? Absolutely. I'm kind of confused as to why you would think otherwise. For what it's worth, you are among a vast sea of m/f couples who thought they were going to put up a listing on the internet and 'presto'! It's going to happen. There are thousands and thousands of people just like you who thinks a female willing to join them is just going to fall into their lap. Now, ask Me how many succeed. Wait, LP did amazon change the sub return policy while I wasn't looking? :o

littlewonder -> RE: Does 24/7 Slavery ACTUALLY Exist? (10/30/2012 9:43:05 PM)
Huh...I don't know how Master and I have gone 7 years now as 24/7. I guess I should tell him we're doing it all wrong. It can't last!

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