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Showers - 10/2/2012 5:48:31 AM

andrew960

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Putting this to the experience of the members on this site - is there a good way I can link up with a lady who would take pleasure in going to the toilet on me, possibly as a punishment if she wished?

Is there a correct etiquette in searching?

Thank you for any advice.

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RE: Showers - 10/2/2012 6:02:09 AM

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It isn't punishment if you like it, andrew. Punishment is supposed to deter your behavior in the future.

As to finding a lady, start there. Treat her like a lady instead of someone whose purpose is supposed to be to indulge your kink. Go out into your local community and meet people at munches and events. Develop friendships. Those friendships can then be used to network later, or even can become something more.

It is always going to cost a male submissive to get his kinks fulfilled. It might cost money by going to a pro, or it is going to cost time and effort in developing relationships. Pick your currency.

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RE: Showers - 10/2/2012 6:09:51 AM

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RE: Showers - 10/2/2012 6:33:06 AM

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searching's advice is spot on. There's no shortcuts I'm afraid.

The good news is your kink isn't too out there. Hell I'd do it for someone I care enough about, and I'm neither dominant or into watersports.

good luck.

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RE: Showers - 10/2/2012 6:41:38 AM

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Yep, searching4mysir got it spot on.
And it is a common kink so it shouldn't be a large stumbling block

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RE: Showers - 10/2/2012 6:42:08 AM

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Rethink your approach. You're looking for a woman to pee on you. Instead, look for a woman who likes the vanilla things you like, who you'd be happy to introduce to your family and friends, and who you love spending time with. Look for the woman first, and the fetish second.

AthenaSurrenders' post is key - women will do things for people they care about.

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RE: Showers - 10/2/2012 6:54:15 AM

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Or else just hire an escort. Really, it saves a lot of time if you just want the experience.

Getting involved in the kink community is another option. Pervs help their friends, and if someone likes you, she might help a guy out.

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RE: Showers - 10/2/2012 8:20:59 AM

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If you're not prepared to pay a pro for this experience, and you don't really want to develop a relationship, then you might find it hard finding someone who will want to do that. It's not a common kink, as has already been said.

Good luck with your search, anyway.

Just remember to always be polite and respectful, and as Steven said, put the kink second and you can't go wrong.

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RE: Showers - 10/2/2012 9:48:17 AM

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OP,
Since you asked so nicely, and you seem sincere in your quest, I'll pee on you.

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RE: Showers - 10/3/2012 5:14:18 AM

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Thank you all for your advice.

I can see that making a friendship would be the best way, also to make a possible later experience more enjoyable.

I guess I'm also making it hard in that it is not really pee that I'm interested in - I'd like to experience the next stage.

Best wishes to you all.

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RE: Showers - 10/3/2012 5:41:20 AM

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Many thanks Athena. Helping it become clearer.

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RE: Showers - 10/3/2012 6:06:59 AM

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if 'the next stage' is a coy way of saying feces, then yes, you are making it harder. There are all sorts of health implications in this to consider, as well as the fact that it is considerable more taboo and much harder to perform on demand. But the answer is still the same - to go out and form relationships. And if you're getting into a serious relationship and you won't be satisfied without this, be honest about it sooner rather than later so you can both go your separate ways if need be.

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