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MsMillgrove -> RE: Mistresses, bondage gear favorites? (11/15/2012 10:59:02 AM)
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I love it when a bottom/sub has his own well-stocked toy bag. When you play with casual partners, looking at each other's toy bags is a great ice-breaker. My expertise with rope doesn't extend to rigging or fancy ties. So I would agree the the comfortable, sturdy wrist and ankle cuffs are super. Studying how to cut, make clean ends on the rope and types/thicknesses of rope would help you select a great supply of rope.
Buying a pair of paramedic scissors is a good idea too. I was at a party recently where only two of us dommes had scissors even though the planned event was a plastic wrap party. I guess not everyone plans ahead. Safety scissors are a must for a toy bag. No one ever seems to think of clean towels, I find them so handy. I think a guy with his own towels, and few bottles of various foot lotions would be a huge hit for those endless offers of the foot massage. I also like nipple clamps, cbt toys, comdoms, butt plugs, dildos, plenty of lube. There are all thoughtful items to have on hand. So is a collection of paddles, canes or a good flogger if you are into impact play. From a safety/hygiene standpoint, bringing your own stuff is a very good idea. KNowing a sub has happy memories from his/her equipment, makes me rather eager to use his tools, espcially when I am playing for a first time, it's a good way to gauge his/her pain thresholds because I am working with something they are used to already. I use a few favorites of my own for balance of course.
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