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LadyHibiscus -> RE: What's an acceptable introduction? (10/4/2012 10:27:51 AM)

Yanno how there's a Godwin, and a Poe? Can there be another indicator for Troll? A Grimm, perhaps?




BlackSockSlave -> RE: What's an acceptable introduction? (10/4/2012 10:30:22 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Thanks for so eloquently insulting everyone on the boards who lives a D/s or M/s life 24/7. Please do explain to us what the word "slave" means to you, because to me, a slave is my slave all the time, even when we are not actively engaging in kink.

I have read your profile, which is indeed ripe for identity mining. I tell people all the time, "be yourself, even if that means you're a complete asshole". Taking that into consideration, you have done well.

Right off the bat, you've put off every non-brunette who reads your profile. Congratulations. THAT'S weeding out the competition! The rest of it reads very aggressive, self-important vanilla guy. There is absolutely nothing that indicates "Here is a man who can take care of himself AND follow orders without looking weak." I can see where you'd be madly successful on OKC or PoF, rapey mask aside. I can absolutely see why actual dominant women have minimal interest in you.

I can also see that you are not going to get it. We're on page five here, it's been entertaining, but it's going to continue to be fruitless.

ESCORT SERVICES. You can specify your fetish, the physical type you want, the whole shebang. So much easier than getting to know people in the actual BDSM scene.


I never intended to insult you, and I'm sorry it upset you. What I meant is I'd be her Slave 24/7/365 in mind, just not locked up in a cage.




BlackSockSlave -> RE: What's an acceptable introduction? (10/4/2012 10:31:57 AM)


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: BlackSockSlave
As a Slave who wears a mask full time, my looks aren't or shouldn't be important, so I've never offered a Dom my photo.




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Also, if my profile somehow wasn't clear enough, I'm wanting a vanilla relationship by day and a kinky one by night.


Well, since you want a vanilla relationship by day....that would make it rather difficult to wear a mask full time.


Full-time mask wearer on the kinky clock, not 24-hour clock. LOL




BlackSockSlave -> RE: What's an acceptable introduction? (10/4/2012 10:33:09 AM)


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ORIGINAL: crazyml

FR

When you say "I'm a Computer Systems Engineer; the Owner of a computer business, and an Editor with impeccable English grammar."

I take it you're being ironic?




I'm being honest.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: What's an acceptable introduction? (10/4/2012 10:34:54 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: BlackSockSlave


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Thanks for so eloquently insulting everyone on the boards who lives a D/s or M/s life 24/7. Please do explain to us what the word "slave" means to you, because to me, a slave is my slave all the time, even when we are not actively engaging in kink.

I have read your profile, which is indeed ripe for identity mining. I tell people all the time, "be yourself, even if that means you're a complete asshole". Taking that into consideration, you have done well.

Right off the bat, you've put off every non-brunette who reads your profile. Congratulations. THAT'S weeding out the competition! The rest of it reads very aggressive, self-important vanilla guy. There is absolutely nothing that indicates "Here is a man who can take care of himself AND follow orders without looking weak." I can see where you'd be madly successful on OKC or PoF, rapey mask aside. I can absolutely see why actual dominant women have minimal interest in you.

I can also see that you are not going to get it. We're on page five here, it's been entertaining, but it's going to continue to be fruitless.

ESCORT SERVICES. You can specify your fetish, the physical type you want, the whole shebang. So much easier than getting to know people in the actual BDSM scene.


I never intended to insult you, and I'm sorry it upset you. What I meant is I'd be her Slave 24/7/365 in mind, just not locked up in a cage.


Oh honey. You do not have the ability to upset me, nor do I feel personally insulted. What you did was say an insulting thing. Also, many unclear things.

If your words are constantly misconstrued, choose other words.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: What's an acceptable introduction? (10/4/2012 10:36:21 AM)


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ORIGINAL: BlackSockSlave


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: BlackSockSlave
As a Slave who wears a mask full time, my looks aren't or shouldn't be important, so I've never offered a Dom my photo.




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Also, if my profile somehow wasn't clear enough, I'm wanting a vanilla relationship by day and a kinky one by night.


Well, since you want a vanilla relationship by day....that would make it rather difficult to wear a mask full time.


Full-time mask wearer on the kinky clock, not 24-hour clock. LOL


Again---the slaves don't make the decisions. They get to make suggestions, sometimes. But they don't get to say, "I will serve you as long as you are wearing X, and I am wearing Y". If this has been your approach I am not at all surprised your success has been limited.




OsideGirl -> RE: What's an acceptable introduction? (10/4/2012 10:36:22 AM)

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ORIGINAL: BlackSockSlave


quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: BlackSockSlave
As a Slave who wears a mask full time, my looks aren't or shouldn't be important, so I've never offered a Dom my photo.




quote:

Also, if my profile somehow wasn't clear enough, I'm wanting a vanilla relationship by day and a kinky one by night.


Well, since you want a vanilla relationship by day....that would make it rather difficult to wear a mask full time.


Full-time mask wearer on the kinky clock, not 24-hour clock. LOL


Well, then if you're not wearing a mask 24/7 ...your face is as important as hers.




BlackSockSlave -> RE: What's an acceptable introduction? (10/4/2012 10:37:42 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus


quote:

ORIGINAL: BlackSockSlave


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Thanks for so eloquently insulting everyone on the boards who lives a D/s or M/s life 24/7. Please do explain to us what the word "slave" means to you, because to me, a slave is my slave all the time, even when we are not actively engaging in kink.

I have read your profile, which is indeed ripe for identity mining. I tell people all the time, "be yourself, even if that means you're a complete asshole". Taking that into consideration, you have done well.

Right off the bat, you've put off every non-brunette who reads your profile. Congratulations. THAT'S weeding out the competition! The rest of it reads very aggressive, self-important vanilla guy. There is absolutely nothing that indicates "Here is a man who can take care of himself AND follow orders without looking weak." I can see where you'd be madly successful on OKC or PoF, rapey mask aside. I can absolutely see why actual dominant women have minimal interest in you.

I can also see that you are not going to get it. We're on page five here, it's been entertaining, but it's going to continue to be fruitless.

ESCORT SERVICES. You can specify your fetish, the physical type you want, the whole shebang. So much easier than getting to know people in the actual BDSM scene.


I never intended to insult you, and I'm sorry it upset you. What I meant is I'd be her Slave 24/7/365 in mind, just not locked up in a cage.


Oh honey. You do not have the ability to upset me, nor do I feel personally insulted. What you did was say an insulting thing. Also, many unclear things.

If your words are constantly misconstrued, choose other words.


That makes no sense. If I said an insulting thing, that would mean you were insulted, and so I apologize. Or maybe other people.




mnottertail -> RE: What's an acceptable introduction? (10/4/2012 10:38:27 AM)

Are we looking at a blackxploitation of Andrew Lloyd Webber's Phantom of the Opera here or what?

Curiously,
Gilbert and Sullivan




LadyHibiscus -> RE: What's an acceptable introduction? (10/4/2012 10:38:46 AM)

It's possible to say offensive things without offending everyone. Honest.




BlackSockSlave -> RE: What's an acceptable introduction? (10/4/2012 10:39:46 AM)


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: BlackSockSlave


quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: BlackSockSlave
As a Slave who wears a mask full time, my looks aren't or shouldn't be important, so I've never offered a Dom my photo.




quote:

Also, if my profile somehow wasn't clear enough, I'm wanting a vanilla relationship by day and a kinky one by night.


Well, since you want a vanilla relationship by day....that would make it rather difficult to wear a mask full time.


Full-time mask wearer on the kinky clock, not 24-hour clock. LOL


Well, then if you're not wearing a mask 24/7 ...your face is as important as hers.



In a vanilla relationship, it sure can be.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: What's an acceptable introduction? (10/4/2012 10:41:28 AM)

You are expecting the dom and the "vanilla" gal to be the same person, correct?




BlackSockSlave -> RE: What's an acceptable introduction? (10/4/2012 10:41:51 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

It's possible to say offensive things without offending everyone. Honest.


Of course, but when a person deems this or that insulting, they must feel insulted.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: What's an acceptable introduction? (10/4/2012 10:43:10 AM)


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ORIGINAL: BlackSockSlave


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

It's possible to say offensive things without offending everyone. Honest.


Of course, but when a person deems this or that insulting, they must feel insulted.



No, they really don't. If someone makes a racial remark, I know it's insulting, if they say that people with Down syndrome should be locked up I know it's insulting. Language! Multipurpose.




BlackSockSlave -> RE: What's an acceptable introduction? (10/4/2012 10:43:12 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

You are expecting the dom and the "vanilla" gal to be the same person, correct?


Correct




BlackSockSlave -> RE: What's an acceptable introduction? (10/4/2012 10:45:10 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus


quote:

ORIGINAL: BlackSockSlave


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

It's possible to say offensive things without offending everyone. Honest.


Of course, but when a person deems this or that insulting, they must feel insulted.



No, they really don't. If someone makes a racial remark, I know it's insulting, if they say that people with Down syndrome should be locked up I know it's insulting. Language! Multipurpose.


You make no sense.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: What's an acceptable introduction? (10/4/2012 10:45:24 AM)


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ORIGINAL: BlackSockSlave


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

You are expecting the dom and the "vanilla" gal to be the same person, correct?


Correct



Okay. So... she does NOT get to see you and decide if you pass HER screening, but YOU get to screen her?

And you are not seeing the intrinsic problem?




OsideGirl -> RE: What's an acceptable introduction? (10/4/2012 10:46:29 AM)

Hibbie, he doesn't get it. He can't see past his own dick.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: What's an acceptable introduction? (10/4/2012 10:47:24 AM)


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

Hibbie, he doesn't get it. He can't see past his own dick.



I know it. But this is oddly hilarious to me.




BlackSockSlave -> RE: What's an acceptable introduction? (10/4/2012 10:55:12 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus


quote:

ORIGINAL: BlackSockSlave


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

You are expecting the dom and the "vanilla" gal to be the same person, correct?


Correct



Okay. So... she does NOT get to see you and decide if you pass HER screening, but YOU get to screen her?

And you are not seeing the intrinsic problem?


Please try harder. I just spoke to this same question by another Dom. Yes, of course my looks matter in a vanilla relationship. Strictly, Dom and Slave, no. Have you seen what most of these Slaves look like?




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