Seriously. Lack of sleep. It makes me femdom nuts - you?

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AAkasha -> Seriously. Lack of sleep. It makes me femdom nuts - you? (10/3/2012 2:29:56 PM)
I forgot how much it "impacts" me. I have been spoiled having a really, really flexible schedule for almost a year and have been getting great sleep even when I am super busy, and never had much true sleep deprivation. I had to pull a near-all nighter for a work project and forgot how much that exhaustion just puts my femdom brain into overdrive, for whatever reason, I find myself totally unable to get femdom ideas out of my head - whether it be desire for new fantasy material, looking for porn, feeling insatiable, wanting to purchase new toys, always feeling distracted. I used to get that way during finals in college and big work projects early in my career but since I've been self employed I've had more control over my schedule. It's so wacky, weird and dysfunctional/drug haze like I almost feel like forcing myself to pull an all nighter every once in awhile just to get the juices flowing. Is anyone else on either side of the whip impacted by sleep deprivation? Akasha

PeonForHer -> RE: Seriously. Lack of sleep. It makes me femdom nuts - you? (10/3/2012 2:35:41 PM)
Yep. I get extra-horny not just when I'm tired, but when I'm ill, too. If I'm both tired and ill, my mind can be a riot of fantasies - usually of being very ravaged and very abused. God knows why that makes any sense. Is there a biologist in the house?

LadyPact -> RE: Seriously. Lack of sleep. It makes me femdom nuts - you? (10/3/2012 2:40:57 PM)
As a regular insomniac, not a bit. Obsession and compulsion, no matter what sets these things off, almost always lead back to a lack of being fulfilled. In other words, if you had it, you wouldn't want it so much. Remove the idea that you are not getting it. Yes, I absolutely do advocate waking someone up once in a while for the fun stuff. Not every day, you understand. Not to where it interferes with their work performance or whatever. (If I remember right, your sub-hub stays at home as your assistant.) Reinforce to yourself that you can take that shit any time you want it. Going to take what is yours every once in a great while isn't going to harm anybody.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Seriously. Lack of sleep. It makes me femdom nuts - you? (10/3/2012 2:41:50 PM)
I want more illnesses like that...[;)]

AAkasha -> RE: Seriously. Lack of sleep. It makes me femdom nuts - you? (10/3/2012 2:51:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer Yep. I get extra-horny not just when I'm tired, but when I'm ill, too. If I'm both tired and ill, my mind can be a riot of fantasies - usually of being very ravaged and very abused. God knows why that makes any sense. Is there a biologist in the house? The ill thing, yes, me also. Not full on "sick" but when I get a very mild sore throat or what feels like a cold coming on but never does, that's when I have it bad - I call it "the femdom flu" - but I always thought it was a chicken-and-egg thing with the "lack of sleep" -- ie, just feeling "run down." So I don't know if it's a cause and effect thing. And LP yes, my partner lives here with me and is available full time. It's not really about what I want/get/need, it's more about how the urges manifest in a very distracting way. Like they roll around in my head when I go to sleep and they don't shut off. Like I get sucked into watching endless videos on the Internet because I can't stop. It's like a fascination that is usually "mildly compelling" becomes totally fascinating and highly distracting. As for "getting it out of my system" it's not so much a kind of "just do it" thing, it usually ends up manifesting in a single idea of something new, or the desire to plan, or taking one of the re-occurring themes in my head and translating it into something real. I'm not complaining at all. On a side note, what I did track down in this latest fixation, thanks to my current fascination with michael hall's portrayal of Dexter and the recent premiere, was that he did some really edgy stuff in an episode in season 4 (I think) of Six Feet Under (episode has something do with the Dog in the title) where he's abducted by a hitchhiker. I'd only gotten to season 2 so I had not seen it yet. I read that it was controversial because of how horrific it was (and it was, I will admit) but included bondage, desperation, begging, some tears, forced drug use, and forced fellatio on a gun barrel. I find all of this highly offensive in a real life setting of course, but the fact that an actor endured this for his craft and did a damn good job at it (hell, it made ME wet) put me on a different planet for a while. In a normal, non sleep deprived mood, I don't think I would have gone that nuts to seek that out and then enjoy it to that level. It's good stuff for those that like homoerotic edgeplay if you can get past the fact that it's traumatic and sick. Akasha

LaTigresse -> RE: Seriously. Lack of sleep. It makes me femdom nuts - you? (10/3/2012 2:57:35 PM)
Sleep is hugely important to me staying a balanced and happy broad. If I don't get it, I feel like I get REALLY stupid and very very VERY mean.

PeonForHer -> RE: Seriously. Lack of sleep. It makes me femdom nuts - you? (10/3/2012 3:48:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse Sleep is hugely important to me staying a balanced and happy broad. I'm sorry that you've been such an insomniac for so long, La T. :-(

VioletViolence -> RE: Seriously. Lack of sleep. It makes me femdom nuts - you? (10/5/2012 12:58:40 PM)
The less sleep I get the harder time I have keeping the "inner animal" on a leash. I'll start growling at people who annoy me, I'll want to bite all the time. It definitely makes me more feral in bed. The only problem really is that often times I don't have the energy to do all the fun stuff my brain is fantasizing about.

LaTigresse -> RE: Seriously. Lack of sleep. It makes me femdom nuts - you? (10/5/2012 1:01:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse Sleep is hugely important to me staying a balanced and happy broad. I'm sorry that you've been such an insomniac for so long, La T. :-( ACTually, you all usually get to see the charming and well rested version. Imagine how hideous the sleep deprived version is!!!

Aswad -> RE: Seriously. Lack of sleep. It makes me femdom nuts - you? (10/8/2012 6:37:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha Is anyone else on either side of the whip impacted by sleep deprivation? Oh-hell-yes... Just... yes. IWYW, — Aswad.

SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Seriously. Lack of sleep. It makes me femdom nuts - you? (10/8/2012 7:16:43 PM)
Lack of sleep has an impact on my mood/behavior but it most certainly does not send me into "FemDom overdrive." If anything, I become even less social than normal. The last thing on my mind is sexy-fun time. It's more like "Get the hell out of my way and leave me the fuck alone or die."

Tantriqu -> RE: Seriously. Lack of sleep. It makes me femdom nuts - you? (10/8/2012 7:25:43 PM)
Interesting. Lack of sleep makes me, uh, drowsy. I might like a nice quick facefuck orgasm to get me from 60 to zero in under three minutes, but that's it. When I wake up with energy, and especially the evening after I regenerate, then degeneration!

Alecta -> RE: Seriously. Lack of sleep. It makes me femdom nuts - you? (10/9/2012 1:01:00 AM)
Definitely overdrive. I think I just fired my sub. opps.

Chrisp7135 -> RE: Seriously. Lack of sleep. It makes me femdom nuts - you? (10/15/2012 5:51:30 PM)
Sleep deprivation is commonly associated with hypersexuality. When I was in my residency (and sleep deprived all the time), one of the female residents commented how she could always predict that I would be hypersexual when I was up all night. I hadn't noticed it until she said something, and then I did the research. I also made a note to be more self-aware about it also.

RemoteUser -> RE: Seriously. Lack of sleep. It makes me femdom nuts - you? (10/15/2012 9:07:52 PM)
Slep dep makes me mellow and does wonders for my patience. Go fig.

Mysia -> RE: Seriously. Lack of sleep. It makes me femdom nuts - you? (10/18/2012 6:20:10 PM)
I get pretty silly, creative, and a bit sadistic when I go to long without super quality sleep. [&:]

Kana -> RE: Seriously. Lack of sleep. It makes me femdom nuts - you? (10/18/2012 6:36:18 PM)
Oh ko. Massive sleep deprivation makes Kana an angry angry bear. I get grouchy and snappy and my filters drop and I actually say what I really think, which ain't such a good idea [image]local://upfiles/346456/99FE1B3EC9D94BFDADD9DA9BCEE65AE5.jpg[/image]

MissAsylum -> RE: Seriously. Lack of sleep. It makes me femdom nuts - you? (10/18/2012 6:48:39 PM)
Imagine the stereotype of a woman PMSing. Imagine cranking up the intensity 10 fold. Throw in an English/Baltimorean accent, and bam! You have me when I'm lacking sleep. This would have to be at least 4 straight days worth since I have bouts of insomnia at least twice a week, then crash. In my mind, its the same as me being drunk, but being fully aware than I am, with wanting the madness to stop. I cry, I scream, my accent comes in and out- which make me sound like Keith Richards on a bender since I have no control over my dialect. My filter has been removed, so sorry if i see some thing I disapprove of, because i will make it well know. I'd just avoid me at all costs.

littlewonder -> RE: Seriously. Lack of sleep. It makes me femdom nuts - you? (10/18/2012 9:16:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kana Oh ko. Massive sleep deprivation makes Kana an angry angry bear. I get grouchy and snappy and my filters drop and I actually say what I really think, which ain't such a good idea [image]local://upfiles/346456/99FE1B3EC9D94BFDADD9DA9BCEE65AE5.jpg[/image] oohhhh yeaahhh...when he hasn't slept in a couple of days, you learn to not say a single word and not to do things wrong or otherwise you will really wish you had just hide until he gets some sleep. [image]local://upfiles/134279/F1DC743B76F14497BCC361DC4A3F3968.jpg[/image]

Temp1010 -> RE: Seriously. Lack of sleep. It makes me femdom nuts - you? (10/19/2012 12:05:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissAsylum Imagine the stereotype of a woman PMSing. Imagine cranking up the intensity 10 fold. Throw in an English/Baltimorean accent, and bam! You have me when I'm lacking sleep. This would have to be at least 4 straight days worth since I have bouts of insomnia at least twice a week, then crash. In my mind, its the same as me being drunk, but being fully aware than I am, with wanting the madness to stop. I cry, I scream, my accent comes in and out- which make me sound like Keith Richards on a bender since I have no control over my dialect. My filter has been removed, so sorry if i see some thing I disapprove of, because i will make it well know. I'd just avoid me at all costs. I would like to verify this is true hahaha. You can be plain scary with no sleep. It was a surprise when it happened as it is the complete opposite of how you normally are.

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