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Is strictly an oral slave possible? - 10/13/2012 9:46:47 PM

Secretsub88

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I want a masculine manly man to dominate and control me and only use my throat. I can deepthroat nearly any dick, and love a deep slow throat abuse, and need a dom man to do this.

But I feel like most of the doms only want a guy that will do more. Herein lies my question, do you know of a dom/sub situation where the dom would use the sub for his throat only?

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RE: Is strictly an oral slave possible? - 10/13/2012 10:07:32 PM

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Any of the endless combinations of kink that you can come up with are possible. Since the number of potential partners for you is much much smaller than someone without your sexual limit, it will take much much longer to find the one whose kink is compatible with yours. The gay kinksters I know have never discussed their sex life with me so I have no idea how the submissive might be used.

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RE: Is strictly an oral slave possible? - 10/13/2012 10:53:59 PM

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You'll have better luck at a gay nightclub. There's no shortage of men who will only use your mouth and then go home.

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RE: Is strictly an oral slave possible? - 10/13/2012 10:55:11 PM

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Have you ever been to a gay club? That's not really how they usually work, that would be more like a sex club. Yeah sex happens sometimes in gay clubs...but not that often.

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RE: Is strictly an oral slave possible? - 10/13/2012 10:58:46 PM

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Yes, I've been to plenty of gay clubs. Gays pick up one night stands just like hetero men and women. I didn't say get fucked IN the club. I said, you can pick up a guy there.

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RE: Is strictly an oral slave possible? - 10/13/2012 11:00:48 PM

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Fair enough, I'm trying to be very discreet and find an on going thing Ideally. Thanks for the response.

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RE: Is strictly an oral slave possible? - 10/13/2012 11:04:17 PM

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If you were in Boston you'd just have to hang out in the Victory Gardens after dark. There would be plenty of guys willing to let you blow them. They'd even make it a regular thing if you wanted.

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RE: Is strictly an oral slave possible? - 10/14/2012 12:36:48 AM

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quote:

Herein lies my question, do you know of a dom/sub situation where the dom would use the sub for his throat only?

NOPE

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RE: Is strictly an oral slave possible? - 10/14/2012 12:51:56 AM

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I second what the other posters have said.

In addition, if you're lying to your partner and exchanging fluids with some random dude behind his/her back, then you need to use condoms. It's not fair on the poor schmuck who got stuck with you if they catch an STI as a result of your cheating.

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RE: Is strictly an oral slave possible? - 10/14/2012 3:33:18 AM

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IMO, the Dom/sub relationship is more complex and more mental than just repeated blowjobs. I could never handle a sub whose submission consisted only of oral. No spanking, no bondage? I suspect that you'd do better in gay circles than BDSM ones.

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RE: Is strictly an oral slave possible? - 10/14/2012 4:14:05 AM

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-fast reply-

If by oral only you mean 'no anal' then hell yes, it's possible. Lots of people don't want anal sex.

If by oral only you mean nothing else at all - no bondage, no massages, no cooking dinner etc - then I wouldn't really call that a 'slave', more someone who really likes giving head and likes it rough. Which is fine, but a slave generally involves obeying in other ways and meeting other needs of the dominant. If you ask the people here who identify as slaves or slave-owners and are actually living it, I'd bet a lot of money that all of those relationships involve a lot of other types of service beyond sex.

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RE: Is strictly an oral slave possible? - 10/14/2012 5:47:00 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Secretsub88
I can deepthroat nearly any dick

Except for the one you're in a happy and committed relationship with?

I agree with the others in that you don't need a dom, as you are only submitting
to your kink, and not to the man himself. Why not discuss this desire with your partner?

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RE: Is strictly an oral slave possible? - 10/14/2012 5:56:55 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders

-fast reply-

If by oral only you mean 'no anal' then hell yes, it's possible. Lots of people don't want anal sex.

If by oral only you mean nothing else at all - no bondage, no massages, no cooking dinner etc - then I wouldn't really call that a 'slave', more someone who really likes giving head and likes it rough. Which is fine, but a slave generally involves obeying in other ways and meeting other needs of the dominant. If you ask the people here who identify as slaves or slave-owners and are actually living it, I'd bet a lot of money that all of those relationships involve a lot of other types of service beyond sex.

OP - you have mail. Like y'all don't know what I'm writing...... LOL!

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RE: Is strictly an oral slave possible? - 10/14/2012 6:07:28 AM

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Gneral comment to all sub / slaves (but especially the gay ones) Use your filters on the other side for such things. Over here in the forums, we're mostly about chatting - NOT hook-ups.

The OP is looking for a gay Leather Dom in Denver. AHEM......

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RE: Is strictly an oral slave possible? - 10/14/2012 6:33:02 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

quote:

ORIGINAL: Secretsub88
I can deepthroat nearly any dick

Except for the one you're in a happy and committed relationship with?
I agree with the others in that you don't need a dom, as you are only submitting
to your kink, and not to the man himself. Why not discuss this desire with your partner?

^^This. Unless you have an open relationship, this is still cheating.

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RE: Is strictly an oral slave possible? - 10/14/2012 6:36:45 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Secretsub88

Fair enough, I'm trying to be very discreet and find an on going thing Ideally. Thanks for the response.

why? your wife not supposed to find out?

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RE: Is strictly an oral slave possible? - 10/14/2012 6:38:16 AM

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Does your partner know you're going out looking for something "on the side?" That's disrespectful to him and not very fair. If you're going to be picking up random men to have various forms of sex with, you're also exposing your partner to STDs. You can certainly get and pass them via oral sex.

I think you should probably talk to your partner about this.

Anyway, I have actually seen posts by men - straight men, though - who want "oral slavery." That sort of limited interaction would never work for me, but there are definitely people looking for that.

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RE: Is strictly an oral slave possible? - 10/28/2012 4:45:48 PM

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I personally don't...call yourself a cum slut and post online like CL. Your desire for that means that you DON'T submit therefore you're NOT a sub.

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