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y687master -> RE: 'finding' a Master that fits... (10/25/2012 9:19:26 PM)
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Here is something for you to think about.
Familiarize yourself with the terminology of the the lifestyle. Dom/sub, Daddy/Daddy's girl and Master/slave to start with. Be aware of the differences, each group has both subtle and major differences. After you have done that, do some honest soul searching to decide where you fit in all of this. PS: don't forget that you also have pet play that falls in there too.
After you have done that, make sure that your profile matches you to the best of your ability to describe yourself and your situation.
Speak with others that you see as your equals/peers and speak with Doms-Dommes/Daddies-Mommies/Masters-Mistresses to see if maybe they see something in the way you are describing yourself that matches or does not match what you are saying in your profile.
Then once all that has been achieved, spend time talking with your prospective partners to make sure they actually match what you are looking for. There should always be some type of agreement or understanding of what to expect, what to look for and warn about if this or that happens, what limits you have and such before play begins.
When in role-play, stick around for something called after care. It is a chance to voice yourself, talk about your experience and wind down. That in and of itself can be very therapeutic and insightful to who you are shaping up to be. If your partner refuses to deal with after care, without good reason: then that should be a red flag and reason for not continuing with that person (keep in mind: OMG it's 3am and I have to be to work at 7am, is a very valid point)
Master Devan [sm=crop.gif]
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