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Somuchmoreinsc -> RE: really don't understand (10/14/2012 3:28:59 PM)
thank y'all im not looking for anything but friends right now that is why it really was strange anyway i like who i am and what i want but thanks for the comments so made me laugh i love the real doms/dommies/sub/slaves on here y'all really help out the newbies thanks

LookieNoNookie -> RE: really don't understand (10/14/2012 4:09:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Somuchmoreinsc i was told today by a "dom" because of my limits im not ready for a masters world or this lifestyle i don't understand can someone explain please Not knowing how long or how in depth you two spent time, I would say...he needs to go to the ride where they have a little plaque that says "if you're under (this) height, you can't ride".

DesFIP -> RE: really don't understand (10/14/2012 4:27:51 PM)
He's upset because you won't have sex with him. You'll get this a lot. Learn to ignore and block the idiots.

LookieNoNookie -> RE: really don't understand (10/14/2012 5:04:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP He's upset because you won't have sex with him. You'll get this a lot. Learn to ignore and block the idiots. I'm still upset that people I approach on the street won't have sex with me. It's just a basic gawdamn question.

CHF73 -> RE: really don't understand (10/14/2012 10:51:29 PM)
Well i don't believe too much in subs who say to have no limits. Everyone has limits. So i don't see why limits should be a problem. It's true that at times when they don't match they are a sign that a Master and a sub are not compatible, but saying that just cause a sub has a certain limit she's not ready for this lifestyle it's plain bs.

jennacide -> RE: really don't understand (10/14/2012 11:55:32 PM)
I had some guy tell me the same because I'm only attracted to physically fit guys, respond to all future messages of a similar nature with "cool story bro".

DaddySatyr -> RE: really don't understand (10/14/2012 11:59:25 PM)
OP; I had someone e-mail me and question my being on this site because my profile says that I'm not into BDSM. No one has to justify their presence here (past meeting an age requirement for the site administration). Don't worry about what others think your limits should be until you meet the person/people with whom you want to explore pushing those limits. Peace and comfort, Michael

sweetshything -> RE: really don't understand (10/16/2012 5:58:52 AM)
You met a dom who hasn't finished reading the Idiot's Guide to Basic BDSM. He will shortly be followed by the dom who accuses you of reading the Scared sub's guide to BDSM, who will get all huffy when you don't agree to meet (after chatting for 20 minutes over IM), be tied up and beaten, then raped. Go to a local munch! There are real people there who are more likely (though not guaranteed) to have a bit more knowledge of what BDSM is about.

AVegasMaster -> RE: really don't understand (10/19/2012 4:29:29 PM)
Everone has different needs. There is nothing wrong with YOU! It is the jerk that is way off base.

ursamajour -> RE: really don't understand (10/20/2012 10:25:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie I'm still upset that people I approach on the street won't have sex with me. It's just a basic gawdamn question. LMAO

chatterbox24 -> RE: really don't understand (10/20/2012 10:27:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Somuchmoreinsc i was told today by a "dom" because of my limits im not ready for a masters world or this lifestyle i don't understand can someone explain please Doms or those who I have spoke to seem a lil self centered, lol. So he might have simply meant you are not ready for his world.

amaidiamond -> RE: really don't understand (10/20/2012 10:34:35 AM)
He was a douchenozzle plain and simple ... His world is most likely in the basement fapping off to insex whilst trying to avoid his parents hearing him.

OsideGirl -> RE: really don't understand (10/20/2012 10:45:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: amaidiamond His world is most likely in the basement fapping off to insex whilst trying to avoid his parents hearing him. I think that's the quote of the day!

amaidiamond -> RE: really don't understand (10/20/2012 10:52:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: amaidiamond His world is most likely in the basement fapping off to insex whilst trying to avoid his parents hearing him. I think that's the quote of the day! LOL where's sunny when needed :D

Bimbofied -> RE: really don't understand (10/20/2012 4:06:35 PM)
I just got a message from a dom and he said he was into consensual "non consensual and some bunch of other sick stuffs that would make the most twisted sadistic dom crinch...

Baroana -> RE: really don't understand (10/20/2012 4:07:34 PM)
and?

Bimbofied -> RE: really don't understand (10/20/2012 6:44:38 PM)
Oh my! I didn't know it got cut in half lol. He said he wanted to kidnap me "nonconsensually" he used the non consensual word a lot, so he wanted me to give him my address or go to an hotel and give him my room number. I immediately deleted his message without even replying. Then he sends another message accusing me of being a fake sub, he said I had no idea what being submissive is and I had better luck going to a sugar daddy site if I was looking for a Daddy Dom because and I would quote his exact words "BDSM is all about the pain and not the pleasure, you my dear are living in a fantasy world if you think there is such a thing as a gentle dom" I just deleted and blocked him. He is a sick twisted soul probably a murder or a rapist. Not every Dom on CM is a real Dom and sadly most subs are too trusting...

LookieNoNookie -> RE: really don't understand (10/20/2012 8:19:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Somuchmoreinsc i was told today by a "dom" because of my limits im not ready for a masters world or this lifestyle i don't understand can someone explain please His eyes are too close together....sure sign of criminal intent if there ever was one.

graceadieu -> RE: really don't understand (10/21/2012 10:43:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Bimbofied Oh my! I didn't know it got cut in half lol. He said he wanted to kidnap me "nonconsensually" he used the non consensual word a lot, so he wanted me to give him my address or go to an hotel and give him my room number. I immediately deleted his message without even replying. Then he sends another message accusing me of being a fake sub, he said I had no idea what being submissive is and I had better luck going to a sugar daddy site if I was looking for a Daddy Dom because and I would quote his exact words "BDSM is all about the pain and not the pleasure, you my dear are living in a fantasy world if you think there is such a thing as a gentle dom" I just deleted and blocked him. He is a sick twisted soul probably a murder or a rapist. Not every Dom on CM is a real Dom and sadly most subs are too trusting... Good call. Consensual non-consent, abduction etc is the kind of play that you should only do with someone you really know and trust, not some random stranger. Dunno if he was a rapist or just some crazy idiot who watches too much BDSM porn, but either way he's someone to avoid.

Baroana -> RE: really don't understand (10/21/2012 10:45:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Bimbofied Oh my! I didn't know it got cut in half lol. He said he wanted to kidnap me "nonconsensually" he used the non consensual word a lot, so he wanted me to give him my address or go to an hotel and give him my room number. I immediately deleted his message without even replying. Then he sends another message accusing me of being a fake sub, he said I had no idea what being submissive is and I had better luck going to a sugar daddy site if I was looking for a Daddy Dom because and I would quote his exact words "BDSM is all about the pain and not the pleasure, you my dear are living in a fantasy world if you think there is such a thing as a gentle dom" I just deleted and blocked him. He is a sick twisted soul probably a murder or a rapist. Not every Dom on CM is a real Dom and sadly most subs are too trusting... ... and he'll continue to be a lonely loser for the foreseeable future.

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