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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/14/2012 10:22:46 PM   
masmiss


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Status: offline 		There's a thread on another forum started by a whiny male complaining that women don't answer every single message sent them.

Now there's this thread from yet another whiny male bitching about findommes and prodommes and how they should be filtered out because, darn it, it's just so time-consuming for him to do it himself.

The conclusion I can't help but come to is that there is a large percentage of males on this site who believe the burden of them (the men) finding a woman is on the women.

Um, no. We outnumber you, so suck up young man and do the hard work it takes to find a partner.

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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/14/2012 10:52:44 PM   
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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/14/2012 10:58:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		I love the eyes on this spider. They're like gems.

OK, OK, I know I'm weird.

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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/15/2012 12:40:55 AM   
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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/15/2012 12:42:47 AM   
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ORIGINAL: masmiss

I love the eyes on this spider. They're like gems.

OK, OK, I know I'm weird.



I had to look at the pic a few times before I realized it was a spider...LOL

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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/15/2012 11:39:38 AM   
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Status: offline 		Some of you make me laugh. What do you think because you're a domme it gives you a free pass to be a rude cunt? I was simply suggesting a feature to the site, which in my opinion would make it a lot better. Something that wouldn't even be difficult to implement. It's not about me being lazy or whiny, having this simple filter will just make things so much more efficient. I happen to like convenience, I guess that's something the site developers don't care much about.

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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/15/2012 11:44:08 AM   
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ORIGINAL: RyTheDominantSub

Some of you make me laugh. What do you think because you're a domme it gives you a free pass to be a rude cunt?

Oooooh, you're such a dominant little sub. How cute.

Here's what you can do; if you come across one of those nasty pros, you can hide their profile so you never see them again. There is your filter. Now stop being such an annoying little whinebag.

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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/15/2012 11:54:42 AM   
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ORIGINAL: RyTheDominantSub

Some of you make me laugh. What do you think because you're a domme it gives you a free pass to be a rude cunt? I was simply suggesting a feature to the site, which in my opinion would make it a lot better. Something that wouldn't even be difficult to implement. It's not about me being lazy or whiny, having this simple filter will just make things so much more efficient. I happen to like convenience, I guess that's something the site developers don't care much about.
If I was the site owner, I wouldn't spend the money to implement it. Why? Because it doesn't create a benefit to the majority of the members here. All of the other categories that are available via search have a potential significance to all members, regardless of gender or role. I'd venture to say that the search criteria that you propose has little to no positive for the high majority of both male and female Dominants, as well as most female submissives. That leaves only male submissives, which certainly don't make up 51% of the membership here. Any money that I would spend on the site would be towards doing the most good for the most people. For example, I'd add options to search for top and bottom, which would be far more useful to more members of the site, before I'd add a pro designation.


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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/15/2012 11:56:18 AM   
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ORIGINAL: RyTheDominantSub

Some of you make me laugh. What do you think because you're a domme it gives you a free pass to be a rude cunt? I was simply suggesting a feature to the site, which in my opinion would make it a lot better. Something that wouldn't even be difficult to implement. It's not about me being lazy or whiny, having this simple filter will just make things so much more efficient. I happen to like convenience, I guess that's something the site developers don't care much about.


Oh bless your heart.

Pot, meet kettle.

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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/15/2012 11:59:22 AM   
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ORIGINAL: RyTheDominantSub

Some of you make me laugh. What do you think because you're a domme it gives you a free pass to be a rude cunt? I was simply suggesting a feature to the site, which in my opinion would make it a lot better. Something that wouldn't even be difficult to implement. It's not about me being lazy or whiny, having this simple filter will just make things so much more efficient. I happen to like convenience, I guess that's something the site developers don't care much about.


Suggesting a feature to the site can be done by sending mail to the admins. If you want to share the idea here, expect advice and criticism, which both Doms and Dommes have given you.

Here's a friendly tip: saying that site admins don't care is not the best way to get them to consider your suggestion. Negativity breeds negativity (practically invites it, even).

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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/15/2012 12:06:09 PM   
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All these whiny anti-prodomme,fat,fake,mod bashing,non-message responding threads remind me why the following pic is so true.....




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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/15/2012 12:18:49 PM   
TNDommeK


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Listen OP, these "dumb cunts"(which is not a nice thing to say) as you call them are experienced and they are trying to give you advice (maybe in their own way, but advice nonetheless). Perhaps instead of becoming defensive, just take the advice. It isn't hard to spot us. Hell the first line in My profile states "I am a fin Domme". So when you do find fin Dommes, just hide the profile and keep it moving. Do you really think it attractive to a potential lifestyle Domme who checks your profile and sees this rant? Just a friendly word of advice.

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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/15/2012 12:31:22 PM   
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quote:

What do you think because you're a domme it gives you a free pass to be a rude cunt?


No. You don't have to be a domme to be a rude cunt. You aren't even a woman and you are doing just fine at that job.

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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/15/2012 12:32:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		I was actually thinking about this the other day (slow day). The thing is the sort of people you are really trying to filter out are the ones who wouldn't tick that box anyway... not very fair on the real pro-dommes and honest financial dominants? It's an open site - surely they have the right to sell themselves, just like anyone else?

It might be an idea to stop the willy-waving abusive language too. Pot, kettle, black? More like a kettle calling another kettle... a kettle. (actually, that's a bit harsh on the original kettle!)

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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/15/2012 1:47:13 PM   
TNDommeK


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Status: offline 		I totally agree. There are Fin Dommes that I know and pro Dommes that I know, that are very respectable. Thus the reason why I suggested the hide button. Not sure that I ever called him pot, kettle or black.

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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/18/2012 10:40:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		It all boils down to this .... Get the hell over it and just be glad you did not have to do what most of us had to do before the computor age . Having to find places that would let us do brunches or anything else was hell . You go back to the 70's and 80's and ask a woman if she likes to be tied up and flogged . That was the fastest way to get thrown out a bar and beaten . Well second fastest the first was just being gay . Hell people looked at you like a freak just for looking at a Playboy . It is so much easier and nicer being able to talk and get to know people know . Safer to .

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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/18/2012 11:07:27 PM   
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Get the hell over it and just be glad you did not have to do what most of us had to do before the computor age . Having to find places that would let us do brunches or anything else was hell . You go back to the 70's and 80's and ask a woman if she likes to be tied up and flogged . That was the fastest way to get thrown out a bar and beaten . Well second fastest the first was just being gay . Hell people looked at you like a freak just for looking at a Playboy . It is so much easier and nicer being able to talk and get to know people know . Safer to .


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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/19/2012 6:38:44 AM   
Lucylastic


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Status: offline 		I fink there should be a filter for
Do-Me subs who complain about ProDommes, FinDommes, hookers, pro subs and the male versions too.
Whinyarse lazy morons.
Misogynists, Misandrists.
Anyone who doesnt fit into my world view
Sizeists, ageists, sexists, body builders, .
Anyone who hasnt got compasssion, a sense of humour that matches mine
Or people not into hard core edge play BDSM 24/7
People with IQs smaller than their age or shoe size
And I want a tool to zap the shit out of the stoopid and ignorant

Guess what, Im shit outta luck.
Such is life
Yet Ive been here for 6 years. And Im as happy as a clam
Because I have the power to ...click hide, ignore or move on.
Sometimes I even try sarcasm, derision and cynicism.
whinging has its good and bad points, but stomping around like a three year old is never popular




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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/19/2012 9:50:01 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Silentrunner26

It all boils down to this .... Get the hell over it and just be glad you did not have to do what most of us had to do before the computor age .

Exactly. He has a medium which makes it fairly easy to find what he's looking for and is accepting of what he's looking for....and he's whining about the small amount of effort it will take to find someone that he's interested in. Matter of fact, he finds the effort to be wasting his time.



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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/19/2012 6:44:46 PM   
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