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FetishPrincess1 -> Fin-Dommes & Pro-Dommes: Your Opinion? (10/14/2012 6:26:24 PM)
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The subject of Pro-Dommes and Fin-Dommes:
WELL, An "industry" cannot exist unless there is a market for it...
Men do in fact buy both fetish and pornographic materials on a regular basis!
They buy photo and video downloads, they buy x-rated screen savers and sexy desktop wallpapers/cell phone wallpapers, they join paid subscription websites to watch porn, they join paid adult web cam sites for erotic chat, they buy adult magazines, they pay per minute for phone sex, they buy adult dvd's...ETC.
NONE of what I listed above involve "Real-Time" Encounters at all.
So why is it that MEN see it to be perfectly ok to accept paying for those things but then suddenly have a problem with a WOMAN being a Fin-Domme or Pro-Domme?
As a Fin-Dom I have a list of "fetishes" that I enjoy both partaking in and indulging others in...And for "each" of those very fetishes I offer the exact same things I just listed above!
Why does it "seem" as if men are just fine with "paying" when the woman in question is a SUBMISSIVE FEMALE?
These cam sites, phone sex hot lines, porn sites...they usually portray the female in a submissive or slutty manner to appeal to the men. For just $5. per min. a guy can "make her do whatever he says" from the comfort of his home.
How come he isn't demanding her to prove herself via "REAL-TIME" prior to entering his ccard info?
And How am I a scam just because I title myself a Fin-Dom?
Every photo I sell, Every Video I sell, Every webcam or phone session I do;
I own legit copyrights to the content. I'm the person in the pic and the person on the phone, and the person on the screen. So the MAN is in fact getting what HE paid for.
So I don't see why people keep saying don't give money to fin-dommes or why male dominants feel such need to write me private messages about how "what I am doing is wrong"...
A girl online posts and ad that says hey if you like busty girls then come check out my big tits and men go running with their credit card in hand...and when she says for just $9.99 you can buy my videos of me playing with my tits they buy it.
So how is that any different from me saying if you have a foot fetish buy videos of me entertaining you with my feet?
A fetish model is an adult model. And a fetish is a fetish.
The girls online selling downloads of pics showing their tits are technically catering to men who have a breast fetish.
Forgive my rants...lol but I am new to this site and I guess I just don't get why men on here seem to be so negative to dommes who charge a fee. Yet they do not have a problem with a phone sex actress charging a fee.
One guy told me that fin dommes should go get a real job.
So I asked him...Is being a porn star a real occupation or should they also go get a real job?
Shall I tell them its wrong that they are getting money from men who like to see them naked on screen?
Is being a phone sex operator also not a real job?
Is being an adult model also not a real job?
She takes sexy photos men buy them. She makes sexy videos men buy them.
She talks dirty to men on the phone men pay per minute.
I do the exact same thing. The only difference is that the nature of the content or the conversations are all pertaining to specific bdsm fetishes, rather than the usual moaning, groaning and the "Im a naughty girl for you" talk.
I don't see what is wrong with the idea of a fin-domme selling items or a pro-domme charging for services.
Only til I joined this site did I discover the fact that men did not like the idea of fin-dommes and pro-dommes.
Yes I know part of it is the whole risk of scams, but myself and so many others always offer cam verification as proof yet we still get nasty emails from members telling us off, on how we are wrong for quote: "asking for money"
Im not asking for "free money" Im selling a legit product or service.
When you choose to buy a porno online you risk getting scammed,
when you choose to buy minutes in advance for phone sex you risk getting scammed.
Yet you still do it.
All of those ask you for credit cards up front without any cam verification or assurance yet you still do it.
But a fin-domme who has a legit public page, or website and is willing to cam verify in person is a scam?...
For me fetish entertainment is a business and I do infact know dommes who really do this as a full time job.
I guess because I don't cheat people it kinda bugs me when I get messages on here assuming something of me
without even knowing me.
I have never had that happen before until I joined this site. Ive had guys buy my content and book online/phone sessions and not once even questioned me.
And Like I said I've never actually known that people in general had such negative views on paid dommes until now...
Maybe I just never paid attention to it. I would like your input and for you to in fact enlighten me as to why people feel the way they do about this?...
Thanks!
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