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GotSteel -> RE: If someone could clarify.... (10/20/2012 6:06:07 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: wnyThroatLover
Last night it was put to me that a Male-Dom Couple is 2 dominant men...


I had never heard the expression before but my immediate thought was that you were talking about a relationship between two male doms.




frazzle -> RE: If someone could clarify.... (10/20/2012 7:47:22 PM)

I'll join the answers that say 'male dom'. Without reading the profile i wouldnt guess at your partners inclinations




graceadieu -> RE: If someone could clarify.... (10/21/2012 10:39:04 AM)

As far as I've seen, on this site it usually means a couple with a male dominant and a female submissive. I've never seen it used to refer to two dominant men, though maybe gay men use it that way?




Baroana -> RE: If someone could clarify.... (10/21/2012 10:39:48 AM)

Is male-dom not short for male-dominated?




wnyThroatLover -> RE: If someone could clarify.... (10/21/2012 11:08:53 AM)

Ok, so since it appears to be a toss up it seems my origional question wasn't unfounded...

...therefore the super bitchtastic response was unwarranted...

...and thusly, we are still super awesome [:D]




spanknstrap -> RE: If someone could clarify.... (10/21/2012 11:23:35 AM)

It looks like it just means that there's a male Dom in the picture. To figure out the sexual preferences, it's a different search field.




GotSteel -> RE: If someone could clarify.... (10/21/2012 5:10:43 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: wnyThroatLover
...therefore the super bitchtastic response was unwarranted...


They generally are. Some people are going to be bitter or negative towards you not because of anything you've done but because they are bitter, negative or depressed people.

But solution here is just to hit the ignore button on such people.




KaiKai -> RE: If someone could clarify.... (10/21/2012 6:12:44 PM)

Sounds like two males to me.
M/f is common abbreviation for what you want.
Make sure the capital is for the Dominant, and the lowercase is for the submissive.




spanknstrap -> RE: If someone could clarify.... (10/21/2012 6:43:50 PM)

That's what I thought too. Then i noticed the four types of couples in the site search are are Dom/Dom couple, sub/sub couple, Male Dom couple, and Femdom couple. I guess any one of those four could be hetero (or not).




Toysinbabeland -> RE: If someone could clarify.... (10/21/2012 6:47:21 PM)

Sub/sub?....I don't think I understand that dynamic....




GotSteel -> RE: If someone could clarify.... (10/22/2012 6:17:39 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Toysinbabeland
Sub/sub?....I don't think I understand that dynamic....


*Shrug* doesn't matter as long as they understand that dynamic.




LadyPact -> RE: If someone could clarify.... (10/22/2012 6:27:41 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Toysinbabeland

Sub/sub?....I don't think I understand that dynamic....
It doesn't necessarily mean there is one.

I'm one half of a D/D couple. That, as opposed to Dominant/switch, means there is no power exchange between the two of us.





Toysinbabeland -> RE: If someone could clarify.... (10/23/2012 4:51:43 AM)

Lady, I know of others like you, who exist based upon their play with others, I get that, but when I do not get as a sub sub couple who answers to who?... I can't wrap my head around that one.... I am certain that they exist... I just don't understand.
Btw, nice to meet you.




autumnember -> RE: If someone could clarify.... (10/23/2012 4:58:01 AM)

Likely they do not "answer" to each other and just like a D/D would do, they invite others into the relationship




Rochsub2009 -> RE: If someone could clarify.... (10/23/2012 5:36:17 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Toysinbabeland

Sub/sub?....I don't think I understand that dynamic....


What's so difficult to understand? Both parties identify as subs.

I think your confusion may be because you assume that one of the parties in the relationship has to dominate the other. That's not true. Just think of them as a normal vanilla couple with no D/s dynamic between them. But outside of that relationship, one or both of them may have a Dom/Domme.




Rochsub2009 -> RE: If someone could clarify.... (10/23/2012 5:38:56 AM)

In response to the original question, if I had seen the term "Male-Dom Couple", I would have assumed that it was referring to a gay male couple who were both dominant (outside of their primary relationship with one another).




mons -> RE: If someone could clarify.... (10/23/2012 7:47:20 AM)

I am so please you have found you soul mate!

But my question is now why do you bother to write
and answer someone whom is lacking manners?

You have written in you journal how sad that they'can not have '
you and your on hell of a catch!

There is not need to do this your blessed to have found
that Master whom loves and cherishes you!

Be blessed and let the others whom write to you just
let it go! They want you to fight with them and they do
get aroused from the put-downs you give them!

It is good to have someone special so do not over
prasie yourself, so much be can lose in seconds!

Thank god you have someone and be happy that
is all it takes! This is a learning expericnes be grateful
or god may in seconds take it all away!

Just be happy

best regards,
mons




wnyThroatLover -> RE: If someone could clarify.... (10/23/2012 8:04:39 AM)

^^^^^Nice attempt at changing the subject^^^^^




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