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Finding a Mistress - 10/22/2012 11:44:51 AM   
obedientsub2012


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Hi all

I'm fairly new to this site and I'm loving it so far - but I've got a question - how would I go about finding a Mistress? I'm really into dominant woman and would like to serve a Mistress and be her slave or bitch - I'm a bit new to this so any help or advice would be much appreciated

Thanks for your help

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 10/22/2012 11:50:28 AM   
MistressDarkArt


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Status: offline 		Welcome! Your best bet is to read and heed every word of the Ask A Mistress FAQ before updating your profile (which is mostly blank), then contacting anyone here.

Get involved with your local community. Is there a TNG (next generation) group in your area? Find a munch; attend events.

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 10/22/2012 12:06:08 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		He's in bloody Essex, nothing but munches, events, and kinksters.   (see what I said about reading the FAQ, first; mate?)

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 10/22/2012 2:38:01 PM   
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RE: Finding a Mistress - 10/22/2012 6:31:02 PM   
QueenRah


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Status: offline 		Hopefully, not seen. My reply evidenced hair-trigger annoyance and wasn't helpful to the noobs.

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 10/22/2012 6:36:26 PM   
peppermint


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Status: offline 		I agree with has already been suggested. Read the FAQs so that you won't make any fatal mistakes online. Go to events and munches and meet people. I will add, if you wish to make an impression and show how useful you might be a a Dominant woman, be a volunteer at events. You'll meet the largest number of people when you do that and you will also show what a handy guy you might be to have around.

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 10/22/2012 6:42:54 PM   
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RE: Finding a Mistress - 10/23/2012 1:29:29 AM   
pyschosubmission


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RE: Finding a Mistress - 10/23/2012 6:26:38 AM   
Rochsub2009


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ORIGINAL: obedientsub2012

how would I go about finding a Mistress? I'm really into dominant woman and would like to serve a Mistress and be her slave or bitch.



Make sure that you really want to serve HER, and then make that clear in your profile. Most male subs actually are looking for a woman to serve their kink. I think you'll find that most dominant women aren't looking to become your service Domme, and they look negatively upon "do me" subs.

I haven't looked at your profile, but your picture makes me believe that you're a "do me" sub, and the only thing that you're looking to serve is your kink.

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 10/23/2012 9:08:49 AM   
ServiceBoy89


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Status: offline 		Write on your profile that you are a billionaire.I can bet you will have over 100 messages on the next day

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 10/23/2012 9:17:14 AM   
Hillwilliam


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ORIGINAL: ServiceBoy89

Write on your profile that you are a billionaire.I can bet you will have over 100 emails on the next day

Especially if you say your first name is "Christian"

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 10/23/2012 10:57:58 AM   
ServiceBoy89


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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam


quote:

ORIGINAL: ServiceBoy89

Write on your profile that you are a billionaire.I can bet you will have over 100 emails on the next day

Especially if you say your first name is "Christian"



Oh yeah rooster :P

obedientsub2012 now serious it is very hard to find a REAL mistress here.I still looking thought.

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