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MAINEiacMISTRESS -> RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever (11/6/2012 6:59:42 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Ninebelowzero
Hi belgiansubmale/ George.
Pleased to meet you here mate
My ex was my Domme/Top I bought her stuff because it pleased me to please her. She wasn't pro she was just mine for 13 years here's a breakdown on prices of stuff bought (all in sterling)
Basques x 5 or 6 80 quid a pop
Corset 200 quid a throw
Shoes x numerous 50 quid a pair
Stockings numerous 10 quid a pair
Knickers numerous 10 quid a pair
A saddle 200 quid
Crops Paddles etc probably totalling 400 quid
Handcuffs 50 quid a pair
Dresses probably a couple of grand over the years
Pearl necklace over a grand for that one
Now my point is it pleased ME to see her like that so I gets to help pay for it.
Oh I forgot various pairs of combat pants as she filled them beautifully.
So that's why Dommes go pro. This shit costs serious money. Factor in BDSM furniture & premises &there you have it
So here we are in the middle of a recession & cash is tight for Subbies & Dommes alike so get out your toolbox & barter your SKILLS for hers. You will get takers in the pro community.
Remember bartered skills don't go on the books so aren't taxable. Self employed people like this.
Hope that helps George.
All the best.
Pete.
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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
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ORIGINAL: MAINEiacMISTRESS
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ORIGINAL: belgiansubmale
Sigh.... i thought lifestyle was not about money....
Sooo, if a devoted sub of a NON-pro Domme wants to pay for his mistress' new refrigerator, or new set of tires for her car, in your eyes should that then make her ineligible to be on this site? Life COSTS money, and whether you are going to a pro, serving as slave to a non-pro, or are lucky enough to find a GF who is a Dominant, money will USUALLY enter into the lifestyle in one way or another.
One of my friends made a comment that has stayed with me. She said that male subs want female dominants to look a certain way. "Corsets, thigh high boots, long nails, lingerie, great hair and make up...now go look at how much some of that stuff costs."
If you want someone to have a specific appearance, you shouldn't complain when you're asked to support that appearance.
I too find MOST of the fin-dommes to be irritating, though I outright laugh at some of their pages. OCCASIONALLY I run across one who actually has Her act together and is doing it in a more "respectable" way (instead of being a screeching troll begging for money, She's calmly providing a place for those with the fetish to indulge)
For those of you who want to find a non-Pro Domme but don't want to "pay", don't forget to factor in all the costs of just a "meetup" with you (A 3-hour round trip to meet a subbie last month cost over $60 in gas), taking a day off from work, perhaps getting hair and nails done (oh, and let's not forget daycare/babysitter if She's a mother). And for many such as Myself, it costs $100/month for phone/internet to keep in touch with subs daily, etc. All the little things add up too.
I think some subbies are too accustomed to Mom paying for everything and since "Domme" rhymes with "Mom" they get confused.
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