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ReverentDeviant -> RE: How Long? (10/23/2012 2:20:40 PM)
You're ready when you're no longer worried about whether you're ready or not.

Hillwilliam -> RE: How Long? (10/23/2012 2:24:00 PM)
A very damn profound and accurate statement by a new poster.

kitkat105 -> RE: How Long? (10/23/2012 5:23:12 PM)
When you've figured out what went wrong so you know not to make the same mistake again.

LookieNoNookie -> RE: How Long? (10/23/2012 7:58:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lilmissdefiant How long should someone wait until they put themselves back on the market after a breakup? No more than 6 hours. 8, tops if you're a really hot chic.

Focus50 -> RE: How Long? (10/23/2012 8:18:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lilmissdefiant How long should someone wait until they put themselves back on the market after a breakup? When the person in the mirror tells you it's time for more* in your life. The demanding prick in my mirror always seems to know. But here's the BIG trick - YOU hafta look him/her right in the eye and admit they're right (as usual). * Btw, a rebound isn't "more", that's still being in denial while fucking others around (in whatever context you like). Nothing personal intended, just sayin'... Focus.

Silentrunner26 -> RE: How Long? (10/23/2012 8:23:26 PM)
When you are ready you will know and not before . You will just know . It many happen at any time or any where when you heart tells you it is time . Till then heal and live . Love will come again it always does but just not as fast as we want .

LadyPact -> RE: How Long? (10/23/2012 8:30:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: autumnember quote: ORIGINAL: Kana When they're healed and there will be no ghosts in the bed This statement is so full of win Agreed. The time frame isn't going to be the same for everybody. After an eigth year relationship ended, (vanilla) I specifically took a year off from relationships of any sort. One of the best things I ever did.

yourdarkdesire -> RE: How Long? (10/23/2012 8:37:33 PM)
If I recall correctly, lilmissdefiant, you kinda jumped into the last one really really fast. A short visit ended up with you moving in with him. Way too fast for anyone. I would keep things nice and light, a little chatting, a little online flirting, but nothing more until next year.

littlewonder -> RE: How Long? (10/23/2012 11:11:24 PM)
aahh....I thought that was the case. I wasn't sure though so I kept it to myself. Thanks for bringing up that fact. Yeah, don't jump next time. What's your hurry?

anniezz338 -> RE: How Long? (10/23/2012 11:53:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ReverentDeviant You're ready when you're no longer worried about whether you're ready or not. This is bang on. Well said.

kitkat105 -> RE: How Long? (10/24/2012 12:01:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littlewonder aahh....I thought that was the case. I wasn't sure though so I kept it to myself. Thanks for bringing up that fact. Yeah, don't jump next time. What's your hurry? This too. Be patient. You don't have to settle.

kiwisub12 -> RE: How Long? (10/24/2012 3:56:06 AM)
10 years ................ after my divorce and three years of therapy. Right away after my Sir died ................. because i had processed his dying during his time left on earth, and yes, though i was grieving, i was ready. Which having written it, sounds stupid. However i have been in a very loving stable relationship since he died. in other words, its right when its right. No-one can tell you but you.

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