CynthiaWVirginia -> RE: Why so many BBW Mistresses? (11/21/2012 9:30:00 AM)
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ORIGINAL: misscatastrophee I always have respect for my potential subs and my subs as well. But respect is important to me nonetheless. When one demands respect from someone simply because they are a Dom/me, then they are usually the ones who (in my personal opinion) deserve that respect the least. Respect is earned through attitude and behavior, deeds and demeanor. When someone says to me "you must respect me," my only thought is "now I likely never will." If someone wants my respect, they must show me that they deserve to have it. I think I see what she was talking about. Decent manners. Long time ago when I was 18, a guy in his seventies told me an anecdote. It went something like this: Two people ended up in front of a door, and without even thinking about it the man opened the door for the woman. The woman got huffy, put her hands on her hips and said, "You do NOT have to open a door for me JUST BECAUSE I'm a lady." The man replied, "Ma'am, I didn't open the door because you are a lady, but because I am a gentleman." If someone has very poor manners, the respect that is lacking...is not all about me and whether I deserve it or not.
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