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FIRST TIME AT A DOMINATRIX PARLOUR - 10/25/2012 5:43:38 AM

benzo555

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heya.can i ask for some advice please.im going to a dominatrix parlour tomoro and im a bit nerves about it.does any 1 hav eny tips for me or know what it is like please.

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RE: FIRST TIME AT A DOMINATRIX PARLOUR - 10/25/2012 5:55:21 AM

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Bring your manners AND your wallet. Don't expect sex.

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RE: FIRST TIME AT A DOMINATRIX PARLOUR - 10/25/2012 6:25:49 AM

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Agreed, being less than polite in any way can get you shown the door.

Also, bring your best hygiene. You will most likely be asked to sign a waiver, so don't let that throw you, although I'm not sure what UK laws are on this.

A good prodom will ask you some questions up front in order to learn your experience level and what you hope to get out of the session. She should discuss safe words with you. If she doesn't, then YOU bring it up. Sessions are typically short, one or perhaps two hours, depending on how fat your wallet is. At the end of the session, a good pro will do a quick debriefing to determine how things went from your POV.

Going to a pro for the first time is certainly a reason to be excited, not a reason to be overly nervous. Everyone was new once, and a good pro knows that.

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RE: FIRST TIME AT A DOMINATRIX PARLOUR - 10/25/2012 1:32:34 PM

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Don't know what kind of experience you are going for (I believe you've posted your desires, in previous threads?); but, you need to be aware of unforseen allergic reactions, if you are going to have toys used on/in you. Make sure the pro-Domme gives you a run-down of safety protocols and, as mentioned by others in this thread, safe words or signals. I never gag my partners, 1) because I like the screaming and the cursing - it makes me laugh and 2) because I need them to be able to communicate with me very clearly, in case something's not right, of which I am not aware.

I remember reading about a guy who visited a dungeon, was dressed up in a latex gimp suit and had his mouth gagged. He had no way to signal the Dominatrix that he was having an anaphylactic reaction to the latex and died from it.

Uhh...have fun?

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RE: FIRST TIME AT A DOMINATRIX PARLOUR - 10/25/2012 7:20:58 PM

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Bring your wallet and be prepared to leave unhappy with yourself.

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RE: FIRST TIME AT A DOMINATRIX PARLOUR - 10/27/2012 6:20:13 AM

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I agree with everything ChatteParfait had to say. Laying out clear expectations before the session begins means the pro-domme will be more able to tailor it to your needs.

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RE: FIRST TIME AT A DOMINATRIX PARLOUR - 10/28/2012 10:17:45 AM

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So, benzo, still breathin'?

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