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Master96 -> sub-women! (6/14/2006 8:45:03 PM)

Hello everyone,

I’m wondering…. among all the web sites on the internet, does a sub woman find what she wants? I mean for sure there are a lot of sites for sub men…. How about you girl, are there sites you can enjoy and learn from?

Thanks,




Sirandlittle1 -> RE: sub-women! (6/14/2006 9:18:39 PM)

Im a sub, here's what i was seeking from online dbsm.

Porn: erotic stories of the bdsm theme.
Was i successful in the search? Oh yes, and then some.

Discussion
Again, yes. Chat rooms contain less chat than they perhaps should. Forums provide discussion for me.

Theoretical knowledge.
Again, yes, only i didnt realise how difficult to describe a powerexchange moment. And what i did learn, was only partly relevant to us. More a guide was found. A basic premis upon we'd play our D/s. But we'd be doing it our way. So theory is good for some things. LIke the how to's. But not necessarily about dynamics.

Finding a compatable bdsm partner
Again, yes, i found mine on line. I am very fortunate. We are very fortunate.

So id give on line the thumbs up.

IT has gotten me things. I like it.
littleone




APerfectParadox -> RE: sub-women! (6/15/2006 12:17:08 AM)

A few years ago my ex bf  'confessed ' to being a sadist and to his interest  in bdsm a few months into our relationship.  I turned to the internet for an explanation of what exactly I was getting into. I Found some great sites with with erotic stories and pictures, it didn't take me long to realise this was for me, vanilla would never be enough  again. 
Later when I began to have concerns about safety and emotional abuse, I easily found the information I sought about safety. Shortly after that I found a  chatroom with  some very kind Doms who gave me good advice about was and wasn't generally considered  crossing the line from domination into emotional abuse, and as a result left that relationship.
My online research  brought me into contact with enough good people that  I continued my exploration into this lifestlye  despite my less than ideal introduction. .That was two years ago and without the internet and what i learned here things would have turned out very differently  for me I am sure. 




sabswife -> RE: sub-women! (6/15/2006 4:51:26 AM)

this is my favourite site:  http://www.castlerealm.com/ for reading material.  to ask questions from people and engage in discussions, i come to collar.

i was very lucky in the way that i found my Dom before i even knew i was looking for one, on the internet.




littleone35 -> RE: sub-women! (6/15/2006 6:27:05 AM)

Actually i was looking for like minded people and i stumbled into a chat room and there were mostly players there but there was one real person there.  A nicw sub girl told me about collarmee and a few other sited but this was the best one.  I met my Master on here so you could say i found just what i was looking for.

Matt's littleone




akisha -> RE: sub-women! (6/15/2006 10:43:37 AM)

hmmm looking for online... A better chance of meeting a wider variety of other like minded individuals. Which may or may not lead to some form of relationship, be it friendships or more. I also use the internet to research, and learn things that I want to know about. Becasue sometimes I'm too shy to ask a question. Once I've found some information then it's easier to ask specific questions on a topic.




Tikkiee -> RE: sub-women! (6/15/2006 2:35:25 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Master96

Hello everyone,

I’m wondering…. among all the web sites on the internet, does a sub woman find what she wants? I mean for sure there are a lot of sites for sub men…. How about you girl, are there sites you can enjoy and learn from?

Thanks,

I perfer real life to online. I use online only as a way to talk to others. Any information I MIGHT obtain from online sources, I alwasy run by those I know in RL. Sometimes they agree, sometimes they disagree; sometimes we decide to see if it's true.
/shrug
Just the way I perfer to do things.




kickinchick -> RE: sub-women! (6/15/2006 5:02:30 PM)

I agree with Tikiee....cyber is one thing, but to look into a man's eyes, hear his voice and see his sincerity is something totally different. You can fake it on line, but not in person.  In my humble opinion.




Master96 -> RE: sub-women! (6/16/2006 1:38:03 PM)

thanks for those replies, and i wish all who found their Dom happeness!

i'm happy that sub women find what they want, and i'm glad that the interenet isn't oriented for men only... well sub men at least.

take care,




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