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Virgin Subs: BAD OR GOOD? - 10/27/2012 11:14:43 AM   
LearnerChris1992


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Status: offline 		So what i want to know is what you all think of virgin subs, is it a pro or a con, or a bit of both in your eyes
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RE: Virgin Subs: BAD OR GOOD? - 10/27/2012 11:28:59 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Welcome back, Chris. Wanna ask another question?

Also, your profile asks men to quit looking at your profile. That does NOT indicate interest, and if they see that... it's already too late.

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RE: Virgin Subs: BAD OR GOOD? - 10/27/2012 11:48:40 AM   
LearnerChris1992


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< Message edited by LearnerChris1992 -- 10/27/2012 12:42:05 PM >

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RE: Virgin Subs: BAD OR GOOD? - 10/27/2012 11:49:53 AM   
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RE: Virgin Subs: BAD OR GOOD? - 10/27/2012 12:01:49 PM   
AthenaSurrenders


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Status: offline 		Chris. It's unlikely times have changed significantly in six months I'm afraid - you're likely to get the same responses.

Some women will like virgins, some will dislike it. Most will likely not have strong feelings because it's not as important as other things like compatibility and maturity and willingness to learn.

But you know what Mistresses hate? Snarky attitudes. Calling out someone for finding your old thread? Not cool. Makes you look immature.

Also, DarkSteven was giving you some profile advice - by the time they see 'don't read my profile', they are already reading it, so even if they want to comply with your wishes it's too late.

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RE: Virgin Subs: BAD OR GOOD? - 10/27/2012 12:08:41 PM   
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RE: Virgin Subs: BAD OR GOOD? - 10/27/2012 12:23:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LearnerChris1992

I got forced off this site because of comments from people like him and i think he was one of the people who forced me into it, so im back and im not taking crap anymore.

Soooo if anyone would like to get back to the main topic instead of insulting me for forgetting i asked a question six months ago...that would be greatttttt


Oh, no...you don't get to pull that shit.

What really happened is you flounced because no one coddled you or catered to your pathetic little cry for wank fodder. Let's call a spade a spade, shall we? Guess what, sparky, it's not going to be any different today than the last time you engaged in a bout of one-handed typing.

Time to put on your big boy pants and act like an adult or time to flounce. Again. Whatevs. No one here gives a rat's arse. Suck it up, buttercup.

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RE: Virgin Subs: BAD OR GOOD? - 10/27/2012 12:23:25 PM   
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I really enjoy experience (on all levels) with virgin submissives as long as they don't have too much bad programming in their head from porn or other pre conceived notions of what femdom is all about.

There's nothing quite like raw, real, authentic reactions to first time encounters - absolutely!

But there's no bigger turn off than a man, out of the gate, behaving with a pre-set list of rules, ("Yes Mistress!") that he picked up from porn or his own fantasies, dripping in self indulgence.

If he comes to me as a clean slate, ready to learn and eager to understand femdom on my playing field, it can be fantastic.

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RE: Virgin Subs: BAD OR GOOD? - 10/27/2012 12:30:20 PM   
LearnerChris1992


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ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan


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ORIGINAL: LearnerChris1992

I got forced off this site because of comments from people like him and i think he was one of the people who forced me into it, so im back and im not taking crap anymore.

Soooo if anyone would like to get back to the main topic instead of insulting me for forgetting i asked a question six months ago...that would be greatttttt


Oh, no...you don't get to pull that shit.

What really happened is you flounced because no one coddled you or catered to your pathetic little cry for wank fodder. Let's call a spade a spade, shall we? Guess what, sparky, it's not going to be any different today than the last time you engaged in a bout of one-handed typing.

Time to put on your big boy pants and act like an adult or time to flounce. Again. Whatevs. No one here gives a rat's arse. Suck it up, buttercup.


would you like to explain how asking if Dominant females like virgins or not is looking for wank fodder? i would love to know, if i was looking for wank fodder, i could ask "would you like a slave who does x/y/z" I didnt, i asked for views on something that matters to me.

Last time i was on these forumrooms i was insulted, told to get off and generally treated like crap, so this time im not taking insults unless i have asked from them. how the fuck can you judge me when you know nought about me. Answer...you CAN'T so quit trying

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RE: Virgin Subs: BAD OR GOOD? - 10/27/2012 12:33:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LearnerChris1992

that was hardly calling out, if i really wanted to insult him trust me, i could do a lot better, I got forced off this site because of comments from people like him and i think he was one of the people who forced me into it, so im back and im not taking crap anymore.

Contrary to your username, you don't appear to have learned much of anything since your last visit here.

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RE: Virgin Subs: BAD OR GOOD? - 10/27/2012 12:33:44 PM   
AthenaSurrenders


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ORIGINAL: LearnerChris1992

that was hardly calling out, if i really wanted to insult him trust me, i could do a lot better, I got forced off this site because of comments from people like him and i think he was one of the people who forced me into it, so im back and im not taking crap anymore.

Soooo if anyone would like to get back to the main topic instead of insulting me for forgetting i asked a question six months ago...that would be greatttttt


I have no doubt you could think up worse insults. We're all adults here, we all know lots of naughty words.

If you get hurt to the point that you have to leave a website for six months because some people don't like your threads, well, you're gonna have a rough time online.

Seriously, you got some good responses in your last thread, and you've already got some nice advice from Aakasha. I doubt you'll get anything vastly different this time. Like last time, opinions will vary and there will probably be a general consensus to go easy on the porn so as not to set yourself unrealistic expectations. And believe me, unrealistic expectations are easy to come by when you are fantasising - I sure as hell had some.

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RE: Virgin Subs: BAD OR GOOD? - 10/27/2012 12:38:25 PM   
AllisonWilder


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Status: offline 		I don't know about anyone else, but I personally wouldn't take on a virgin sub that had this 'fuck off' attitude. Showing respect to everyone is a big thing to Me.

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RE: Virgin Subs: BAD OR GOOD? - 10/27/2012 12:44:45 PM   
LearnerChris1992


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Status: offline 		anyone wanna close this, no point it existing really, its become an abuse forumroom

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RE: Virgin Subs: BAD OR GOOD? - 10/27/2012 12:50:12 PM   
AthenaSurrenders


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Status: offline 		I was actually trying to give you serious advice just then.

I wasn't quite a virgin when I got with Master, but I'd never been with a man and had never been involved in a bdsm relationship. We spent a lot of time on the phone imagining how it would be and I had a vision of myself as some kind of wonder sub masochist... I was not. Seriously. Try not to set yourself up for disaster by imagining things will go a very specific way and fullfill your exact fantasies.

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RE: Virgin Subs: BAD OR GOOD? - 10/27/2012 12:54:50 PM   
SylvereApLeanan


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ORIGINAL: LearnerChris1992

would you like to explain how asking if Dominant females like virgins or not is looking for wank fodder?


Ok, but just remember you asked for it.

1. You want to know if dominant women like something. Well, duh. Of course, the answer is going to vary from person to person. This is a no-brainer. Ergo, your question isn't "do dominant women like virgins," your question is "will dominant women be ok with the fact that I am a virgin or is that going to prevent me from getting laid?"

2. You asked this exact same question 6 months ago and got 3 pages of responses explaining that it will vary from person to person. Unless you're fucking stoned 24/7, your short term memory should be better than that. Ergo, you're not really looking for an answer to the question as much as you're trolling for responses from women who potentially will enjoy relieving you of your virginity.

3. You remember getting "driven off" the site well enough, so you've already proved you're lying when you say you forgot you asked this question 6 months ago. Ergo, there is nothing wrong with your short term memory. See #2.

4. You admit that this is a topic that "matters" to you. Yet you already know the answer to your question, as we've already demonstrated. Ergo, you are not looking for more answers, you are looking for women who will give you the answers that will fuel your masturbatory fantasies, i.e. wank fodder.

All cleared up now or do I need to use smaller words?



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how the fuck can you judge me when you know nought about me. Answer...you CAN'T so quit trying


I call bullshit. I can and have based my opinion of you on both your past and present behavior. Don't like it? I don't care. Suck it up and stop pretending you're the wounded party. You're nothing more than just another horny net geek typing with your cock in one hand and a pissy attitude in the other. Give it a rest and get over yourself. You are neither unique nor a special snowflake. You're not even a novelty. We see your ilk here on a daily basis and eat them for breakfast. They're one of our main sources of fiber.



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RE: Virgin Subs: BAD OR GOOD? - 10/27/2012 1:05:28 PM   
LearnerChris1992


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Status: offline 		i post multiple things six months ago, and got crap on pretty much all of them, about thirty discussions on various topics,mostly asking things a long the times of "good meeting places"etc NOTHING THAT WAS WANK FODDER. Im trying to learn, not seek wank fodder. Please don't insult my intelligence with that last comment, I'm studying four courses and the only lesson I have ever failed was PE( I was obese at the time). and for the record, i two hand type and have not touched my cock except to go pee all day. :D

i remember getting driven off because i posted threads and got abuse largerly because i was new and shouldnt ask questions and ive had two good responses which are productive in this thread Akasha's and Athena's posts was both very helpful and i thank them for that.

Lesson learnt, dont post in CollarMe Forums

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RE: Virgin Subs: BAD OR GOOD? - 10/27/2012 1:16:59 PM   
SylvereApLeanan


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ORIGINAL: LearnerChris1992

i post multiple things six months ago, and got crap on pretty much all of them


Well gee...the only common denominator in this equation is you. You might want to take a good, long look in the mirror and figure out where you screwed up instead of blaming everyone else for your shortcomings.

If you want to learn, SHUT UP and actually listen to what people are telling you. Read the FAQ, that's why it's there. Use the Search feature. Again, it's there for a reason. And FFS, use your brain. You shouldn't need to ask this sort of question. The answer should be obvious to anyone old enough to be on a site like this, unless you're a lack-wit in dire need of a Net Nanny program.



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RE: Virgin Subs: BAD OR GOOD? - 10/27/2012 1:18:21 PM   
DarkSteven


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anyone wanna close this, no point it existing really, its become an abuse forumroom


Calm down. You haven't been abused.

You decided to ask the same question you asked six months ago. Weren't those answers good enough for you?

The fact that you're a virgin? Hell, I'll let you in on a secret - every single one of the people you've ever known in your life, including the posters in your thread, were virgins at one time.

Now for some advice - change to another topic, learn to deal respectfully with others, and don't run crying.

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RE: Virgin Subs: BAD OR GOOD? - 10/27/2012 1:23:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LearnerChris1992

i post multiple things six months ago, and got crap on pretty much all of them, about thirty discussions on various topics,mostly asking things a long the times of "good meeting places"etc NOTHING THAT WAS WANK FODDER.

You seem confused.

About thirty? No, not even close to that. Here are some of your gems:

Me for ruler of the universe
Can a slave have a cape?
Can a slave RULE A KINGDOM

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Lesson learnt, dont post in CollarMe Forums

Happy flouncing!

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RE: Virgin Subs: BAD OR GOOD? - 10/27/2012 1:26:11 PM   
LearnerChris1992


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