sexyred1 -> RE: Master training (10/28/2012 9:25:15 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Kana Be emotionally mature. Have self discipline. Rule your cock instead of the other way around. Develop some empathy, some insight into others. Be a man of character, integrity, decency, values. Always be honest. Learn to listen and listen to learn. Remember that a thing once said can never be retracted, so think before you speak. Don't make threats, they are for losers. Instead inspire. And know that ultimatums trap you far more than they do her. Give faith to get it. Be considerate of what's happening inside of/to her. Lead by example, not verbiage. Think with the big head. Realize that while you may fall for the wrapping paper, it's what's inside that you ultimately fall for. Have the strength to love, forgive. Be kind enough to be strict and firm enough to be fair .Be a man of your word, not of words. And know that trust can take a lifetime to achieve and be lost in a minute. Make her laugh. Win her heart and dominion over her body may one day be yours. And most of all, be consistent. God yes, if nothing else, do this. The observant reader may note that I said absolutely zip about whips, chains, floggers and all the assorted gizmos and shit that fetishists like. That's because I can train a monkey to wield a crop, but very, very few people have the capacity to reign. Which is why it's worlds easier for a good master to find a sub/slave in the BDSM world than the other way around, despite what all the number obsessed nimrods say. Damn it, why don't you just clone yourself? :)
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