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ORIGINAL: Shininglight23

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ORIGINAL: Barbiezz

I imagine the club/bar scene won't be the place it happens. Matter of fact we did meet a girl at the beach that was curious but didn't when I talked to her they pretty much talked about Master like an object because he is black.

I'm starting to get the feeling that a lot of the girls being white have some hang up over color. Personally I've been done wrong by white guys and black guys so race isn't an issue to me. I realize racism is still around but geez.. This is becoming more complicated. I'll just have to be patient

I hope you aren't trying to turn this into a white vs. black thing because that's not what it is about.

The first bolded piece struck me as odd.

Meeting someone at the beach, and having a conversation doesn't mean that you were meant to have poly bliss or even a threesome with them. It means you were having a conversation.

If I jumped in the sack with every person I met, found interesting, attractive, or the like... I would be one sore gal.

As for the little snippet about white girls being hung up about color... that's a broad generalization if there ever was one. You shouldn't lump everyone together... it's rude an inaccurate.

If you aren't taking the advice that seasoned posters are giving you... then you are reaping what you sowed.

Good luck to you... in whatever way you choose to do it.

Allie

p.s. Here's a photo about patience.

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ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders

You're not struggling because what you want is weird. You're struggling because what you want is incredibly common. Lots of couples out there want to add someone to their relationship. Not many people want to join an existing relationship.

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ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders

You're not struggling because what you want is weird. You're struggling because what you want is incredibly common. Lots of couples out there want to add someone to their relationship. Not many people want to join an existing relationship.

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Matter of fact we did meet a girl at the beach that was curious but didn't when I talked to her they pretty much talked about Master like an object because he is black.

I'm pretty shy by nature so I'm trying to get out of my shell. I don't know anything about this area besides it's a pretty place.

I'm starting to get the feeling that a lot of the girls being white have some hang up over color. Personally I've been done wrong by white guys and black guys so race isn't an issue to me. I realize racism is still around but geez.. This is becoming more complicated. I'll just have to be patient

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You can join SDC.com for free for a week or two - see if they have any events in your area and go to them. I knew lots of swingers in Florida who were also into BDSM.

Also use fetlife.com to find local BDSM events and start networking. (You will likely not meet the gf of your dreams at your first munch.)

ps - you have a couples profile but no pictures of him.

pps - In the seven years I was in South Florida I had too much random meaningless sex with women, a few fuck bodies, a girlfriend, and a poly relationship. One thing they had in common is that I met none of them online. My D introduced me to most of them. He and/or we mostly met them at the beach and clubs. (He's also picked up women in supermarkets and airports.)

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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

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Matter of fact we did meet a girl at the beach that was curious but didn't when I talked to her they pretty much talked about Master like an object because he is black.

I'm pretty shy by nature so I'm trying to get out of my shell. I don't know anything about this area besides it's a pretty place.

I'm starting to get the feeling that a lot of the girls being white have some hang up over color. Personally I've been done wrong by white guys and black guys so race isn't an issue to me. I realize racism is still around but geez.. This is becoming more complicated. I'll just have to be patient

I realize you are in SC, but this was not an issue in MA, NY, or especially the swinger and BDSM scene in Florida. I will repeat my advice from your other thread:

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You can join SDC.com for free for a week or two - see if they have any events in your area and go to them. I knew lots of swingers in Florida who were also into BDSM.

Also use fetlife.com to find local BDSM events and start networking. (You will likely not meet the gf of your dreams at your first munch.)

ps - you have a couples profile but no pictures of him.

pps - In the seven years I was in South Florida I had too much random meaningless sex with women, a few fuck bodies, a girlfriend, and a poly relationship. One thing they had in common is that I met none of them online. My D introduced me to most of them. He and/or we mostly met them at the beach and clubs. (He's also picked up women in supermarkets and airports.)

I see you haven't even bother to add a picture of him yet - I am not impressed by the efforts you have made so far.


Well I decided I'm not looking for this relationship to happen from an online meeting so I didn't take the advice of adding His picture. If it so happened I met someone real on the other side I have a cam to prove we are real

(in reply to kalikshama)

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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

Hey Mr Sexxxy - always nice when the other half chimes in :)

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ORIGINAL: Toysinbabeland

Even harder: find a unicorn that you can trust.