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lkb0503 -> Dom/sub dating I get it!! Finally!! lol (10/30/2012 11:04:31 AM)

So many of the very fine patient people on this forum tried to explain to me that finding a Dominant is just like internet dating.
I have found it works like this: You see a picture of a Dom/sub you like, you chat, text, talk on the phone. Find out of you match up to likes/dislikes/limits. The 1st in person meeting always in public. If a potential Dom/ dub won't agree to that 1st meeting in public that is a red flag!! Also never believe it if you are told
"I have a wife/girlfriend/husband/boyfriend who isn't into BDSM but is ok if I am!! I do realize there are BDSM couples out there. In that case be sure you talk to both parties!!
Anyway I'm having way too much fun being single and dating Doms!!



poise -> RE: Dom/sub dating I get it!! Finally!! lol (10/30/2012 11:07:39 AM)

Good for you, lkb! Continued success to you on your journey.



TieMeInKnottss -> RE: Dom/sub dating I get it!! Finally!! lol (10/30/2012 12:24:39 PM)

I am glad to hear it. I know you have had some bad experiences as we all have. As one person said "dominant doesn't mean decent"



AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Dom/sub dating I get it!! Finally!! lol (10/30/2012 12:51:56 PM)


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ORIGINAL: lkb0503

So many of the very fine patient people on this forum tried to explain to me that finding a Dominant is just like internet dating.
I have found it works like this: You see a picture of a Dom/sub you like, you chat, text, talk on the phone. Find out of you match up to likes/dislikes/limits. The 1st in person meeting always in public. If a potential Dom/ dub won't agree to that 1st meeting in public that is a red flag!! Also never believe it if you are told
"I have a wife/girlfriend/husband/boyfriend who isn't into BDSM but is ok if I am!! I do realize there are BDSM couples out there. In that case be sure you talk to both parties!!
Anyway I'm having way too much fun being single and dating Doms!!


Great! It's nice to see you so positive about it. That's how dating should be.



theRose4U -> RE: Dom/sub dating I get it!! Finally!! lol (10/30/2012 7:42:25 PM)


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ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss

I am glad to hear it. I know you have had some bad experiences as we all have. As one person said "dominant doesn't mean decent"

Ditto this & would add what we tell male subs all the time...remember we are people first & not a life support system for kinks



sexyred1 -> RE: Dom/sub dating I get it!! Finally!! lol (10/30/2012 10:11:26 PM)

It is unusual for an OP to actually take advice.

Good for you. Keep on being discerning.



Toysinbabeland -> RE: Dom/sub dating I get it!! Finally!! lol (11/1/2012 1:21:22 AM)

Enjoy the ride.



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