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everyhole4u -> RE: Anal first time (11/3/2012 8:53:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Darkfeather quote: ORIGINAL: autumnember quote: ORIGINAL: VNasty yes my butthole is a virgin lol, so i was always was scared to try it before but i want to now anyways i just wanna know if most dominant guys like it more then pussy , and what should i expect when i do get my cherry taken lol This isn't a d/s thing or even a kink thing imo. Some men like anal (and some women too) so when you are communicating with a fella just bring it up and if they say ewwwww then you know its not what you are looking for. Myself, i won't date men who aren't into fucking my ass. It is something that i have enjoyed sexually far too long to give up. There are some men who don't like anal? That is an affront to society and needs to be dealt with Some guys tell me they don't like it. People say women like sex b.c it is a mental thing with us, which is bullshit. Its mental for anyone- i mean someone out there had to think 2 girls 1 cup was hot to have to make it. The guys that have told me this are squimish about it just can't fathom fucking a shithole, or are homophobic. Of course their disapproval makes me feel like a very bad little girl... I am the same way- get the fuck out of here unless your going to stick your cock in my ass. I also must add that from what i can remember the guys that have said it haven't actually tried it- but hey to each their own.

Darkfeather -> RE: Anal first time (11/4/2012 3:07:42 AM)
quote: Some guys tell me they don't like it. People say women like sex b.c it is a mental thing with us, which is bullshit. Its mental for anyone- i mean someone out there had to think 2 girls 1 cup was hot to have to make it. The guys that have told me this are squimish about it just can't fathom fucking a shithole, or are homophobic. Of course their disapproval makes me feel like a very bad little girl... I am the same way- get the fuck out of here unless your going to stick your cock in my ass. I also must add that from what i can remember the guys that have said it haven't actually tried it- but hey to each their own. Well,it's been said before. Anal is all about the kink, the power. It's doing something society has deemed "wrong" or bad. But my litmus test, if it feels good, do it again just to be sure. Then rinse and repeat

Toysinbabeland -> RE: Anal first time (11/4/2012 3:09:05 AM)
If anal is so wrong, why are you rewarded with an orgasm if it's done correctly?

autumnember -> RE: Anal first time (11/4/2012 6:57:23 AM)
Ya anal is about as "wrong" as blow jobs. Many people who do not identify as kinky at all engage in anal sex. It is a norm that just not everyone is into.

autumnember -> RE: Anal first time (11/4/2012 6:59:37 AM)
Now ass to mouth is kink because there are few who do it and that seems a heck of a lot more taboo.

Darkfeather -> RE: Anal first time (11/4/2012 7:10:54 AM)
If you were to go to your local pastor or rabbi, and tell em you wished to engage in anal, oh the talking you would get. Do the same with "marital procreative" sex, and you get a whole different one. Right or wrong, the bulk of sociatal views stem from perceptions like this. Point is, no matter how "accepted" it is, people still hold it in a different category from good ole missionary. And that is where the kink comes in, doing something taboo. And I suspect why some don't even try it

autumnember -> RE: Anal first time (11/4/2012 7:16:25 AM)
Ahh so you are saying that it is on the same level then as premarital sex. I can agree with that.

Darkfeather -> RE: Anal first time (11/4/2012 7:22:42 AM)
That and when you are dealing with people as a collective, definitions get narrower. What is a fun pastime to one or a few, becomes kink to the masses

Kana -> RE: Anal first time (11/4/2012 8:28:55 AM)
Actually, unless I'm mistaken (The lilone knows lots more about Judaism than I do so I'm working a bit from memory here), the local Rabbi won't give two shits. They don't really see sin the same way Christians do. He's likely to be much more concerned as to whether you are doing it with a gentile... Your friendly neighborhood minister now, he's likely to care a lot (Unless he's a Catholic Priest and you're a Boy Scout-then you may have a a hot date on your hands :-p)

autumnember -> RE: Anal first time (11/4/2012 9:53:23 AM)
but that is the entire point ... it is not one or a few ... i have had a few partners in the past and there was only 1 of those who were not interested in anal. Now, i speculate that more men are interested in it than women so i will go so far as to say only 50% of the population are actually in to it. That, to me, is not a few. That, to me though ymmv, means that it has become normalized. Now these stats are completely projected by my own experience but i have have had enough experience to know that anal is not considered taboo by the majority of people in my area.

littlewonder -> RE: Anal first time (11/4/2012 1:42:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kana Actually, unless I'm mistaken (The lilone knows lots more about Judaism than I do so I'm working a bit from memory here), the local Rabbi won't give two shits. They don't really see sin the same way Christians do. He's likely to be much more concerned as to whether you are doing it with a gentile... Your friendly neighborhood minister now, he's likely to care a lot (Unless he's a Catholic Priest and you're a Boy Scout-then you may have a a hot date on your hands :-p) In Judaism, a man may have sex with his wife at anytime and may do anything he wishes with her as long as it is not a waste of seed. So while you are allowed to have anal sex, you are not supposed to cum inside of her ass. But in marriage, sex is not only seen as for procreation, but also seen as an act that makes a relationship grow and keeps both desirable to each other which in the end leads to procreation.

PanamaGuy -> RE: Anal first time (11/7/2012 3:25:08 AM)
It is not about the anal sex but about the domination , like putting lipstic on the sub and making him give you a ring on the head of the cock and on the tits.. The behind will happen soon as you deserve it .

SailingBum -> RE: Anal first time (11/7/2012 11:13:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VNasty yes my butthole is a virgin lol, so i was always was scared to try it before but i want to now anyways i just wanna know if most dominant guys like it more then pussy , and what should i expect when i do get my cherry taken lol Comon babeeee make it hurt so good BadOne

SchrodingerSock -> RE: Anal first time (11/7/2012 12:33:45 PM)
We like anyone from the local nymphorium, and corsets and boots. and we like brains, tasty tasty brains. I prefer to drink mine through a straw. And my ass has been taken by some bint I dated eons ago with small strap on ( as I am so tight). I fail to see what the apprehension is about nor the awe of (some) supposed Dom types with the charming chat and anal fixation propagating a misconceived label. id by you flowers afterwards

chatterbox24 -> RE: Anal first time (11/7/2012 12:41:11 PM)
Rainbow brains are quite tasty I hear. [:D] Anal is a love/hate deal with me. I love to hate it and I hate to love it.

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