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SimplyMichael -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 9:19:58 AM)
That scene wouldnt work for Kana, not to speak for him but the overall flavor isnt how he sees or uses his woman is my bet.

crazyml -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 9:22:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael That scene wouldnt work for Kana, not to speak for him but the overall flavor isnt how he sees or uses his woman is my bet. Oh I agree... at the end of the day you need to measure your kink in SimplyMichaels, Kana his in Kanas, and me mine in CrazyMLs.

OsideGirl -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 9:38:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders All that matters is whether it was too kinky for you personally. Words of wisdom from Athena. I guess that's why she's Athena.

SimplyMichael -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 9:47:25 AM)
Now, might I whisper in her ear about how being dropped off at that biker bar would play out? Sure, but the,reality wouldnt be as fun as the fantasy. And hot kink is very much situational. A partner of mine had a thing for chains but I,had,never bothered becuase they were a turn off to me. Not elegant, clunky, noisy, etc. However, one weekend I,wanted to spoin,her,so,we started playonh with chains. I can very sensual, so I start sliding them over her body, dragging link over her nipples one at a time and her nipples were amazing! When her eyes rolled back in her head though as I wrapped the chain around, er neck, thats when I started to get into it. Stuffing the links inside her cunt though was when her fetish became mine and I used one end around her neck to pull her down on my cock while I slowly pulled another chain up past her cunt and over her back and it became an afternoon of as much predicament play as I could imagine and much of the,day is lost in a blur. Never played with chain before or since her.

VNasty -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 9:52:38 AM)
anyways, i have no problem taking cum in the mouth i dont swallow though, i have an oral fixation but it doesnt gross me out like say spit in my mouth does. i take it though since im submissive and he likes it

artemiss -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 10:01:27 AM)
I thoght it gross till he did it, and was surprised at how hot I found it to be. The one that missed my mouth and landed on my eye lid was interesting. Tryng to look at him as ordered, and not letting it drip into my eye was a challange.

Spiritedsub2 -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 10:47:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael Getting people honest about their edgiest kinks isnt likely. Plus, for many of us, that edge moves and shifts depending on our chemistry with a person. Take two women, one a 3 and another a 7 on some imaginary kink scale. Its as hot for me to push a 3 to a 4 as it is to push from a 6 to a 7. Also, the whole meaning of a kink act changes based on chemistry. It can go from deep personal intimacy for one couple to deep degredation for another, and every shade between. People dont tend to talk about edgy stuff for fear of driving off potential partners, changing how people percieve them. This is why the endless messages I get asking for specifics on what I will and won't do make little sense to me. I am convinced that what I will or won't do is ENTIRELY dependent on the person I'm with and my chemistry with that person. It just isn't a question I can answer in the abstract, which is certainly not the answer any of the messagers are looking for.

SailingBum -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 10:49:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VNasty anyways, i have no problem taking cum in the mouth i dont swallow though, i have an oral fixation but it doesnt gross me out like say spit in my mouth does. i take it though since im submissive and he likes it I have to say that is way to kinky for me... I mean the NERVE spitting out my seed. On another note the way it was explained to me is. The reason they swallow is cuz they are to lazy to get up n spit. All of my blowjobs have been of the lazy type. BadOne

MariaB -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 12:23:43 PM)
I know some seriously depraved people that wouldn't let someone spit in their mouth. Don't worry about it. Its not about being kinky or not kinky enough. Its about what turns you on and what turns you off. Me and my partner both spit at each other. I normally run after I've done it to him and he only does it to me if he has me firmly held down. I think if anyone had done that to me in the past I would of killed them (metaphorically!) but I'm crazy about S and so spitting is just something fun that we do to get a reaction. Spit is spit, I mean, its not like he's asking you to eat the sweetcorn out of his shit. A bit of saliva never hurt anyone but if it grosses you out then you shouldn't be doing it.

Duskypearls -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 12:26:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael Now, might I whisper in her ear about how being dropped off at that biker bar would play out? Sure, but the,reality wouldnt be as fun as the fantasy. And hot kink is very much situational. A partner of mine had a thing for chains but I,had,never bothered becuase they were a turn off to me. Not elegant, clunky, noisy, etc. However, one weekend I,wanted to spoin,her,so,we started playonh with chains. I can very sensual, so I start sliding them over her body, dragging link over her nipples one at a time and her nipples were amazing! When her eyes rolled back in her head though as I wrapped the chain around, er neck, thats when I started to get into it. Stuffing the links inside her cunt though was when her fetish became mine and I used one end around her neck to pull her down on my cock while I slowly pulled another chain up past her cunt and over her back and it became an afternoon of as much predicament play as I could imagine and much of the,day is lost in a blur. Never played with chain before or since her. By Gawd, that sounds like fun! What a nice idea to wake up to from a nap. Thanks muchly!

LaTigresse -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 1:20:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MariaB I know some seriously depraved people that wouldn't let someone spit in their mouth. Don't worry about it. Its not about being kinky or not kinky enough. Its about what turns you on and what turns you off. Me and my partner both spit at each other. I normally run after I've done it to him and he only does it to me if he has me firmly held down. I think if anyone had done that to me in the past I would of killed them (metaphorically!) but I'm crazy about S and so spitting is just something fun that we do to get a reaction. Spit is spit, I mean, its not like he's asking you to eat the sweetcorn out of his shit. A bit of saliva never hurt anyone but if it grosses you out then you shouldn't be doing it. The part I bolded........nominated for Sunny post of the day!!!!!!!

Aswad -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 2:05:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders I love snogging and I know you share a lot of saliva that way. But some how the deliberate transfer of saliva squicks me out. Also spit once outside the body becomes disgusting. I can't say why. It's instinctive. Try being even hornier. Arousal suppresses squick somewhat. And familiarity tends to desensitize to squick. Some people may not feel any squick about it in the first place, but I suspect most do. IWYW, — Aswad.

Kana -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 3:20:03 PM)
Gaaawd, you folks obviously watch the wrong holiday movies. Otherwise you would know that, "It's all fun and games till someone puts an eyeball out" Or at least till you plug the eggbeaters in [sm=boxer.gif]

JeffBC -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 3:23:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VNasty is some of this stuff too kinky u think Uh... perhaps I'm missing something here but... Too kinky for what? What measurement scale are we using to determine when it's "too much"?

Shininglight23 -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 3:33:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VNasty so i was with some dom i met and they liked having me suck on theyre tongue , he also liked spitting into my mouth , im pretty freaky n nasty and like doing trying new sexually but i was kinda grossed out at first, is some of this stuff too kinky u think The person I was most recently with enjoyed when he sucked on my tongue. I didn't really reciprocate...but that was his thing. I would say it was odd, but harmless. (In my experience at least.) One of the very first people I was with in a D/s manner was "into" spitting. The first time it happened was a total shock and utterly disgusting. He taught me to love things such as spitting, water sports, and fisting. My memories of him are both delightful and dirty! It depends on what YOUR mindset is... where YOU want it to go... if YOU are dead set against doing those things in the future. For me... they were outside my norm., but I rolled with the punches, and had some awesome times because of it. I hope you can figure out what is "too kinky" for you. Oh, and I only caught a glimpse of it, but I think you said you don't swallow cum either. Ladies don't spit. [;)] Allie

absolutchocolat -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 4:12:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009 Relative to most of the people here, you sound like a Girl Scout. You haven't really mentioned anything freaky. Now if you had said that they tied you up and put you in a cage, then pissed all over your face, then force-fed you fresh shit, then suspended you by your tits and carved pictures in your breast with a sharp instrument, branded their names on your ass, stuck pins into your pussy lips, then connected you to a mechanical fucking machine with a 20 inch dildo attachment and let it fuck you for an hour as a warm-up before dressing you up as a Catholic school girl and taking you to a biker bar to let 20 bikers run a train on you, all while being filmed and streamed live on the internet, THEN I might say that you were a little kinky. But what you described is like light petting. [:D] BTW, welcome to the boards. [;)] holy shit, roch. you rock.

Toysinbabeland -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 4:19:10 PM)
Roch, please don't talk about Oour last session in public without permission.

GotSteel -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 4:34:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VNasty is some of this stuff too kinky u think Peoples ideas of what's hot and what's disgusting will vary greatly. At the end of the day it doesn't matter what we're into just what you and he are both comfortable with. Now I'm not saying that you need to love everything that the two of you do but stay away from stuff that well I guess I'll go with the word traumatic.

DesFIP -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 9:07:20 PM)
Doesn't matter if everyone else here likes that, you're allowed not to. I'd view it as humiliation, personally, and I don't do that. However, it is recommended that you discuss what you do and don't like before it happens. So next time someone tells you he's kinky, ask him what he most enjoys. If you enjoy those things also, you're compatible. If they make you recoil in horror, you're probably not.

FrostedFlake -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 9:41:46 PM)
To squick or not to squick. That is the question. Whether it is nobler in the mind endure the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune, or whether it is better by opposing, to end them. I really can't give you any advice about that, but I can Dance! Cha-cha-cha! Cha-cha-cha! Cha-cha-cha!

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