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QueenRah -> RE: Ask my neighbor? (11/1/2012 4:09:48 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I hsve a funny feeling I've read this before.


I have a funny feeling this is a flight of fantasy meant to trawl for reactions from well-meaning, but mislead respondents. This is not an attack. It is mere musing.




theRose4U -> RE: Ask my neighbor? (11/1/2012 4:11:11 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Whippedboy

Wow. That was fast. Two quick "No's." Ok... *pouts*
But thanks for the reality check. :)

There is this crazy thing called a munch...google it for your area. Fulnny thing is CONSENTING kink people attend these to meet new people. Do suggest you wear pants!!




absolutchocolat -> RE: Ask my neighbor? (11/1/2012 4:29:28 PM)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7QTqKfl2c64




Whippedboy -> RE: Ask my neighbor? (11/1/2012 9:04:09 PM)

Nice clip. Never heard of that one, Absolute.
As for creepy, again, who cares? That was not my question. My question was specific. So because they don't like the question, they can skip the theme of the post and then make a personal attack on me and say I'm "creepy? And I'm supposed to sit back and not reply to that? If someone makes a personal remark about me, then I am going to reply. THAT'S A FACT.
And as for Violet and Janah, maybe if you actually read the post AND the question being asked, your answers would make any sense. I wasn't asking for validation, only a simple yes or no. Believe me, validation from either of you would be, well, meaningless. Wow. Brain-dead once again...Did I ask about pouting? (It WAS a joke.) Did I ask anything else? No. Oh, but apparently you felt compelled to answer a question that was not asked. Also, what IS an inappropriate fantasy? If it was appropriate, I doubt it would be a fantasy, no? But that seems to be a bit too abstract a concept for you.
Also, I stand by my original assessment of Janah. I only use words that are appropriate for the occasion.




Whippedboy -> RE: Ask my neighbor? (11/1/2012 9:20:00 PM)

I SWEAR it is absolutely true.
I am relaying what she said happened.
The phone call with my friend is true as well and I can prove it.
Let me know if you want the proof.
quote:

ORIGINAL: QueenRah

quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I hsve a funny feeling I've read this before.


I have a funny feeling this is a flight of fantasy meant to trawl for reactions from well-meaning, but mislead respondents. This is not an attack. It is mere musing.





littlewonder -> RE: Ask my neighbor? (11/1/2012 11:43:52 PM)

eeerr..... wierd. That's all I can say....weird. But hey, go for it. I'm sure you'll both enjoy it and have a happy, healthy life together. [8|]

I'm thinking your neighbor didn't do a damn thing to you and just finds you to be a nitwit. I think you are pulling shit out of your fantasies hoping it's real when it's not. That or you are leaving the tin foil hat on for too long.




Whippedboy -> RE: Ask my neighbor? (11/2/2012 7:59:20 AM)

It is SOOOO fucking funny to me that with all the bat-shit crazy stuff people talk about on here that getting drunk one night and making a fool of yourself gets such a visceral response from such a large group of idiots. And then gets extrapolated to, " have a happy, healthy life together." Jesus Christ people! And that I was CONSIDERING acting on a harmless fantasy. Who gives a shit? WOWOWOWOWOW!!! Get out and get some fresh air!!




freedomdwarf1 -> RE: Ask my neighbor? (11/2/2012 8:18:42 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Whippedboy

It is SOOOO fucking funny to me that with all the bat-shit crazy stuff people talk about on here that getting drunk one night and making a fool of yourself gets such a visceral response from such a large group of idiots. And then gets extrapolated to, " have a happy, healthy life together." Jesus Christ people! And that I was CONSIDERING acting on a harmless fantasy. Who gives a shit? WOWOWOWOWOW!!! Get out and get some fresh air!!


I think the general concensus is that your so-called "harmless" fantasy is fraught with problems and could land you in serious legal shit because you have only thought about it from your side of the fence.

That's how I read most of this.





JanahX -> RE: Ask my neighbor? (11/2/2012 8:43:30 AM)

Oh youre creepy all right - and I could care less about your question or what your asking about - the fact are facts. In fact, the more you write, the more creepy you seem. If you were my neighbor - Id be armed with a tazer at all times.

Calling what you wrote, and the person who wrote it -creepy- isnt an attack - its completely the first thing that came to mind of what you have presented and posted in a public forum. The end.

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ORIGINAL: Whippedboy

Nice clip. Never heard of that one, Absolute.
As for creepy, again, who cares? That was not my question. My question was specific. So because they don't like the question, they can skip the theme of the post and then make a personal attack on me and say I'm "creepy? And I'm supposed to sit back and not reply to that? If someone makes a personal remark about me, then I am going to reply. THAT'S A FACT.
And as for Violet and Janah, maybe if you actually read the post AND the question being asked, your answers would make any sense. I wasn't asking for validation, only a simple yes or no. Believe me, validation from either of you would be, well, meaningless. Wow. Brain-dead once again...Did I ask about pouting? (It WAS a joke.) Did I ask anything else? No. Oh, but apparently you felt compelled to answer a question that was not asked. Also, what IS an inappropriate fantasy? If it was appropriate, I doubt it would be a fantasy, no? But that seems to be a bit too abstract a concept for you.
Also, I stand by my original assessment of Janah. I only use words that are appropriate for the occasion.





MissKittyDeVine -> RE: Ask my neighbor? (11/2/2012 1:37:12 PM)

Ooooooooooooooooookaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay

I´d be moving state if I lived next to you. You do not come across as a charmer, just based on your attitude in this forum.


quote:

ORIGINAL: Whippedboy

It is SOOOO fucking funny to me that with all the bat-shit crazy stuff people talk about on here that getting drunk one night and making a fool of yourself gets such a visceral response from such a large group of idiots. And then gets extrapolated to, " have a happy, healthy life together." Jesus Christ people! And that I was CONSIDERING acting on a harmless fantasy. Who gives a shit? WOWOWOWOWOW!!! Get out and get some fresh air!!





Whippedboy -> RE: Ask my neighbor? (11/2/2012 4:35:24 PM)

You couldn't afford to live where I do, anyway.
You're only 40? OMG...
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ORIGINAL: MissKittyDeVine

Ooooooooooooooooookaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay

I´d be moving state if I lived next to you. You do not come across as a charmer, just based on your attitude in this forum.


quote:

ORIGINAL: Whippedboy

It is SOOOO fucking funny to me that with all the bat-shit crazy stuff people talk about on here that getting drunk one night and making a fool of yourself gets such a visceral response from such a large group of idiots. And then gets extrapolated to, " have a happy, healthy life together." Jesus Christ people! And that I was CONSIDERING acting on a harmless fantasy. Who gives a shit? WOWOWOWOWOW!!! Get out and get some fresh air!!







LadyPact -> RE: Ask my neighbor? (11/2/2012 7:30:44 PM)

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But again, the definition of creepy? Really? With all the sick-ass shit on this site and the worst thing is POSSIBLY wanting to be sub to a neighbor is creepy?
You ALL need a reality check. Look around you. Look at who you hang with.
Now THAT'S fucking creepy.
Ok, dude. Up until this point, I was being nice about this conversation. Now it's time to be blunt.

I do a lot of that so-called "sick ass shit". Do you want to know why I'm *not* creepy?

It's because I don't inflict My kinks on anybody else. I don't mess with people who have not consented to activities. I don't impose and I don't shove My kinks down other people's throats. I'd lay odds right now that I could make you uncomfortable with some of My pleasures. Do you know why I don't? Because YOU have the right not to be subjected to the stuff that makes your skin crawl and I am the one who understands that you have those rights. Is that a hard concept to understand?

That's why you are the creepy guy across the hall and I'm the kinkster.




searching4mysir -> RE: Ask my neighbor? (11/2/2012 8:11:34 PM)

Cupcake, she is in Barcelona, Spain, not Toadsuck, Arkansas. You have no idea what she can or cannot afford. Real estate isn't cheap in Barcelona.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Whippedboy

You couldn't afford to live where I do, anyway.
You're only 40? OMG...
quote:

ORIGINAL: MissKittyDeVine

Ooooooooooooooooookaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay

I´d be moving state if I lived next to you. You do not come across as a charmer, just based on your attitude in this forum.


quote:

ORIGINAL: Whippedboy

It is SOOOO fucking funny to me that with all the bat-shit crazy stuff people talk about on here that getting drunk one night and making a fool of yourself gets such a visceral response from such a large group of idiots. And then gets extrapolated to, " have a happy, healthy life together." Jesus Christ people! And that I was CONSIDERING acting on a harmless fantasy. Who gives a shit? WOWOWOWOWOW!!! Get out and get some fresh air!!









littlewonder -> RE: Ask my neighbor? (11/2/2012 10:10:06 PM)

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DarkSteven -> RE: Ask my neighbor? (11/2/2012 10:34:43 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Whippedboy

It is SOOOO fucking funny to me that with all the bat-shit crazy stuff people talk about on here that getting drunk one night and making a fool of yourself gets such a visceral response from such a large group of idiots. And then gets extrapolated to, " have a happy, healthy life together." Jesus Christ people! And that I was CONSIDERING acting on a harmless fantasy. Who gives a shit? WOWOWOWOWOW!!! Get out and get some fresh air!!


Buster, lemme explain what we're into regarding that crazy stuff. We do blood play. We do needles. We do whips. We do bondage. And when we do it, we are responsible enough to be 100% in control of ourselves. What kind of opinion should we have of some guy that cannot even handle getting into his apartment because he's so drunk?

Also, this "harmless fantasy" of yours - you are thinking of involving a PERSON. Someone with real feelings. You are such a mismatch to her that one or both of you would end up getting angry/hurt/harmed if something were to happen. As long as you're not capable of caring about people's feelings, you need to lay off trying to form relationships.

I know you really don't like to hear what's in your best interests, but we don't care.

Assuming your little vignette has any truth to it.




ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Ask my neighbor? (11/2/2012 11:50:32 PM)

Using FR:

Oh boy, whippedboy, you do need a whipping, one that you *wouldn't* like. Here's why:

ONE
Involving anyone in your kink w/o their consent is a big no no in the BDSM world, or didn't you know that? That you were drunk doesn't excuse you in the least as far as I'm concerned. I lived with a drunk for 20 years and I know drunks do exactly what they want - then they blame their bad behavior on being drunk.

You don't get a pass from me (or anyone else from what I read) on that one. YOU involved your neighbor w/o her consent.

TWO
Your neighbor doesn't appear to like you (I wonder why?) and you don't like her. Why would you want to continue to involve her?

Your words:

quote:

She tends to be loud, inconsiderate, she has 2 cats (or more) that soil everywhere--we are in a pet-free building. She has a pile of crap in our covered parking area that makes it look like a flood came thru. We have had more than a couple arguments. She is older and I am not attracted to her on a physical level.


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he thought of humiliating myelf in front of this bitch was excruciating


THREE
By your own words you've had an adversarial relationship. That you inflicted yourself on her while drunk and she didn't call the cops tells us she is a far better person than you give her credit for. And you still think she took pictures of you. Why? So she could blackmail you? That's your sick, twisted, fucked up mind that loves humiliation talking.

FOUR
I have a feeling you don't just dislike this woman, but ALL women. Because so far this entire thread has been all about you and you getting your kink on. YOU CARE NOTHING FOR HER. She would be a mere fetish delivery device for you.

FIVE
The way you have responded to the replies on this thread tells me you are a sad, lonely, pathetic person who actually thinks where you live makes you a better person. There are reams of unhappy people just like you. You are nothing special. You don't even have the sense to put your pants on before you get your picture taken.

SIX
You are a humiliation freak and the whole purpose of this thread was to fuel that. The only reason *I* am responding is to let you know you got busted on that one. And I am quite sure I'm not the only one who picked up on that little gem.

You are a prime example of why people who are into BDSM get a bad rap. And you're whining b/c someone called you creepy? Creepy doesn't even begin to describe you.








VideoAdminGamma -> RE: Ask my neighbor? (11/3/2012 1:42:34 AM)

Fast reply

I have pulled some violations and any replies or quotes from them. Please refrain from making personal attacks.

Thank you for being a part of CollarMe,
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Whippedboy -> RE: Ask my neighbor? (11/3/2012 10:48:04 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

Using FR:

Oh boy, whippedboy, you do need a whipping, one that you *wouldn't* like. Here's why:

Mmmmm...I BET you'd love to get your hands on that hard, tight ass! BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! No, thanks, Gramma.

ONE
Involving anyone in your kink w/o their consent is a big no no in the BDSM world, or didn't you know that? That you were drunk doesn't excuse you in the least as far as I'm concerned. I lived with a drunk for 20 years and I know drunks do exactly what they want - then they blame their bad behavior on being drunk.

You don't get a pass from me (or anyone else from what I read) on that one. YOU involved your neighbor w/o her consent.

Wow! You lived with a drunk for 20 years? I was going to respond to that but I'm sure there is enough pain there as it is.
Uhm, I'm not a drunk. I GOT drunk, ONCE, on my bday, when my friends bought me a couple too many drinks. We took a cab and there and a sober friend walked me back. I run triathlons throught the country and train DAILY. Drinking is simpy not an option for me. I fucked up. I apologized to her profusely. Other than saying I wanted to rub her feet, or whatever, she has NO idea about any kink I'm into.

TWO
Your neighbor doesn't appear to like you (I wonder why?) and you don't like her. Why would you want to continue to involve her?

Your words:

quote:

She tends to be loud, inconsiderate, she has 2 cats (or more) that soil everywhere--we are in a pet-free building. She has a pile of crap in our covered parking area that makes it look like a flood came thru. We have had more than a couple arguments. She is older and I am not attracted to her on a physical level.


quote:

he thought of humiliating myelf in front of this bitch was excruciating


She IS inconsiderate. Daily. EVERYONE in the complex hates her. Multiple pets in a pet-free complex. She sells weed out of her house. People knock on her door until 3 AM. Then leave 5 min. later. She often leaves for a month or more and rents out her place to any "wannabe player" that can come up with the $$ for a month. The list is endless. Again, this effects EVERYOONE in the complex every day. Unfortunately the owner is a little old lady who has called me CRYING, complaining about her as well and apologizing that she cant get her out because Santa Monica is all about the renters rights.

THREE
By your own words you've had an adversarial relationship. That you inflicted yourself on her while drunk and she didn't call the cops tells us she is a far better person than you give her credit for. And you still think she took pictures of you. Why? So she could blackmail you? That's your sick, twisted, fucked up mind that loves humiliation talking.

Really? "Inflicted" for 2 minutes on some random night? LMAO
The reason she told me later she opened the door is that she thought it was our other neighbor who had come over earlier and complained TO HER. Do you know WHY he came over? While he was at work during the day, she cut down a bunch of HIS bamboo trees on HIS side of HIS fence because they blocked her view. And without asking his permission. This is the type of woman she is. And where, exactly, did I say she took pics of me? Right, I didn't. R-E-A-D. You appear to spend a lot of time sitting. Take your time and read, dear. I think that's your sick, fucked-up mind adding shit I didn't write.

FOUR
I have a feeling you don't just dislike this woman, but ALL women. Because so far this entire thread has been all about you and you getting your kink on. YOU CARE NOTHING FOR HER. She would be a mere fetish delivery device for you.

Standard tripe. You hate one female, you hate them all. You vote for Romney it's cuz ur racist. You vote for Obama, you're a socialist. Blahhhhhhh All women? No. Her? Yes, probably. But first prefernce is she just moves.
There are a large number of wonderful women in my life I truly respect and care about.

FIVE
The way you have responded to the replies on this thread tells me you are a sad, lonely, pathetic person who actually thinks where you live makes you a better person. There are reams of unhappy people just like you. You are nothing special. You don't even have the sense to put your pants on before you get your picture taken.

Agreed. There are a large number of sad, lonely people with money. I'm just not one of them. There are also a lot of POOR, sad and lonely people. Uhm, do you really think I forgot them? That was kind of the whole point of the pic. So you think I'm the only one who has a nude pic of themsleves? At least I have the brains not to post my face. Or maybe I'm one of the few that actually has something to lose.

SIX
You are a humiliation freak and the whole purpose of this thread was to fuel that. The only reason *I* am responding is to let you know you got busted on that one. And I am quite sure I'm not the only one who picked up on that little gem.

Really? You figured out I liked humiliation? WOW! You need to get a psychic hotline! The thread, however, was to get an opinion and is true to the word. IF you read my first response after two people said "no", I said:

"Wow. That was fast. Two quick "No's." Ok... *pouts*
But thanks for the reality check. :)

I THOUGHT that was the end of it. I admitted it was a bad idea. But then...
...a-holes started with oh, you're creepy, you have a stupid idea, it's so gross, restrainig order blahblahblah.
You know what--F them. To me that is personal so I responded. And the only diff is that they went running to the admin like little b's when I responded.
Then extrapolating a POSSIBLE FANTASY into what MAY happen? Freaking READ what I write and don't "add" whatever you THINK I'm saying.


You are a prime example of why people who are into BDSM get a bad rap. And you're whining b/c someone called you creepy? Creepy doesn't even begin to describe you.

Pathetic and wrong. I'm not because no one knows I am. Or very few. It is something I keep private. Just like my vanilla sex life. I don't bring that out in the open, either.
Do you think she told her friends--this guy next to me is into BDSM!! He is giving them such a bad name!! No. She thinks I got drunk ONE night in the 7 years she has lived here and I made a fool of myself. That's it. And thanks to the people who gave reasonable responses, that's where it will end.

I thought I could come to this site, ask a legit question and that there would be a certain level of acceptance or guidance. Instead I got name-calling, personal attacks and derision based on ONE paragraph asking ONE question. How should I respond? Oh, gee sorry everyone! I did not mean to make you unconfortable! It's so weird!! PLEASE forgive me!!?!? I'll NEVER ask a question again!
I'm not crying. I'm just not that type.
You get what you give with me and I give everyone the first chance to fuck up.
YOU get to decide how we relate to each another.









Whippedboy -> RE: Ask my neighbor? (11/3/2012 11:02:35 AM)

Uhm, no. That's why I asked the question.
YOU gave a decent, reasonable answer that is a fuck-load more helpful then--"ewww--you're creepy, gross, restraining order."
One of the reasons my neighbor came over the next day is that she had "NEVER seen me have a drink before in 7 years we have been neighbors."
I fucked up on my bday. Once. Over a year ago.
Again. The "vignette" is 100% true.
PM me if you want the proof.

quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven


quote:

ORIGINAL: Whippedboy

It is SOOOO fucking funny to me that with all the bat-shit crazy stuff people talk about on here that getting drunk one night and making a fool of yourself gets such a visceral response from such a large group of idiots. And then gets extrapolated to, " have a happy, healthy life together." Jesus Christ people! And that I was CONSIDERING acting on a harmless fantasy. Who gives a shit? WOWOWOWOWOW!!! Get out and get some fresh air!!


Buster, lemme explain what we're into regarding that crazy stuff. We do blood play. We do needles. We do whips. We do bondage. And when we do it, we are responsible enough to be 100% in control of ourselves. What kind of opinion should we have of some guy that cannot even handle getting into his apartment because he's so drunk?

Also, this "harmless fantasy" of yours - you are thinking of involving a PERSON. Someone with real feelings. You are such a mismatch to her that one or both of you would end up getting angry/hurt/harmed if something were to happen. As long as you're not capable of caring about people's feelings, you need to lay off trying to form relationships.

I know you really don't like to hear what's in your best interests, but we don't care.

Assuming your little vignette has any truth to it.





ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Ask my neighbor? (11/3/2012 11:57:02 AM)

Your entire response is further back-peddling interlaced with more insults. You expected to get a certain level of acceptance or guidance? For what? You can't fix stupid.

On the one hand your telling us how "you're fantasizing about her more and more" and on the other your denigrating her and accusing her of being a drug dealer.

I fear your humiliation fetish has gone to your brain and it's not in a good way. You think submitting to her would be "really submitting?"

Sweetie, you wouldn't know real submission if it came up and bit you on your pink covered ass. But keep hurling the insults. It tells everyone what a nice, well adjusted person you *really* are.









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