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Meeting a Mistress - 11/3/2012 1:02:22 PM

SwitchWayStone

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What is the best way to meet a mistress on here that not in it for financial gain?

Jay.

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RE: Meeting a Mistress - 11/3/2012 2:07:33 PM

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Well, you could start by not using a stolen picture that got 198,000 hits on google image search, and filling out your brief profile with things that a mistress would be interested in seeing besides what you want her to do to you.

Edited to add: You also mention supporting your future Mistress financially. If you don't want someone who is interested in financial gain then I'm not sure why you are actively advertising that you will do that.

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RE: Meeting a Mistress - 11/3/2012 2:33:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: lizi

Well, you could start by not using a stolen picture that got 198,000 hits on google image search, and filling out your brief profile with things that a mistress would be interested in seeing besides what you want her to do to you.

Yep.

Present yourself as a person with varied interests and goals. How do you spend your free time? What are you pursuing in life? What is your personality like - are you outgoing, introverted, ambitious, laid-back? Put up a picture of either yourself (preferably a face picture, definitely not a cock shot) or something you're interested in (have any hobbies?).

Feel free to mention your kink interests. Spend *more* time talking about what you have to offer a Mistress as a partner as well as submissive. Make yourself sound like someone a woman would actually want in her life outside of the bedroom and stop making yourself look like another generic man who wants someone to come do specific kinky things to him.

Remove the line about contributing financially. I know what you mean, you know what you mean, but it's going to attract scammers and girls who ARE into it solely for the money.

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RE: Meeting a Mistress - 11/3/2012 2:43:51 PM

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Thanks for the solid constructive feedback, really appreciate it. I will get to work on it ASAP.

Jay x.

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RE: Meeting a Mistress - 11/3/2012 2:46:59 PM

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Jay, have a good long read of the Ask A Mistress FAQ. All will be revealed. I second getting rid of the stolen avatar.

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RE: Meeting a Mistress - 11/3/2012 2:53:25 PM

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ORIGINAL: SwitchWayStone

What is the best way to meet a mistress on here that not in it for financial gain?

Jay.

Read the FAQ in the Ask a Mistress section. Then do a search for "find a mistress". That question is asked 65 times each month around here. Lots of great answers already available for anyone willing to do a search.

Good luck.

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RE: Meeting a Mistress - 11/3/2012 2:58:43 PM

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Ok, all of the above makes sense, if interested I will report back when my profile is updated. Here goes nothing.....

Take care lovely peeps.

Jay x

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