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Hi everyone - 11/4/2012 1:38:30 PM

lovethyself

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Hi all.

I'm brand new to the group, and have been away from the scene for a long time. I'm a sub, but have never truely had a master. I was a third in a couple, and went to some fet nights with them, as well as playing with them in their home. I then got into a longish relationship with someone that didn't share my leanings. It was what finally ended us, although he is still my best friend years later. My last boyfriend was willing to try some things, but he was really inexperienced, and never fully got into the dom headspace. I've been single now for quite some time, and I have no idea how to meet new people, especially people interested in my particular kinks. So, here I am.

I know some of what I like, and would love to explore that more, especially with someone that can truely control me in role play. I crave training, submission, and exploration of myself and my limits. I look forward to getting to know you all, and learning more about myelf along the way.

From some of the threads that I read, there seems to be a core of compassionate, understanding, and supportive people here, and I thank you for making this a place to be free and curious.

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RE: Hi everyone - 11/4/2012 1:39:58 PM

absolutchocolat

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welcome to the boards :)

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RE: Hi everyone - 11/4/2012 1:45:43 PM

DomCplsc

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Agree...Welcome.

The most important lesson or advice I can give you is....communicate with any potential partner. Communication is key and if you can't be open enough or if he or she isn't open enough to communicate than it will never last. That is the first and foremost thing we look for In a sub/slave.

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RE: Hi everyone - 11/4/2012 2:31:15 PM

ARIES83

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Welcome

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RE: Hi everyone - 11/4/2012 2:36:44 PM

DarkSteven

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Well, hi there!

Have fun in your search.

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RE: Hi everyone - 11/4/2012 2:46:19 PM

AVegasMaster

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Welcome! You have plenty to offer. I'm sure you'll have no trouble finding someone just right for you.

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RE: Hi everyone - 11/4/2012 3:48:40 PM

lovethyself

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DomCplsc

Agree...Welcome.

The most important lesson or advice I can give you is....communicate with any potential partner. Communication is key and if you can't be open enough or if he or she isn't open enough to communicate than it will never last. That is the first and foremost thing we look for In a sub/slave.

Communicating has never been a problem for me. I'm happy to talk through things with my partner. My real problem has been finding a kinky relationship where I don't have to explain the whole scene or all my kinks in order for my partner to understand me. Being a sub in a series of vanilla relationships has been interesting, but ultimately unsatisfying and frustrating.

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RE: Hi everyone - 11/4/2012 3:57:58 PM

OsideGirl

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Welcome to the forums!

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RE: Hi everyone - 11/4/2012 5:39:33 PM

MistressDarkArt

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Welcome! Glad to have you join us!

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RE: Hi everyone - 11/4/2012 6:03:54 PM

Mourneris

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Welcome! I hope you enjoy the MBs. There are several posters here that I see very often around the boards and they give great advice. I won't mention who they are since you should be able to pick them out once you start looking around.

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RE: Hi everyone - 11/4/2012 6:34:20 PM

Toysinbabeland

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Welcome! Have you tried to join local groups?

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