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Searching for a slave - 11/7/2012 5:18:23 AM   
MistressRaina92


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Status: offline 		My Master has instructed me to find him another slave for both me and him to play with. I don't know what to do about it though. I don't get out much and everyone I find online in my state either cannot relocate or doesn't meet his standard. The slave would be allowed to dominate me as well. Why is a good slave so hard to find. I really don't want to fail my Master. Help :/
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RE: Searching for a slave - 11/7/2012 5:21:37 AM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		good luck. you might want to check out the polyamory forum to get a sense of why it is so difficult.

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RE: Searching for a slave - 11/7/2012 5:29:32 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		This is the first time in five and a half years on this site that I have ever wanted to tell anyone to eat a sandwich. By any chance does your dynamic include the kink of pro/ana or pro/mia?

I'm not sure I can help you with your query. I wouldn't put anyone in charge of finding a member of My family except for Me. Delegating it to someone else is rather lazy, in My opinion. Best of luck in your venture.


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RE: Searching for a slave - 11/7/2012 5:36:07 AM   
JanahX


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Status: offline 		It might have something to do with that you just created your profile yesterday. Finding someone to dedicate themselves to you and your Master in under 24 hours should be no problem... There is obviously something wrong with you - usually people can find someone in less than three hours. Does your master happen to have bad breath? - that can be a deterrent as well.

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RE: Searching for a slave - 11/7/2012 6:10:10 AM   
LillyBoPeep


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Status: offline 		Why does it matter that she's skinny? =p Would it be cool to say something similar to a chubbier chick?

OP, Unicorn Hunting is a time-honoured tradition, usually done on horseback, while wearing red jackets and white trousers, with a pack of well-trained subs out in front, doing all the work. Or whatever...
If your Master has certain standards, he really should be doing the searching, or both of you should be doing it together. Instead he's sending you out as chick-bait, which is just... hmm... a bit lazy.

Expect your search for your magical third who will want to jump into the sack with both of you (while not threatening the sanctity and security of your pre-existing relationship) to take a while. Potentially years.
And with the added caveat of a sub who will also want to dominate you - a lot of subs feel uncomfortable being put in positions to be dominant over someone else, so now you're narrowing your search pool even more.

There are a million and one couples doing the same thing, scrambling for a limited resource. Some people NEVER find one, and others leave damage and resentment in their wake because the Dude in Charge is thinking/leading with his dick, and not his head.

Be patient, be smart, be kind, and expect to be at this for a while.

< Message edited by LillyBoPeep -- 11/7/2012 6:11:57 AM >

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RE: Searching for a slave - 11/7/2012 6:11:45 AM   
GreedyTop


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quote:

ORIGINAL: JanahX

It might have something to do with that you just created your profile yesterday. Finding someone to dedicate themselves to you and your Master in under 24 hours should be no problem... There is obviously something wrong with you - usually people can find someone in less than three hours. Does your master happen to have bad breath? - that can be a deterrent as well.


<3U

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RE: Searching for a slave - 11/7/2012 6:27:11 AM   
DraftPony


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Status: offline 		I would have to agree with LadyPact. It would be your sirs responsibility to do this. What he is doing is what is called "bait and switch" in the retail industry. Send the pretty girl out to find something the top can not do. Please understand I am not being disrespectful to either you or your sir. I am just telling you how it is perceived in the greater BDSM community.

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RE: Searching for a slave - 11/7/2012 6:37:19 AM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		GREAT pic, DP!! Is that a Friesian?

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RE: Searching for a slave - 11/7/2012 6:39:27 AM   
DraftPony


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Status: offline 		Yes it is. He was one of ours before we moved out here to Missouri and closed the farm up back in South Carolina.

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RE: Searching for a slave - 11/7/2012 8:03:29 AM   
OsideGirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact
I wouldn't put anyone in charge of finding a member of My family except for Me. Delegating it to someone else is rather lazy, in My opinion. Best of luck in your venture.

Not to mention he has set you up to fail because the chances of you succeeding are almost nil.

The number of men far outnumber women, it's at least 10:1. Now, think about how many women are willing to be the third person in an established relationship. That number just went to somewhere around 1000:1. There are a lot more couples looking out there than there are Unicorns...and they're called Unicorns for a reason.

Next: Most submissive women want to talk to either both of you together or him first. Submissives notoriously wear rose colored glasses when it comes to their Dominant and cannot be guaranteed to give an accurate account. Since the Dominant holds the power and new submissive is literally putting her his life into his hands, she needs to know he's not bat shit crazy.

You need to set up more realistic expectations.






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RE: Searching for a slave - 11/7/2012 8:14:22 AM   
GreedyTop


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ORIGINAL: DraftPony

Yes it is. He was one of ours before we moved out here to Missouri and closed the farm up back in South Carolina.



GORGEOUS!!!!

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RE: Searching for a slave - 11/7/2012 12:50:35 PM   
absolutchocolat


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Status: offline 		personally, i've never searched for a unicorn, but you may want to state more about your master and what he looks for in a slave in your profile. yours is rather anemic.

ETA: or a couple's profile, that would be even better. pics of him might help, too.

< Message edited by absolutchocolat -- 11/7/2012 12:57:57 PM >

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RE: Searching for a slave - 11/7/2012 12:56:23 PM   
littlewonder


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This is the first time in five and a half years on this site that I have ever wanted to tell anyone to eat a sandwich. By any chance does your dynamic include the kink of pro/ana or pro/mia?


So I took a look at her profile. She seemed pretty normal physically to me. Not sure why one would think she's anorexic. When I met Master I was about her size. How I wish I still was.

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RE: Searching for a slave - 11/7/2012 1:00:49 PM   
OsideGirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: absolutchocolat

personally, i've never searched for a unicorn, but you may want to state more about your master and what he looks for in a slave in your profile. yours is rather anemic.

ETA: or a couple's profile, that would be even better. pics of him might help, too.
It's now listed as a couple. They're both 20 and she's somewhat new, we don't know about him.


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RE: Searching for a slave - 11/7/2012 1:01:32 PM   
SchrodingerSock


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Status: offline 		If someone can tell me how to quote just a name be mucho obliged :).

Based on your looks that would not be a problem but did you mean female slave or male slave.

Ah the net is inhabited by many rabid men folk of the attached persuasion outnumbering there counterparts a great many times. Tis not that most would turn up, nae tis the game of cat and the mouse (or robin how could you ms karma my evil kitty). its the chase they like - as their wifeys wont let em oot

I have come across, online numbering years 13 99% illusory perhaps ive just been unlucky or perhaps that's how people reality are(not just the entjs)

I am prepared to sell you six magic beans

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RE: Searching for a slave - 11/7/2012 1:06:10 PM   
chatterbox24


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SchrodingerSock

If someone can tell me how to quote just a name be mucho obliged :).

Based on your looks that would not be a problem but did you mean female slave or male slave.

Ah the net is inhabited by many rabid men folk of the attached persuasion outnumbering there counterparts a great many times. Tis not that most would turn up, nae tis the game of cat and the mouse (or robin how could you ms karma my evil kitty). its the chase they like - as their wifeys wont let em oot

I have come across, online numbering years 13 99% illusory perhaps ive just been unlucky or perhaps that's how people reality are(not just the entjs)

I am prepared to sell you six magic beans


RIght hand uppercorner of their post, you will see quote, click it then type your own entry below it.

6 magic beans? Will it grow 6 magic bean stalks?


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RE: Searching for a slave - 11/7/2012 1:17:24 PM   
chatterbox24


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Status: offline 		OMg IM sooooooooooooooo daff! I kept thinking eat a sandwich? hmmmmmmm what does she mean by that, some unidentifable bdsm lingo I do not know. I AM GOING TO PEE MYSELF HAHAHA.
Ok you meant actually eat a sandwich, gess, Ok time for another collar chat break. Next I will actually be seeing unicorns and rainbows. weeeeeeeeeeeeeee.

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RE: Searching for a slave - 11/7/2012 1:22:08 PM   
Kana


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Status: offline 		From the picture, I'd guess they want the slave for horizontal jogging

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RE: Searching for a slave - 11/7/2012 1:26:31 PM   
chatterbox24


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ORIGINAL: Kana

From the picture, I'd guess they want the slave for horizontal jogging



Stop it, I have to change my jeans and underwear now.................tyvm KANA! ohhhhhhhhh I swear I havent been into vodka or anything. The silly bug has attacked me.

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RE: Searching for a slave - 11/7/2012 1:33:42 PM   
ChatteParfaitt


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From: The t'aint of the Midwest -- Indiana
Status: offline 		You will have minimal success looking for a unicorn online (JMO). I suggest both of you getting involved with the local BDSM community. Your profile does not say where you are in Ohio, but I know the Toledo, Cleveland, Columbus and Cinci areas have thriving scenes.

Start going to munches, make friends, go to some play parties, make more friends, let it be know what you are looking for, yada yada. .

Also, if the unicorn will be dominating you as well, you might want to look for a switch.

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