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What do you call your... - 11/14/2012 1:42:34 AM   
ARIES83


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Status: offline 		Dom/mes, do you call your underlings any special
names reflecting their lot?
For example, instead of refering to them by name,
do you frequently just call them slave or whatever
in your dad to day life.

Same question for Subbies.
Do you call him/her master, mistress, sir, domina,
Grand poobah?

If you don't use D/s terms, do you have any special
term of endearment or kinky sexy names you call
each other.

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RE: What do you call your... - 11/14/2012 2:57:19 AM   
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Status: offline 		I do.

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RE: What do you call your... - 11/14/2012 3:19:12 AM   
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Status: offline 		I generally call both men in my life by their given name. I occasionally call Himself Himself, or Sir, or even Master, but we don't have a honorifics protocol, so it's not often.

Lamb gets called boykin or boychik, or mine or lambykins. If he's being a brat is more likely lambchop.

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RE: What do you call your... - 11/14/2012 3:41:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		I usually call him by his name. Occasionally 'sir' but mostly only to acknowledge I've received an order (or a telling-off). When I am being playful I call him all sorts. Sire, my Liege, Mein Herr, monsieur, El Capitan, El Presidente, Boss, your Highness, Your Honour, My Learned Friend, Sergeant, Senor, Detective Chief Inspector, Mister, Mr. Lastname, Hubby-dearest or whatever nonsense comes to mind. If I'm feeling soft I'll call him Papa Bear. Oh and also Daddy, but more because we have a child than because we have a Daddy-dynamic.

Writing that out made me realise I'm probably annoying to live with.

He calls me by one of several variations of my name. or 'baby' or other generic kind of pet names. Or Mummy, in front of the baby.
In private he may refer to me using much ruder words, but only for play.

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RE: What do you call your... - 11/14/2012 8:08:57 AM   
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Status: offline 		I call him Daddy unless family and friends are around. Then I call him by name.

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RE: What do you call your... - 11/14/2012 8:28:50 AM   
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Status: offline 		......We practically never say each other's name out loud. 'Don't know why.

But when it's fun-time, it's either Sir or Master/Good Girl or Slave.

If I give her an order using the "tone", she falls into line. If I just want a coffee refill, it's more low key and casual.

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RE: What do you call your... - 11/14/2012 9:13:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		Underlings? Well, I never! :)

I always call my partners babe or hon or their name. I never say Sir, Master or anything like that.

They have called me babe, hon, my name or the standard kink terms like slut, whore, bitch, etc.

I was always annoyed that my ex hardly ever said my actual name. Just another reason why he is an ex.

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RE: What do you call your... - 11/14/2012 9:21:05 AM   
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Status: offline 		I loved saying Master or ALpha.


and when I first saw this post, I thought it said what do you call underlyings>? meaning below the belt. I was going to say who ha, thingamajig, or pee pee. LOL this was how I referred to things when the kids were like 2. OH boy. I need glasses.

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RE: What do you call your... - 11/14/2012 10:08:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'm not in a d/s dynamic, not interested in anything but s/m.

I call him "sadistic fucker" at times, but usually by his given name, love, or hun.

He calls me Kitty, love or my given name.

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RE: What do you call your... - 11/14/2012 10:15:39 AM   
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Status: offline 		I call Him Master on here. In real life, I call him Master or Sir. In public it's usually his name but even then I rarely use his name. I usually don't have to except with my friends and family.

Master calls me my name in public. It always catches me off guard though because it just sounds weird coming from him. Here he usually calls me "lilone", a play on my screen name. In real life when not in public it's slave, mouse, slut, cunt, darlin, cumdumpster....pretty much whatever he wants depending on the moment and context of the conversation.




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RE: What do you call your... - 11/14/2012 1:24:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		In private or at kink events I call him Master, he calls me slave. In non-kink public or with family we use our given names. It always feels weird to me saying his name out loud

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RE: What do you call your... - 11/14/2012 1:37:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		We don't use each other's names very frequently...I mostly call him Sir, even in casual situations, unless there are other people around, and he calls me 'my pet' with the same frequency.

As a matter of fact, sometimes when I want to let him know that something I am saying is very important to me, or if it's especially sentimental or mushy, I will purposefully use his name because it makes it stand out a bit more.

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RE: What do you call your... - 11/14/2012 2:32:36 PM   
Lucifyre


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Status: offline 		Except when introducing eachother to someone else we very rarely use our given names.
Also we both play/have played many MMO type games so we will sometimes refer to each other to our friends by our in game screen names because that's what our friends know us as within that context...even when we meet them offline.

In front of the kids it's almost always Mommy & Daddy. Not because we have a Daddy/little one dynamic but for the same reason Anthena does...that's what the kids know us as so that's who we are to each other.
I have taken to calling Him Sir most of the time now even in front of the little one who only asked once why I did and it was explained as a term of respect which Shorty accepted without question.
Online here and FL and other computer venues I usually refer to Him or as My Mr.
Like littlewonder, Mr also refers to me as whatever He sees fit, usually Slut or mine.

I think I'd feel strange hearing Him call me by my given name and I'd also feel a bit strange calling Him by His. But after 20 years of everything else listed above it doesn't really matter anyway...we know who we're talking to ;) (I better dammit, I know where He sleeps and what's in His food!)

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RE: What do you call your... - 11/14/2012 5:33:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		He usually calls me by my first name. Sometimes he prefaces it with "my." Sometimes he calls me "good girl." I like it. I love hearing him say my name and I love when he tells me I'm a good girl.

We don't have specific protocol or anything for what I call him. I usually call him by his first name or any number of weird nicknames I have for him. Sometimes I call him by his last name, too. In more intimate/sexual contexts I use his name but also "Master" and "sir" a lot. I rarely call him "Master" or "sir" otherwise, but occasionally I do. Occasionally I use something silly, too, like "Mr. Bossman."

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Writing that out made me realise I'm probably annoying to live with.
I don't think so. Reading that list made me smile, it was cute!

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RE: What do you call your... - 11/14/2012 6:04:25 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		I was just sitting here thinking about a couple of days ago when Master and I went shopping together. I was a couple of aisles away from him and he called me over to tell him what I thought of a pair of shoes he was looking at. So, of course he called me over with my real name. I didn't answer at first because I didn't realize he was calling for me because it's just so weird for me to hear him call me by my real name. lol


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RE: What do you call your... - 11/14/2012 6:20:11 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Aries, you don't think the boy's real name is "clip," do you? Yes, he's got that name that is on his birth certificate, but I don't think I've called him that since I chose to start calling him clip.

I think he's used My real name twice in five years. To him, I was first Lady Pact, then m'lady, and finally Mistress. It's very rare for him to have to actually say Ma'am but that's been a couple of times when I was where he works.

Let's see..... boy, slave, Mine, lil one, sometimes dear. Oh, and slut. Only when he's really turned on and can't help himself.



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RE: What do you call your... - 11/14/2012 6:46:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		Carol's and my relationship has both vanilla and D/s components to it. Accordingly we seem to pick words which emphasize whatever aspect is needed in the moment. When whatever the topic is refers to our vanilla aspects then she is "bunny". When I'm referring to our D/s aspects then she is "mine". Same is true with Carol. By default I'm also "bunny" but sometimes I'm "master". For instance, she'll use "master" when she is about to ask me for permission for something.

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RE: What do you call your... - 11/14/2012 6:58:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		The last sub boy I had, which sadly didn't work out, was usually just "puppy" to me when we were in private. In public, I would either call him by his name or whisper "puppy" to him if he was getting out of line and needed a reminder on how to behave. He usually called me "Daddy" in private, or just by my name in public (or with a whispered "Sir" when I was correcting him).

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RE: What do you call your... - 11/14/2012 7:14:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well thinking back I remember Him calling me Hun or even kitty in public or my name when with family sometimes- but When we were all alone He Used every name under the book- cunt. whore. slut etc. And I Called Him in public Hun, and His Name or if I was in a playful mood in public but low enough for him to hear it Mr. Teddy bear- but in private Still Mr. Teddy bear- Sir , or even Daddy. But it was not all that often that we used full names come to think about it.

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RE: What do you call your... - 11/14/2012 9:22:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		I find the term underling to be an odd one to use. I'm of equal value to the relationship so I don't view myself as disposable, which that term implies.

Beyond that, we're very low protocol. He calls me My Love, I call him Honey.

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