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loomie -> How do you start texting a slave? (11/14/2012 1:01:43 PM)

Hi, I am new here and didn't had any positive response. I just think I am starting wrong with my first message. How exactly do you message your slaves?




mnottertail -> RE: How do you start texting a slave? (11/14/2012 1:03:02 PM)

maybe I aint getting it.   do you have text on your cell?  do you need help with cmail?

Where is the conundrum here?




kalikshama -> RE: How do you start texting a slave? (11/14/2012 1:03:56 PM)

If you mean "potential slaves," presuming a dynamic when one does not exist is a big mistake.

Also, did you mean email rather than text in the title? How are you getting phone numbers so soon?





stef -> RE: How do you start texting a slave? (11/14/2012 1:04:18 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: loomie

Hi, I am new here and didn't had any positive response. I just think I am starting wrong with my first message. How exactly do you message your slaves?

"Hello" is always a good start.




dublinemma -> RE: How do you start texting a slave? (11/14/2012 1:09:17 PM)

Well why don't you tell us what you're saying, and we can help you tell you where you might be going wrong?

Before you even tell me anything though I will say one thing, they're women, you don't know them, therefore, you don't know if they're slaves/sub/slightly kinky etc etc. Before you earn the right to call or treat them as anything different you would do best to message them as a man coming on to a woman.




dublinemma -> RE: How do you start texting a slave? (11/14/2012 1:11:19 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: kalikshama

If you mean "potential slaves" presuming a dynamic when one does not exist is a big mistake.




That's what I was trying to say but my mind was drawing a blank on how to put it!




Spiritedsub2 -> RE: How do you start texting a slave? (11/14/2012 1:22:07 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: loomie

Hi, I am new here and didn't had any positive response. I just think I am starting wrong with my first message. How exactly do you message your slaves?


I'm new here too, but I'll give it a shot. Read a woman's profile, and find something in it that interests you. Then send her a message telling her why you singled her out to message. Tell her a little about yourself and what you are looking for, in general terms. Don't be sexually graphic to a woman you don't know. Don't demand anything. If you think you might like her tell her why. Not every woman will see this the way I do, but I know from reading here that a whole lot of women do. You are very young; you probably won't get as much response as the older guys. Be patient.
Fill in your own profile some. All your profile told me is that you are young and horny. What are you like? What do you care about? You take a pretty picture but on here, most women want someone interesting at least.
Don't just say "hello".




theRose4U -> RE: How do you start texting a slave? (11/14/2012 1:25:21 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

maybe I aint getting it.   do you have text on your cell?  do you need help with cmail?

Where is the conundrum here?

Me dom, you slave isn't working...seems to think via text the message of "on your knees bitch" will get a better reply!




mnottertail -> RE: How do you start texting a slave? (11/14/2012 1:27:33 PM)

ON YUOR KEES YOU FCUKING BITHC!!!!!

I AM DOMINATE!!!!

DONT NOT BE A FCUKING HORE!!!!!

(try that)




Spiritedsub2 -> RE: How do you start texting a slave? (11/14/2012 1:28:40 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

ON YUOR KEES YOU FCUKING BITHC!!!!!

I AM DOMINATE!!!!

DONT NOT BE A FCUKING HORE!!!!!

(try that)

Oh! So that was you!




loomie -> RE: How do you start texting a slave? (11/14/2012 1:29:36 PM)

sorry for the bad english, it is not my native language and i just moved to the u.k.
What i meant was: When I see a potential slave, how do i message her via collarme.com? I asked various ways like the nice way or the direct way. But both didn't really work, so I just wanted to ask you how you are doing it.




kalikshama -> RE: How do you start texting a slave? (11/14/2012 1:31:45 PM)

This:

quote:

Read a woman's profile, and find something in it that interests you. Then send her a message telling her why you singled her out to message. Tell her a little about yourself and what you are looking for, in general terms. Don't be sexually graphic to a woman you don't know. Don't demand anything. If you think you might like her tell her why. Not every woman will see this the way I do, but I know from reading here that a whole lot of women do. You are very young; you probably won't get as much response as the older guys. Be patient.

Fill in your own profile some. All your profile told me is that you are young and horny. What are you like? What do you care about? You take a pretty picture but on here, most women want someone interesting at least.
Don't just say "hello".




stef -> RE: How do you start texting a slave? (11/14/2012 1:32:17 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: loomie

sorry for the bad english, it is not my native language and i just moved to the u.k.

Your English is better than many native speakers, don't worry about it.

quote:

What i meant was: When I see a potential slave, how do i message her via collarme.com? I asked various ways like the nice way or the direct way. But both didn't really work, so I just wanted to ask you how you are doing it.

People generally like to be treated as people, not fetish objects. Approach them like you would approach someone in a completely vanilla environment. If you can't connect as people first, you're unlikely to connect at any deeper level.

Good luck.




OsideGirl -> RE: How do you start texting a slave? (11/14/2012 1:34:03 PM)

You send a polite email that introduces yourself and asks to learn more about her and what she's looking for. If she doesn't reply she's not interested.




mnottertail -> RE: How do you start texting a slave? (11/14/2012 1:43:05 PM)

Yup, all what they said, but all said and done, alot still wont answer you.   It doesn't pay to sweat it, they didnt like something about you, you were one of a thousand that day, they are already talking to someone else, or it just didnt hit.   Move on.  (But also, give them a day or two or three, some of these fakes have real lives (sorry, gotta get a lol in there)




loomie -> RE: How do you start texting a slave? (11/14/2012 1:49:34 PM)

Okay, that helps a lot. Will work on my profile at first the next days. ;)




JeffBC -> RE: How do you start texting a slave? (11/14/2012 3:03:20 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: loomie
How exactly do you message your slaves?

I don't message "slaves" or "subs". I message "people". I know english isn't your first language so I'll elaborate.

When I send a message to someone I'm not seeing them as a potential slave. That would be 8000 steps down the road from where I'm at right now. Rather, I'm seeing an interesting person that I'd like to know more about. I may find them interesting because of something they have said on these boards or in their profile. I'll typically reference that...

"Hey, I saw you said ........ What did you mean by that exactly?"

You gotta get a person before you get a slave.




poise -> RE: How do you start texting a slave? (11/14/2012 3:15:18 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: JeffBC
I don't message "slaves" or "subs". I message "people".



P a r c h e e s i




loomie -> RE: How do you start texting a slave? (11/14/2012 3:15:31 PM)

Ok, i am sorry, i was just at german sexual sites and it was more direct there. i will respect that for sure :)




mnottertail -> RE: How do you start texting a slave? (11/14/2012 3:17:50 PM)

Ja, diese ist kine directisch.


LOL, this is not so direct.





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