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masmiss -> Where is everyone moving to....? (11/18/2012 12:10:13 AM)

I've found that whenever I ask a sub why his last relationship ended, more times than not, he will answer "My Mistress moved away". The reasons for moving include job change or the need to take care of sickly parents. Only one or two men actually said the reason for not being with their previous Mistress was due to a break-up.

What's up with all the moving? Where's everyone going? I just can't believe that such a huge percentage of break-ups are due to moving. It goes against the law of averages.

My next question is - why is it such a bad thing to admit that you broke up with your dominant girlfriend? People break up all the time for all sorts of reasons. No shame in it. It's just life.

It's 3 a.m and I'm still up and thinking too much. LOL

But, I'd be curious to know what other people's experience is with this supposed phenomenon in the BDSM world. [:D]




AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Where is everyone moving to....? (11/18/2012 3:43:18 AM)

If I had to guess, I'd say that it was one of these things:

- There never was a Mistress, they are overstating their experience. Now if you were interested in him, you might wonder why you never bumped into her at community events or worse - you might want to speak to her for 'references'. They make up a Mistress because they think if they are more experienced they are more desirable. Or they have been single for a long time and they are embarrassed.
- They know damn well the break up was something they did (like cheating) and don't want any chance of you figuring out they were the bad guy
- The relationship ended for normal reasons, but they are worried that you will assume since one dominant didn't want to be in a relationship with them anymore, you won't either - this allows them to act like they were really marvelous and desirable in every way, it was just life that interfered.

It is an overused excuse, but they all probably think they are being very clever in thinking it up. They won't talk much to other subs so won't realise everyone is saying it.

With the exception of very young adults going to university, I've never personally known a couple who broke up because someone needed to move. Either they go together, or don't go, or live away on weekdays, or live somewhere half-way etc etc. If the relationship was great, you'd fight for it.




DesFIP -> RE: Where is everyone moving to....? (11/19/2012 9:57:18 AM)

Assuming you're dating guys your age, then yes, they will have elderly parents who need hands on care. And women are more likely to be the care givers than men.




littlewonder -> RE: Where is everyone moving to....? (11/19/2012 1:04:34 PM)

They were pro dommes, not a domme they were in a relationship with.

Or she was an online domme they had never met in person.

Ever notice how many doms have had subs that died?




absolutchocolat -> RE: Where is everyone moving to....? (11/19/2012 1:18:57 PM)

maybe they were playing 'the sims' and the subs they created starved to death. or died in a fire.




masmiss -> RE: Where is everyone moving to....? (11/19/2012 1:35:42 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Assuming you're dating guys your age, then yes, they will have elderly parents who need hands on care. And women are more likely to be the care givers than men.



Most of my women friends who needed to take care of elderly parents would move the parent closer to them. Since the caretaker usually has a life - husband, kids, grandkids, job, etc. - it doesn't make sense for her to pick up stakes and move to the elderly parent, does it?




Snort -> RE: Where is everyone moving to....? (11/19/2012 1:41:57 PM)

I have sworn off subs whose Dom recently died or moved away. Starts off great, and a modest investment in relocation funds seems so reasonable. Why doesn't it ever work out?




Aderious511 -> RE: Where is everyone moving to....? (11/19/2012 2:03:44 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: masmiss

I've found that whenever I ask a sub why his last relationship ended, more times than not, he will answer "My Mistress moved away". The reasons for moving include job change or the need to take care of sickly parents. Only one or two men actually said the reason for not being with their previous Mistress was due to a break-up.

What's up with all the moving? Where's everyone going? I just can't believe that such a huge percentage of break-ups are due to moving. It goes against the law of averages.

My next question is - why is it such a bad thing to admit that you broke up with your dominant girlfriend? People break up all the time for all sorts of reasons. No shame in it. It's just life.

It's 3 a.m and I'm still up and thinking too much. LOL

But, I'd be curious to know what other people's experience is with this supposed phenomenon in the BDSM world. [:D]


Because those "relationships" never existed in the first place. 99.9% of what's written about on this is site is complete and utter horse shit. It never happens in real life. Your senses were right to detect a red flag. It's the same deal with young, attractive female "subs/slaves" claiming to have had multiple masters "but are now uncollared". Yeah, right. As if any sane male with a functioning dick would give up an attractive female sex slave after a period of a few months. Yeah. Fucking. Right. Having an attractive teenage sex slave is the #1 dream of millions of men worldwide. Why the fuck would any man in his right mind willingly give that up if he was lucky enough to get it? He wouldn't. That's how you know those profiles are fake -- 18 and 19 year old girls claiming to have had "multiple masters" and being "in the lifestyle" for years. Pffffffft.

Collarme = Fantasy/masturbation/erotic lit site. 100% fake.

Remarkable that I can more easily find hardcore content of teenage girls having sex with animals than I can find any content whatsoever (even softcore, fully clothed photos) of all these alleged teenage "subs & slaves" that claim to exist on this site. You know why that is? Because they don't fucking exist, Sherlock. It's fantasy bullshit. No one except horribly ugly, fat, old people actually does any of this crap in real life.




AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Where is everyone moving to....? (11/19/2012 2:27:45 PM)

Aderious - I'm very sorry that your inability to find a kinky girlfriend has left you feeling so bitter. Perhaps your inability to follow simple instructions (you still have your dick out in your picture), your shallow judgmental attitude and your apparent belief that only fucking and beauty are of any importance are contributing to this vicious circle.

Yes, there are fake profiles on this site.

Yes, there are fat, ugly and old people having tons and tons of kinky sex. So ask yourself, if all these fat ugly old people are getting laid and having tons of fun, why aren't you? I mean, you're clearly much better looking than all those other people, so you'd think that you'd be more desirable. I guess you must be defective in some other way? Personality perhaps?




masmiss -> RE: Where is everyone moving to....? (11/19/2012 2:34:49 PM)

Maybe all those hot teenage sex slaves moved away? [:D]




AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Where is everyone moving to....? (11/19/2012 2:41:42 PM)

No they never moved away, it's just that they are all still with their original Masters, because as long as they are beautiful and submissive, no man with a functioning dick would ever let them go.

For the record - I was a teenage slave. I'm in my 20s now so maybe I come under the old category. I guess I must be horrible and ugly too, because MAN! I'm getting up to all sorts of kinky shit. If that's show give me horrible and happy over sculpted and frustrated any day.




LadyPact -> RE: Where is everyone moving to....? (11/19/2012 4:54:57 PM)

I had to answer this one at face value just for the laugh.

From Colorado, to Georgia, to California, to Alaska.

No joke. Anybody could look up My past posts to see Me reference all of those locations. Three of which have been since I joined this site in 2007.

However, it generally is a bullshit way of a person who either has little to no experience or that any references that they did have wouldn't be favorable.




LookieNoNookie -> RE: Where is everyone moving to....? (11/19/2012 4:58:43 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: masmiss

I've found that whenever I ask a sub why his last relationship ended, more times than not, he will answer "My Mistress moved away". The reasons for moving include job change or the need to take care of sickly parents. Only one or two men actually said the reason for not being with their previous Mistress was due to a break-up.

What's up with all the moving? Where's everyone going? I just can't believe that such a huge percentage of break-ups are due to moving. It goes against the law of averages.

My next question is - why is it such a bad thing to admit that you broke up with your dominant girlfriend? People break up all the time for all sorts of reasons. No shame in it. It's just life.

It's 3 a.m and I'm still up and thinking too much. LOL

But, I'd be curious to know what other people's experience is with this supposed phenomenon in the BDSM world. [:D]


I know there's a lot of weird shit going on, guys excusing themselves but....in my case.... "My Mistress moved away".




searching4mysir -> RE: Where is everyone moving to....? (11/19/2012 6:57:09 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders

Aderious - I'm very sorry that your inability to find a kinky girlfriend has left you feeling so bitter. Perhaps your inability to follow simple instructions (you still have your dick out in your picture), your shallow judgmental attitude and your apparent belief that only fucking and beauty are of any importance are contributing to this vicious circle.

Yes, there are fake profiles on this site.

Yes, there are fat, ugly and old people having tons and tons of kinky sex. So ask yourself, if all these fat ugly old people are getting laid and having tons of fun, why aren't you? I mean, you're clearly much better looking than all those other people, so you'd think that you'd be more desirable. I guess you must be defective in some other way? Personality perhaps?



Do what I did, report his pic on the other side for the TOS violation that it is. If enough do it, may be the mods will finally take care of it.




DesFIP -> RE: Where is everyone moving to....? (11/19/2012 7:47:09 PM)

I did but it was unpleasant to have to look at while clicking the button.

Of course, he is a perfect example that a guy with a dick pic is showing himself accurately. Because he's definitely a dick.




Aderious511 -> RE: Where is everyone moving to....? (11/19/2012 9:18:19 PM)

quote:

Aderious - I'm very sorry that your inability to find a kinky girlfriend has left you feeling so bitter.


Stop right there. If my attitude was that of the most happy, optimistic, go-lucky person in the world, it would not change the FACTS of the situation one single iota. Everything I wrote is true, and it will be no less true true whether I'm bitter, or happy, or sad, or mad, or have no emotion at all -- the latter which is, in fact, my true state.

Learn how to debate properly. You debate by assessing the truth of a proposition, not your interpretation of the mood of the person who made it. The latter is entirely irrelevant and superfluous, and in any case you have absolutely no way of ascertaining my mood with any degree of certainty, this being the internet.

quote:

ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders
(you still have your dick out in your picture)


Yes, proudly so. I'm getting more views than ever because of it. Everyone is impressed by an ultra-fit guy with a big dick who can prove that he's real on a site that's 99% fake. So bugger off. If you want to complain about dick photo's then I suggest you direct your anger towards the numerous black "doms" whose entire profiles consist of dick photos and the acronym, "BBC". Somehow, this doesn't seem prevent them from befriending dozens of young, thin, attractive white girls -- precisely the same demographic that I'm targeting. So at the risk of repeating myself, bugger off.

quote:

ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders
your shallow judgmental attitude and your apparent belief that only fucking and beauty are of any importance are contributing to this vicious circle.


It is only the weak and botched who must turn strength and beauty into a sin. Your values are transparently false. Strength and beauty stand on their own merits and require no defense from me or anyone else.

quote:

ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders
Yes, there are fake profiles on this site.


No shit, Sherlock. Your statement would have been more informative had it read: "Yes, there are real profiles on the site." For there are a few -- a handful, that is, out of tens of thousands of fakes and bullshit artists.

quote:

ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders
Yes, there are fat, ugly and old people having tons and tons of kinky sex. So ask yourself, if all these fat ugly old people are getting laid and having tons of fun, why aren't you?


First of all, there are far more fat, ugly and old people NOT having sex than those who are. Secondly, your inference is false: you have absolutely no basis to make the claim that I'm not having sex. You know jack shit about my sex life. If you continue this line of bullshit I will shut you up by posting photos of my large, thick, veiny penis buried inside a girl's asshole. Then I will challenge you to do the same of yourself. A challenge which you will refuse, being the coward that you are. And then I will have won the argument and put your ad hominem attack to rest.

quote:

ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders
I mean, you're clearly much better looking than all those other people, so you'd think that you'd be more desirable.

Yes and yes.

quote:

ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders
I guess you must be defective in some other way? Personality perhaps?

Keep trying. I have no apparent defects. In fact, my personality is far and away my greatest attribute. My physique and my dick are great but they don't hold a candle to my intellect and personality.

Edit: I just noticed that the above-referenced photos of me engaging in kinky anal sex are already posted in my profile. So I need go no further to refute the cowardess Athena's malevolent slight against me. As promised, I now challenge the cowardess to "come out from behind her mask", figuratively speaking, and post something equivalent to my own photographic evidence.




absolutchocolat -> RE: Where is everyone moving to....? (11/19/2012 9:43:30 PM)

it must be lonely up there on mount olympus.

[sm=rofl.gif]





tazzygirl -> RE: Where is everyone moving to....? (11/19/2012 9:52:17 PM)

My primary profile photo is of my cat. [8|]




poise -> RE: Where is everyone moving to....? (11/19/2012 9:52:33 PM)

Your history here is all about how you can't attract the beautiful single white female. You even went so far as to blame the black man because of it. So tell me again, why have you returned in a new user id to complain about the beautiful white women that you'll never get, if not to troll?




DaddySatyr -> RE: Where is everyone moving to....? (11/19/2012 9:56:27 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: poise
Tell me again why you're searching for a woman? [:-]


I think the last one moved away.



Peace and comfort,



Michael




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