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LonDom61 -> RE: Do Doms get Dom frenzy? (11/19/2012 6:21:56 PM)
I agree that definition is crucial. For me, sub frenzy is what I warn newbie subs about when I see in their profiles that they are going from dreaming to doing. The pressure there may have been building up for years. Or when they remark that they are increasingly frustrated at not being able to act on their desires. The ability to apply sense & standards decreases. I think the condition that results, for both parties, when online contact is extended before a meeting takes place could be considered (related at least to) frenzy. Even if contact starts out with the dynamic in check, such can build and, when a meeting takes place, either or both is not as patient as they should be. I have referred to extended contact prior to meeting as a "pressure cooker". Even the best intentions can give way to mounting passion.

wittynamehere -> RE: Do Doms get Dom frenzy? (11/19/2012 6:30:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chatterbox24 Do Doms get Dom frenzy? If you're looking for a generic answer, it's "yes, sometimes". If you're looking for MY experience with frenzy: "Since everybody's definition of 'dom frenzy' would be different, the answer would depend who I'm replying to. If you'd like my opinion, you'll have to tell me what you meant by 'dom frenzy'."

OsideGirl -> RE: Do Doms get Dom frenzy? (11/19/2012 6:51:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact When a person has a long term partner, it doesn't really come up as I would describe as frenzy. I mean, I would hope that the D-types under ordinary circumstances would get that high or feel lust with the person in their lives. The satisfying the craving part is simple when someone is across the room from you. It's when people can't satisfy those cravings that frenzy happens and those poor decisions are made. Actually, my first Dom put his foot down. I wanted to try everything and anything and I wanted to try it NOW. He was the voice of reason and told me that he was slowing me down so that I wouldn't burn out. He didn't stop outright, but it certainly didn't go at the pace I thought I wanted. Now in hindsight, I believe he was right to do what he did.

SimplyMichael -> RE: Do Doms get Dom frenzy? (11/19/2012 7:12:21 PM)
If we are just defining it as when you were new...well, yeah. I must met and used a dozen or so women. Did the whole "meet me naked, on your knees with your mouth open" stuff. I was despicable! I had as great add that just brought em in "are you ready to obey"? Then this woman responded, we met, I collared her that night and then spent almost four years with her. Changed my.life.

POINTMAN88 -> RE: Do Doms get Dom frenzy? (11/21/2012 3:41:23 AM)
GREETINGS... To answer the question , yes of course , Dom Frenzy is a reality.... A boy , as a Dom , more than likely , will allow immaturity to surface , and he ends up learning a valuable lesson... A guy or a dude , as a Dom , realizes that he hasnt crossed the threshold into manhood yet , finds out he has much more to learn , and he makes a choice between elevated maturity with wisdom , and selfishness.... A man as a Dom , should allow humility to take its rightful place in his foundation of dominance , recognize the frenzy for what it really is , and place it in its proper perspective of self-control. I myself use my frenzies as building blocks , because in the wide arena of domination , true exploration has no limits.... POINTMAN

ResidentSadist -> RE: Do Doms get Dom frenzy? (11/21/2012 11:42:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mysouldesire quote: ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist Frenzied - yes Frenzy - no I think I get a bit frenzied at times. When the scent of sex fills the room and and I can see her blood trickling from the needles in her chest, my inner beast will come out. Things will get more edgy, more violent. But it isn't loss of control or judgment, it is spending my passions at higher level, more violent, more primal. It is a bit frenzied compared to other calmer encounters, but not really frenzy, as in derangement, a fit or spell of violent mental excitement resulting from a mania . . . I guess consider myself being a bit sexually deranged and touch of a sadistic maniac compared to "normal". So if I experience "wild excitement" nothing really changes. I don't lose control or have a change in personality or desires. I just get excited which is par for the course. So the answer is no. Since when did frenzy mean voilent excitement from mania? Maybe we need to define FRENZY . . . . just saying fren·zy [fren-zee] Show IPA noun, plural fren·zies, verb, fren·zied, fren·zy·ing. noun 1. extreme mental agitation; wild excitement or derangement. 2. a fit or spell of violent mental excitement; a paroxysm characteristic of or resulting from a mania: He is subject to these frenzies several times a year. Reference link: Webster's Dictionary

chatterbox24 -> RE: Do Doms get Dom frenzy? (11/23/2012 6:11:48 AM)
lol well that defintion wasn't exactly the one I had in mind. I meant frenzy as an excited state where control is lost, and the best choices are not made. Personal fulfillment or pleasing fulfillment only vs. Good solid best choices.

JDEmpath -> RE: Do Doms get Dom frenzy? (11/24/2012 8:41:21 AM)
Greetings. Now that you have clarified what you meant in the original question I feel I can answer. Please note that I can only speak for myself as I do not feel that this sort of thing can be generalized. For me, the answer is yes. I have to admit to getting overly excited in the past and it has probably played a role in the various "mistakes" that I have made, some of which led to a scene ending too early, or even, unfortunately, minor injury. This is far from black and white however, since the passion that fuels the frenzy, when tapped to a lesser degree and kept under a certain amount of control, is one of the main aspects of the intense connection in a scene. Would it happen again? Maybe. The memories of emotions getting in the way of safety do not go away, but also lead to learning. It seems less likely to happen as I gain experience. Should it be avoided at all costs, including the abandonment of the kind of passion to which I referred earlier? I think that renders this whole process impotent, and without meaning. Therefore, I choose to walk the fine line.

chatterbox24 -> RE: Do Doms get Dom frenzy? (11/24/2012 11:15:08 AM)
THank you for your post. Dom's are just people too? I thought they were Gods, no? Kidding! In all seriousness, its good to see the honesty in the posts.

SickFuK -> RE: Do Doms get Dom frenzy? (11/27/2012 1:27:59 AM)
Of course, we go into a Dom Frenzy, we do it every week Oh it's almost 5a. Time to gather all the Doms for our latest DOMMMMMM FRENZYYYYY!!!!

chatterbox24 -> RE: Do Doms get Dom frenzy? (11/27/2012 1:39:53 AM)
....charging my tazzer.

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