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Jewelcrafter -> Into the frey. Hi! (11/20/2012 2:35:07 AM)

Hello all! I've been with this site a month or two, mainly reading the forums and reading a couple of books on the subject of SM. I've decided to finally make a profile and so here it is. Since this is my first time making a profile beyond a vanilla site, I hope it gives a pleasant amount of info, but not too much. I hope and trust that you will tell me if I over or under did it. I've seen how vocal you can be.

So if anyone has any pointers about what can or should (in their opinion) be changed, let me know. I mainly want to make sure its not confusing. Thank you all and nice to finally be meeting you all.




DomMeinCT -> RE: Into the frey. Hi! (11/20/2012 7:34:24 AM)

Hello there and welcome.

Well, you asked for feedback, so my initial reaction is that your profile says you're looking to connect with someone on vanilla terms as well.
If that's so, you need to spend some time sharing what you're like outside of your kinks and BDSM desires. It's a frequent theme seen here that women are interested in the whole man when they read a profile; you should consider sharing more of that whole man here.





TheLilSquaw -> RE: Into the frey. Hi! (11/20/2012 12:08:00 PM)

Welcome to the forums.
This isn't much different than a vanilla site, we are all still people and want to get to know other people as people UNLESS of course you are simply looking for casual play. Lol




Jewelcrafter -> RE: Into the frey. Hi! (11/20/2012 6:56:41 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DomMeinCT

you need to spend some time sharing what you're like outside of your kinks and BDSM desires. It's a frequent theme seen here that women are interested in the whole man when they read a profile; you should consider sharing more of that whole man here.




Wow. I can't believe I let myself over look that aspect. I feel a bit foolish in that regard, but that was exactly the type of input I was looking for. I'm preparing to head off to work, so may not be able to make changes to the profile until the morning, but I will definitely do that. Thank you for pointing that out to me.

quote:

ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw

Welcome to the forums.
This isn't much different than a vanilla site, we are all still people and want to get to know other people as people UNLESS of course you are simply looking for casual play. Lol


Yeah, I know. As I stated above I can't believe I omitted that. Thank you for point it out too. Probably won't have proper time to get it fixed until morning though. Night shift, bleh. As far as seeing people for casual play, though not my ultimate goal, I'm certainly not against it. Perhaps I should make that clearer in the profile. I will most certainly spend some more time on it after work to get it better. Thanks for your input.




yourdarkdesire -> RE: Into the frey. Hi! (11/20/2012 8:31:00 PM)

Welcome to the forums. Your brief introduction sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders and I think you will fit in very well here.




Delilya -> RE: Into the frey. Hi! (11/21/2012 1:56:00 AM)

Welcome to CM




ARIES83 -> RE: Into the frey. Hi! (11/21/2012 2:27:17 AM)

Welcome, enjoy the forum.




kalikshama -> RE: Into the frey. Hi! (11/21/2012 6:36:33 AM)

This thread is chock full of profile advice: http://www.collarchat.com/m_1717756/mpage_1/tm.htm

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Jewelcrafter -> RE: Into the frey. Hi! (11/21/2012 10:50:01 AM)

Okay, added what I neglected to my profile. Hopefully that's not too much and just the right amount.




MistressDarkArt -> RE: Into the frey. Hi! (11/21/2012 10:56:26 AM)

Welcome Jewel! I read your updated profile. Looks fine to me! Best of luck, and enjoy the journey!




Jewelcrafter -> RE: Into the frey. Hi! (11/21/2012 11:04:16 AM)

Thank you MistressDarkArt.




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