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Laboratory -> Looking for an unusual slave (11/20/2012 5:29:40 AM)

[ originally I put this in "General BDSM" but the admin suggested I put it in Intros ]

Hi, all. I've been looking for a particular slave for quite some time with no success. I think I'll reverse things, and try to get the slave to come to me.

My wife and I are trying to find a slave to live in our household. S/he would be well cared for, and would have work to do. In other words, s/he would be a slave. (!) I want her to respect me, to obey me, and to feel that being my slave is her proper and desireable position. I might whip her, but if her obedience and respect were absolute (yeah, right) that wouldn't be necessary. I wouldn't fuck her, as a matter of fact, because that would upset my wife. The household as a whole would go forward, do good things, and be happy.

We would have a more organized and less frantic household, because there would be a member whose charter is to keep the household running smoothly. And there would be time allocated to allow her to do that. (!)

Is there any slave out there who wants that? Not kink, sex, torture (well, maybe a little). Work, obedience, respect, and a place in the household. You know, slavery?



crazyml -> RE: Looking for an unusual slave (11/20/2012 5:35:20 AM)

Hey there!

I'd recommend that you check out the Poly section here, your search isn't all that unusual, but as you'll discover - the kind of person you seem to be looking for is often referred to as a "unicorn".

It's not a hopeless quest, but I'd encourage you to be patient in your search.

Good luck!



Delilya -> RE: Looking for an unusual slave (11/20/2012 5:35:52 AM)

Will you be providing an income, medical and dental insurance, retirement benefits? What's in it for the slave, other than a roof over their heads? How will she be provided for if she becomes ill and unable to do her tasks?

Good luck.



ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Looking for an unusual slave (11/20/2012 6:48:59 AM)

What you are looking for is not unusual in the least, many couples are looking for the exact same thing.

What is unusual is to find someone who fits into your household AND who is willing to play a secondary role to the wife. This is why those people are termed a 'unicorn' - because they are rare indeed.

You seem to have given some thought as to what you want, but there is little indication you've thought of what you can provide, other than 'she will be well cared for.'

From this post and your profile, you appear entirely clueless as to how to go about inspiring submission. You might want to work on that. Your arrogant 'you should be my slave b/c *I* want one' is only going to appeal to those whose primary concern is needing a home, not those who give a single fuck about obeying, pleasing, or fitting into the household.

Oh and, welcome to the discussion side of CM.



DarkSteven -> RE: Looking for an unusual slave (11/20/2012 7:12:07 AM)

There are two of you. Why do neither of you appear in your four pictures?



BoundSlave4Life -> RE: Looking for an unusual slave (11/20/2012 7:18:30 AM)

So... You're looking for a Domestic slave that will cook, clean, tend to the house, and (From what I see) the only thing they'll get in return is a roof over their head? What do you have to offer said slave that they don't already have? What makes you different from all the rest? Right now, all I see is "I, I, I, I, I... Me Me Me Me Me". Why don't you figure out why a slave should choose you over one of the MANY other Poly homes.

You are demanding respect and obedience. Those aren't just granted. Those are earned, and trained into a slave. From the tone in your message you're expecting your slave to be trained and perfect. That's not going to happen. The tone of your profile and message reeks of "We want someone to do all of our house work so we don't have to", with the underlying tone of "I expect said slave to be perfect" stinks of laziness.




MstSebastian -> RE: Looking for an unusual slave (11/20/2012 10:38:00 AM)

I have to echo what others have said. From what you have presented, both here and in your profile, it seems you are looking for someone who will forgo any wants, needs, and desires they have in order to fulfill yours. You won't tell her she's pretty. You won't love her. Hell, you won't even have sex with her (all from your profile). In exchange for this, she will cook, clean, and wait on you and your wife hand and foot? What does she get out of all of this? It seems your desires are being met, but hers are being intentionally ignored.

I wish you the best luck in your search, because I have a feeling that it is going to take a LONG time to fulfill.



OsideGirl -> RE: Looking for an unusual slave (11/20/2012 10:40:40 AM)

Welcome to the forums.



AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Looking for an unusual slave (11/20/2012 11:13:20 AM)

Hi and welcome to the forums.

You are looking for a rare creature indeed. Your profile and your intro post seem to be about different things though (unless you have just edited your profile since posting this?) which is likely to cause some confusion for you. Good luck



kalikshama -> RE: Looking for an unusual slave (11/20/2012 11:46:49 AM)

quote:

I wouldn't fuck her, as a matter of fact, because that would upset my wife.


While I have had a few short term service-only relationships, I think this stipulation is going to make your search even more difficult.

Welcome to the forums!



BurntKitty -> RE: Looking for an unusual slave (11/20/2012 11:50:22 AM)

Welcome to CM.

Good luck in your search.



TheLilSquaw -> RE: Looking for an unusual slave (11/20/2012 12:00:01 PM)

Welcome to the forums.

I do have a question about your introduction post.

If you don't plan on being sexual with this slave is she going to be allowed to have outside sexual relationships?



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