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bootylover150 -> facesitting and strapons (11/23/2012 2:13:38 AM)

I have two questions for the mistresses here

one, do you enjoy facesitting a sub? do you make him service / worship you or just breath play or both? panties / no panties?

also, I've seen in my local area its hard to find, are there any mistresses here that enjoy facefucking a sub, making them gag, even to the point they puke? I've only found one mistress that would facefuck me, and I wasn't allowed to puke



masmiss -> RE: facesitting and strapons (11/23/2012 2:43:37 AM)

As other women on this forum have pointed out, if you ask the question "Does anyone......?" The answer has to be "yes". Because, somewhere, someone enjoys doing that.



DianeB269 -> RE: facesitting and strapons (11/23/2012 7:00:09 AM)

Yes, facesitting and strapon training are my top 2 things to do with my subs...



RemoteUser -> RE: facesitting and strapons (11/23/2012 9:29:11 AM)

Facesitting and breath play aren't inclusive, but they can be simultaneous, effectively so.

Good to see you know what you want, but why not say a little about yourself as well? If there is a Mistress here who enjoys those activities, they would certainly connect better with you if they knew what kind of things they could share with you other than the kink.



Ninebelowzero -> RE: facesitting and strapons (11/23/2012 11:13:31 AM)

Don't feed the wankers



QueenRah -> RE: facesitting and strapons (11/23/2012 4:52:00 PM)

OP - Thanks for ignoring the sign on the door (FAQ), stating, "Read this, first."



DianeB269 -> RE: facesitting and strapons (11/23/2012 7:55:21 PM)

The owner of collarme has spoken...



LadyPact -> RE: facesitting and strapons (11/24/2012 11:26:54 AM)

A sub? No. My sub? Yes.

However, there is no way on the planet I would ever have a sexual encounter of any kind with any person who wanted to puke on Me. I can't say that I'm terribly surprised that you can't find somebody who wants to engage in that with you. I'm pretty sure vomit ranks right up there with scat as far as popular hard limits.




BambiBoi -> RE: facesitting and strapons (11/24/2012 11:59:23 AM)

I love numbers, I love statistics, and I love demonstrable gender differences.

When you search for profiles on this site, here's the breakdown:

Keyword: "facesit"
Total Profiles: 100+
Male Profiles: 93%
Female Profiles: 7%

Keyword: "throat"
Total Profiles: 40
Male Profiles: 39
Female Profiles: 1

Keyword: "puke" (This really surprised me, though one of the 5 women seems to have misspelled "pucker" and a few others appear to be scam profiles)
Total Profiles: 15
Male Profiles: 10
Female Profiles: 5

Keyword: "vomit"
Total Profiles: 0

Keyword: "facefuck"
Total Profiles: 0

For a control...
Keyword: "flower"
Total Profiles: 92
Male Profiles: 18 (Though one is FloweRage, which I don't think should count...)
Female Profiles: 74

What does all this mean? Results are inconclusive, but when I ran the same tests on another site (FL), it seems you'd have way better luck of finding a gal who wants your stomach acid.





QueenRah -> RE: facesitting and strapons (11/24/2012 2:38:16 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: DianeB269

The owner of collarme has spoken...


It's good to be Queen...Rah.



NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: facesitting and strapons (11/24/2012 7:03:36 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: bootylover150

I have two questions for the mistresses here

one, do you enjoy facesitting a sub? do you make him service / worship you or just breath play or both? panties / no panties?
A sub? No. MY sub? Yes. Service & worship. I've never done breathplay yet.

also, I've seen in my local area its hard to find, are there any mistresses here that enjoy facefucking a sub, making them gag, even to the point they puke?
No, I don't facefuck anyone with my strap-on. I remember when I was a sub how much I totally hated being facefucked til my eyes watered, my nose snotted and I gagged & puked. I won't do that to anyone I care about.

NBMG






theRose4U -> RE: facesitting and strapons (11/24/2012 7:37:37 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

A sub? No. My sub? Yes.

However, there is no way on the planet I would ever have a sexual encounter of any kind with any person who wanted to puke on Me. I can't say that I'm terribly surprised that you can't find somebody who wants to engage in that with you. I'm pretty sure vomit ranks right up there with scat as far as popular hard limits.



Am I remembering correctly that vomiting is one of the "you've gone too far" signs for choking or smothering scenarios??



BambiBoi -> RE: facesitting and strapons (11/24/2012 8:44:43 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: theRose4U


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

A sub? No. My sub? Yes.

However, there is no way on the planet I would ever have a sexual encounter of any kind with any person who wanted to puke on Me. I can't say that I'm terribly surprised that you can't find somebody who wants to engage in that with you. I'm pretty sure vomit ranks right up there with scat as far as popular hard limits.



Am I remembering correctly that vomiting is one of the "you've gone too far" signs for choking or smothering scenarios??


Pornography is on a new kick where the bottom is forced to their fellationic limits. It's not "hardcore" anymore if she doesn't sound like she's trying to swallow a live boa constrictor.



AthenaSurrenders -> RE: facesitting and strapons (11/25/2012 2:18:59 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: BambiBoi

Pornography is on a new kick where the bottom is forced to their fellationic limits. It's not "hardcore" anymore if she doesn't sound like she's trying to swallow a live boa constrictor.


Yeh, what's with that? A little bit of gagging goes a long way. Also I find it hard to believe this is more enjoyable for the penis. If I'm focusing on not throwing up, my tongue is gonna be involuntarily clenched at the back of my mouth to protect myself and you're not going to be getting my A-game. I can do a much better job when I'm not fighting for breath.

I love 'fallationic' by the way (I've missed you Bambi!)



BambiBoi -> RE: facesitting and strapons (11/25/2012 8:21:49 AM)

I'm back to make up words for just a few days, then another 3 week sabbatical. Then I'll be a more regular contributor. I agree about oral skills, but the the OP's point, he is describing some extreme strap-on facefucking. The strap-on is fairly neutral on the topic of teeth, and the pleasure for the top does not stem (in large part) from physical sensation. I approach the topic of "phallus as a sign of power" argument, but ignore it to say its the "object making you struggle to breath as a sign of power."

I can't say I've ever received a strap-on blowjob. Is it as delightful as pornography generated for male submissives makes it appear?



AthenaSurrenders -> RE: facesitting and strapons (11/25/2012 8:45:41 AM)

You make a good point about physical pleasure. I was forgetting about the strap-on for a minute there and just thinking about blow jobs in general. I've never been on either end of a strap on so I'm not qualified to comment about the enjoyableness.



blackdic760 -> RE: facesitting and strapons (11/25/2012 5:48:19 PM)

Just a few weeks back in a session with my Dominant massage therapist, she asked me if I would enjoy an anal massage. Being a straight and conventional  man all my life, I had never had any experience with an anal massage. So I told her I was apprehensive and to explain. She said she would be gentle and I would like it the way she would introduce it to me. So hesitatingly I acquiesced and asked her what would be involved. Saying that experience would be the best answer, she prepared me to accept an anal massage, first with her fingers and lubing. As I was getting excited, she probed me with her fingers to make me more aroused. Then she said 'ok now you prepare yourself mentally to be my slut as I enter you', and began sensual motions with her thighs against my cheeks. She already had a strap-on harness with a perfect size vibrating device ready and from there on proceeded to introduce me to a new era in my sexual experience. Now whenever I visit her, we set aside sufficient time for her to enjoy me! She is a professional Domme as well as a CMT and intends to put a leash and a collar on me during our sessions in the future.



blackdic760 -> RE: facesitting and strapons (11/25/2012 5:55:37 PM)

I am not an experienced sub...but I have always been curious. A couple years back, I went through a set of 4 training sessions with a Mistress to teach me to be obedient and submissive. In one of the sessions she spent almost all the session teaching me how a Mistress can make her slave want to obey her by using asphyxiation techniques, a major one being one in which she used brutal face-sitting. It is exciting for a sub to learnwhat an expert Mistress can do for you to beg and be willing to obey her in everything she demands!



blackdic760 -> RE: facesitting and strapons (11/25/2012 6:00:14 PM)

In my little experience with a Mistress, she trained me to enjoy face-sitting as an obedience technique. Do you agree that it is a reasonable technique for a Domme to use to make her slave become more obedient?



blackdic760 -> RE: facesitting and strapons (11/25/2012 6:11:43 PM)

This line of discussion would turn me away from wanting to be in a situation who is being face-sit by his lovely Mistress!



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