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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

doesn't bother me at all.

why should it? If they are calling each other it, that's their life, not mine. If a stranger calls me something I don't like, I shrug it off and move on.

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ORIGINAL: theRose4U

So does this mean I'm actually NOT goddess of banana hammock? OMGi feel so traumatized!!![8D]

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ORIGINAL: MariaB

I don't care what anyone else does. If it makes them happy then who are we to tell them otherwise?

For me, I don't like titles. Any sub that calls me Mistress, Ma'am, Goddess will be bluntly told to call me by my real name. Fortunately Steve is the same because if I was ever to hear his sub calling him Master or Sir, I would be rolling my eyes and wondering who the hell I had married. Titles, as far as I'm concerned, make it all feel a little too much like a role-play fantasy game.

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ORIGINAL: theRose4U

So does this mean I'm actually NOT goddess of banana hammock? OMGi feel so traumatized!!![8D]

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

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ORIGINAL: theRose4U

So does this mean I'm actually NOT goddess of banana hammock? OMGi feel so traumatized!!![8D]

Careful now. If Alpha sees this you may find it under your name.

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ORIGINAL: Kerjin

I agree with what everyone is saying. The use of "certain" names is up to each couples dynamic. In my case, I prefer my girl to call me "Sir" or "Master" when responding to a direction or command from me. When in public, less "Formal" names are acceptable, though "Yes sir" is always a good fail safe. As far as speaking to other Dominants (Male or Female), I prefer my girl to show respect with a "Yes Sir/Ma'am". My girl also is allowed to use a "pet" name for me when we are speaking to each other in "normal" or mundane, circumstances.